How to Support Friends Struggling with Negativity

Be there for them

Tell them good things

Talk about good things

Maybe a hug gif

If they need it

And listening

I think thats all

oki loevy

thank u

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just be there for them emotionally but dont let them only have u

it can become toxic and unhealthy

advice them to open up to close friends and family

yes i agree thank u

there is a sky and he’s really down like not really confident and I was just trying to bring it up because he’s a really good guy. He deserves it. I think everyone deserves to feel special, including like a lot of my friends but this guy means a lot to me actually he’s my boyfriend like he shouldn’t see himself anything other than special

Is he in this server....?

like and I know that’s an impossible ask knowing like everyone has insecurities and doubts and everything. It shouldn’t be every day.ykv

he is ya

i’m not gonna talk about his insecurities here cause it’s kind of wrong but you know I’m just trying to help him and advice doesn’t hurt

like I guess I could help him more but like I can’t do everything you know

and he’s like such a big supporter of me and what I do and like I don’t know he’s amazing. I just wanna be like the same for him. I wanna do the same thing.

yeah fr...without her it could be much worse

he like told me multiple times that like I’ve like changed his life and all that and like I mean so much to him and I say the exact same thing about him obviously just knowing what he’s gone through

they like changes the image of him in my mind and you know when he talks bad about himself it really it hurts me. It hurts him, but it hurts me too.

u can't jus remove his insecurities..just tell him that these things never matter and he's a much better person..

ya u agree and love this

I mean, I made my favorite mistakes. I’m not perfect and I know he’s not perfect either but like we support each other we love each other. He’s honestly like amazing like I have nothing bad on him like at all.

like if I were to say one bad thing about him, is that like his insecurities which again can’t change that and I’m OK with that you know

like I’m not someone to judge on what you do and how you do it and all the mistakes you’ve made in life like it doesn’t matter to me

tell him that him being a good partner and a supporter matters the most to u..any other thing doesnt even come close to it...insecurities can really damage a person

that goes for everyone though like I see people as not perfect and everyone makes mistakes and people arguing people fighting. That’s just what we do with humans so I have no right to judge people

i agree

Just keep making him feel loved
Gradually he would gain confidence and esteem ig

ya!!

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idk tbh

i don’t think so

nah

Idk but i love frogs

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