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probably going to let this place die out, mee6 is tryna charge me for the year and I dont feel like paying for it. I won't delete or nothing, but I just dont have the time to keep up anymore, im onto bigger n better things :A_e_uwu:

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Congratulations @MexicanJesus, @𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐃𝐎𝐖, you won Nitro x 2 Winners!

oh if youre not verified youre not getting this btw

Good morning little beans.

I think its time to have a little fun again, I'm gonna run back the Server Daddy competition.

If you're interested then go send your hard campaign in the #╰﹕server-events and do some campaigning around the server.

I will do an official voting for it at the end of this month. Have fun, and be creative. :xo_4yellowhands:

xoxo :0p11kiss:

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love yall

for getting over 400 members

Nitro x 2 Winners

Time Remaining: March 01, 2026 (Timer)
Hosted By: @🖤 IVY 🖤

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## Nitro x 2 Winners **Time Remaining:** **March 01, 2026** …

I'm looking to hire new staff members, so if its something you're interested in, or something you would like to bring to the server. Please come open a ticket #┊﹕⋆˙⟡support-tickets

Especially looking for someone to make some partnerships.

anyways xoxo stay safe :0p11kiss:
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I made a participating playlist for the server, I always love finding new music so add away.

Happy Valenwhores Day, I hope you get stuffed.

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5iciPEqpkxCiBkZKB3p4uA?si=lUZWkRhhSL2CRCRob2Aq4A&pt=46a6400803cef2b7dc0ea9a9859a2881&pi=Bwbc5TkIQHKcD

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Desire 18+: A Safe Space for All Feelings

Today can feel sweet 🌸, heavy 🕯️, complicated 🌧️, quiet 🤍 or all of the above. Whatever today brings up for you is valid here.
If you’re partnered 💑, single 🌙, healing 🫶, grieving 🕊️, or somewhere in between, please remember this:
✨ You are loved.
✨ You are valued.
✨ You are wanted here exactly as you are.
If today feels tender or lonely 💔, this is your reminder that you are not unlovable, not behind, and not forgotten 🌱. Love doesn’t only live in romantic relationships 💞 it exists in friendships 🫂, chosen family 🏡, laughter 😊, softness 🌷, rest 🛌, and simply being here.
You don’t need a partner to be worthy of care today 🤍.
This community sees you 👀, holds you 🤲, and is glad you exist ✨.
Sending love in every form it takes 💕🌈

support community self-love

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Congratulations @Donald Dillium, you won Discord Nitro one month because im bored!

you cant previously have nitro to claim this one

@⋆✴︎˚｡⋆giveaway

Discord Nitro one month because im bored

Time Remaining: December 26, 2025 (Timer)
Hosted By: @Ren

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## Discord Nitro one month because im bored **Time Remaining:** …

✨🎄 Merry Christmas, Cosmic Chaos 🎄✨

This season, we just want to say thank you for being the heart of this universe. Every chat, laugh, late-night convo, and shared moment makes this server feel like home. Whether you’re celebrating big or keeping things quiet, you’re never alone here — you’re part of our cosmic family.

Wishing you warmth, peace, love, and a little chaos in the best way. 💫
Here’s to new memories, brighter stars, and an even better year ahead.

❤️🌌

Holidays Feeling Heavy? You're Not Alone

If the holidays feel heavy instead of warm, that’s okay. This time of year can bring a lot to the surface like missing people who are gone, relationships that ended, friendships that changed, or simply noticing how different things feel now. Sometimes it’s not one big loss, just the weight of many small ones.

If you’re spending the holidays alone or away from family, I see you. That kind of distance can feel especially tender right now. It doesn’t mean you’re doing life wrong or that you don’t belong. It just means this season is asking for a little more gentleness.

You don’t have to be cheerful here. You don’t have to pretend you’re okay. If all you’re doing is getting through the day, that’s enough. Feeling sad, quiet, tired, or overwhelmed is allowed.

Take the space you need. Reach out if it feels safe. And if nothing else, know that you’re not alone here. I’m really glad you’re here, exactly as you are. 🤍❤️

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HoHoHo :SantaPepe:

we could all use some Christmas cheer!
I need 11 volunteers to be apart of a little server jingle to bring a little Chris crinkle into our group mingle!

React below with a 🎄 so I know who is ok to be apart of this NSFW jingle and see what part you play!

Don’t be a grinch!!! :Grinch:

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Since I'm out of town, I'm most likely going to have to cancel this month's events. @⋆✴︎˚｡⋆cosmic update

Desire 18+: Author M.K. Taylor Q&A Event

attention smut readers there’s fun things brewing :giggle_DD:

I’m beyond excited to announce that we have a very special event coming up featuring the author of Lust, Lies, and Murder - a Killers Game of Seduction!!

the one and only :3685yellowsparklingstars: M.K Taylor :3685yellowsparklingstars: has joined us for an exclusive Q and A!

if you haven’t verified to gain access to the rest of the server head over to verification to join in on this once in a lifetime opportunity to interact with our special guest as this event is NSFW only!

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smut readers nsfw event mk taylor

Desire 18+ Winter Event Extravaganza Starts!

