Healthy Relationships: Why Your Partner Should Feel Safe

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This discussion at FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime explores the importance of creating a safe, supportive environment for partners. The community reflects on the challenges of vulnerability, the impact of manipulation in modern dating, and why it is essential to foster trust. It serves as a reminder to prioritize kindness and genuine connection within our relationships.

fairraven-96 OP

sigh. okay, now what i mean is, if your partner is sick, or mentally feeling bad and they come to you looking to talk to someone and they choose you. so when they choose you they are seeking assistance. but now if they came to you vulnerable crying, anxious, something like they literally NEED someone they shouldn't be scared to talk. now thats a whole different thing if they are traumatized from something, or if they aren't great at opening up. Lets be nice, and respectful to the people we love and get them to trust you more.im so sorry if this makes no sense i feel like im in a fever dream

happyorange-74

I'm more concerned about your bio twin 🙂

fairraven-96 OP

oh uh

fairraven-96 OP

song lyrics dont bomb me

@fairraven-96 song lyrics dont bomb me
happyorange-74

Crazy 😭

fairraven-96 OP

i got timed out.

@fairraven-96 sigh. okay, now what i mean is, if your partner is sick, or mentally feeling bad and they come to y…
snowyorange-96

Okay so like

fairraven-96 OP

yeess..?

snowyorange-96

Sometimes people needs support

snowyorange-96

Its how it is

snowyorange-96

With humans

fairraven-96 OP

thats the whole piont of this

fairraven-96 OP

..

fairraven-96 OP

my spelling

fairraven-96 OP

this post is ABOUT supporting your partner

snowyorange-96

I have an issue understanding ur point

snowyorange-96

I ser

fairraven-96 OP

fair, im sorry if this makes not a lot of sense

@fairraven-96 this post is ABOUT supporting your partner
snowyorange-96

Well ofc many will support a partner but depends on the ones who really loves them

snowyorange-96

Now days people fake love

snowyorange-96

So people gets more broken

fairraven-96 OP

mhm

@fairraven-96 fair, im sorry if this makes not a lot of sense
snowyorange-96

No its not ur fault dw

fairraven-96 OP

i just have learned that some peoples partners have to be scared to even mention asking for help

fairraven-96 OP

and unfortunately ive been in relationships like that

snowyorange-96

Thats bc people go for a length and destroy a person so much that people cant see good anymore

snowyorange-96

And it takes long time

fairraven-96 OP

100%

fairraven-96 OP

like, its not worth draining someone just for nothing.

snowyorange-96

Many people loves to have control over others so they want to break them

snowyorange-96

To manipulate and have to their advantage

snowyorange-96

And if it wont work they move on to next person

@fairraven-96 like, its not worth draining someone just for nothing.
snowyorange-96

Yes but now people are faking being kind

snowyorange-96

So its difficult knowing who u date

fairraven-96 OP

mhm

fairraven-96 OP

i just find it ironic that people say to not online date and stuff cause it can hurt you or screw up your life, but irl dating is so bad now a days. either they are toxic,dry, or just arent good people. and even the people online are like that and you dont know what they are doiing behind the screen this is lowk off topic and i just realizzed that

@fairraven-96 i just find it ironic that people say to not online date and stuff cause it can hurt you or screw u…
snowyorange-96

Online is to an extreme lvl too but yes irl can damage you more if you find a partner that does damage control, and i did not notice its off topic, tbh idk how to help people in such situations but like to tell them ur opinions and stuff i belive is ok and they choose for themself what path they wants

snowyorange-96

If they wanna stay broken or rebuild

@snowyorange-96 If they wanna stay broken or rebuild
fairraven-96 OP

mhm, because it might hurt too much to rebuild so staying broken is the safest option

@fairraven-96 mhm, because it might hurt too much to rebuild so staying broken is the safest option
snowyorange-96

Not really

snowyorange-96

Staying broken will be like having infinity hurt

snowyorange-96

And always crying

snowyorange-96

Or other things

snowyorange-96

Which can harm u

snowyorange-96

If u rebuild ur self you are choosing you

snowyorange-96

And the positivity in life

fairraven-96 OP

but what if they try to rebuild, and they have thier moments, but then the moment somebody gets you at a vulnerable spot what if they come back down farther then they were

fairraven-96 OP

i dont mean styaing beaten and stuff

fairraven-96 OP

i mean like getting help, but not pushing it

fairraven-96 OP

yes , staying broken will hurt you, but some people might not having another option

@fairraven-96 but what if they try to rebuild, and they have thier moments, but then the moment somebody gets you…
snowyorange-96

Well if they have gone further down bc of someone then someone else has to step in

snowyorange-96

And show how much they are valued

fairraven-96 OP

100% not arguing with tht

snowyorange-96

Like theraphy dosent always help

fairraven-96 OP

im aware

snowyorange-96

But like having someone close

snowyorange-96

Is enough

@fairraven-96 i mean like getting help, but not pushing it
snowyorange-96

Sometimes you have to push

snowyorange-96

To know where u can help them

fairraven-96 OP

idk , this was just an opinion

@fairraven-96 idk , this was just an opinion
snowyorange-96

Yeah i understand

fairraven-96 OP

im not good with speaking up for what i think unfortunately

fairraven-96 OP

anyways

fairraven-96 OP

thank you for your time

@fairraven-96 im not good with speaking up for what i think unfortunately
snowyorange-96

Its ok but atleast u try

snowyorange-96

And thats enough

snowyorange-96

U should be proud of ur self for that

snowyorange-96

:dogrun:

fairraven-96 OP

awh thank you so much

fairraven-96 OP

hope you have a great day or night or afternoon

snowyorange-96

U too

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