Femboy Identity, Trans Inclusion & Body Comparisons
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I wanted to open a discussion on a delicate subject, without attacking anyone.
I am in the femboy community and I greatly admire certain creators, whether they are cis or trans. But sometimes I realize that I compare myself physically to them.
I was wondering: when a creator gives advice related to the physical (body evolution, diet, sports, etc.), wouldn’t it be useful to have some hormonal context or background?
Not to invalidate anyone, but to avoid unrealistic comparisons
Personally, it would help me not to judge myself or say 'I should be able to achieve that'.
And I also noticed that there are sometimes debates in the community about whether or not trans people can be femboy.
Some say that “trans = impossible to be femboy”.
Personally, I find this idea strange. Femboys are already a minority. Dividing further seems counterproductive to me.
I would be curious to have your opinions on this, respectfully.
Ah and to give a bit of context:
I am still a bit of a 'beginner' in the femboy universe. I explore little by little, whether it’s in the style or in the way I perceive myself.
Honestly, I’m still trying to find my identity. Sometimes I wonder if I could be trans, sometimes I question myself about being genderfluid... I’m still thinking.
The only thing I am sure of for now is that I am gynosexual.