🎄✨ HOLIDAY SEASON HAS OFFICIALLY BEGUN ✨🎄

Attention everyone — we’re going ALL OUT this holiday season 🤍
December is packed with events, rewards, chaos, and cozy vibes.

Welcome to our WINTER EVENT EXTRAVAGANZA ❄️🎁

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🎅 CORE HOLIDAY EVENTS
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🎄 12 Days of Christmas
Daily rewards, surprises, and festive drops from Dec 1–12
(Missing a day = missing a gift 👀)

🎅💚 SANTA VS GRINCH
Pick a team and earn points all month by:
- Chatting
- Playing games
- Joining events
- Winning challenges

🏆 Winning team gets exclusive rewards — losing team still eats good 😌

🎁 Secret Santa Exchange
- Randomly assigned
- $50 spending limit
Thoughtful > expensive 🤍

✉️ Write Santa a Letter
Write cozy, funny, or heartfelt letters to Santa
Some may get replies… some may get rewards 👀🎅

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🎮 GAME & SOCIAL EVENTS
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🎮 Jackbox Party Game Night
- Join VC
- Play, watch, or vote
- Chaos guaranteed

🧠 Holiday Trivia Night
Test your Christmas knowledge for coins & roles

🖍️ Draw Santa… Badly
Bad art encouraged.
Talent optional.
Vibes required.

☕ Cozy Movie Night
Blankets, snacks, and comfort movies only 🕯️

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💸 ECONOMY & GIVEAWAYS
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🎅 Santa Drops
Random surprise drops throughout the season — stay alert 👀

🎁 Christmas Eve Mega Giveaway
Our biggest giveaway of the year 🎄

🎲 50 / 50 Event
Enter for a chance to win 50% of the pot
The bigger the pool, the bigger the win 💰

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🏆 END-OF-SEASON FUN
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🎅 Holiday Awards
Fun titles, bragging rights, and festive roles

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🎀 IMPORTANT NOTES
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  • Participate often — events = rewards
  • Be kind & festive (Grinches get minus points 😈)
  • Keep an eye on event channels & pings
  • There’s something for EVERYONE — chatty or chill 🤍

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🎄✨
This season is about community, fun, and making memories.
Thank you for being here — let’s make this December unforgettable.
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WATCH FOR PINGS FOR EVENTS

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@⋆✴︎˚｡⋆cosmic update THERE IS A FREE JACKBOX PARTY PACK TODAY ON EPIC

https://cosmic-chaos-merch.myshopify.com/

Cosmic Chaos Merch

Cosmic Chaos Merch

Glad I could be there to witness it.

Desire 18+ Thanksgiving Gratitude Post

🧡🍂 Happy Thanksgiving, everyone! 🦃✨
I hope today brings you good food, warm company, and a moment to rest your heart. I'm grateful for this community for the chaos, the memes, the late-night conversations, the support we offer each other, and all the little moments that make this space feel like home.
May your plates be full, your naps be elite, and your internet connection stay strong. 😄
And beyond all the fun, I hope today reminds you of the small joys: the people who listen, the ones who make you laugh, and the comfort of belonging somewhere real.
Thank you for bringing your energy, your kindness, and your presence here.
Grateful for each of you today and always. 🤎🍁

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING ALL OF OUR AMERICAN FRIENDS 🧡 🦃🍗

I hope you stuff your faces with lots of good food, but most importantly stay safe out there. No drinking n driving.

If you find yourself with nothing to do this weekend, @ me and I'll stream a movie or we can play games.

xoxo mwah :0p11kiss:

@⋆✴︎˚｡⋆cosmic update

I updated the #┊﹕✧˖°roles so take a good look. Also added something in #╭﹕access

WHO SHALL BE NAMED SERVER DADDY.

Server Daddy event od almost over, Remember to finalize your votes in #server-daddy
Server Daddy will be crowned on the 18th.

May the strongest Daddy win. :smileeee:

Please don't forget to choose roles too @Unverified

Hey guys,
Needed to make an announcement as it has come to Admins attention that there is quite a lot of people in this server that are unverified. We feel like we have given you all a lot of chances to get verified but still haven't so @Unverified please get verified within 24 hours or we will have to take further actions. This is the last time we will ask. Thank you.

also, Admin, I shouldn't be able to post here so fix that 😂

WHO SHALL BE NAMED SERVER DADDY.

We're throwing another Server Daddy event. You must start a thread in #server-daddy and tell us why you should receive this role. The people of the server will then vote, by reacting to only one thread. You have 1 week starting today.
Impress us. It's also good if you're active around the server to stack those votes.

May the strongest Daddy win. :smileeee:

:620166pinkhangingstars: @Cosmic Updates I WOULD LIKE TO WISH MY ADMIN @Ash A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎂 🥳 🎉 :catjump: :620166pinkhangingstars:

:620166pinkhangingstars: I hope its nothing is short of magical for you and you have a very wonderful day! :catjump: :620166pinkhangingstars:

Happy Halloween ya spooky freaks! I hope yall stay safe out there tonight. If you find yourself in a situation, just think, What Would Selulu/Ivy Do?

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