Is Male Loneliness Self-Inflicted? Deep Dive Discussion

how will u know if u close off to the world

yeah i feel bad for those people but i mean more incels who are really into harmful spaces for woman and then complain that they are single or dying alone

I mean that would mean every experience was bad for you to want to give no one else a chance but thats probably not the case you probably had atleast 1 good social interaction

and new spaces and new people are always good and worth trying

even if u had trouble in the past

true and this is such a mature take on these kind of men

do u think they can change or after a certain point no?

aw well i hope u find ur people no one deserves to be alone for no good reason

i hope u take some time to work on ur mental health and get back out there bc u also deserve friends or a partner if u want that too

as in every person on earth

you said basically they dont deserve me which refers to future friends or partners

saying they as in literally anyone u might meet doesnt deserve u could be anyone or everyone on earth 😭

well how old are u for perspective

if ur okay with sharing

well i think u can still meet lots of great people at ur age and older so why shut off now

u just started ur 20s go socialise lol u will enjoy iy

fair enough ur allowed to feel that way

but total isolation for long periods of time can lead to depression

i mean for friends too more than partners

what do u mean asymmetires in dating. do u believe in hypergamy

i guess less believe but are u talking about that?

yeah true

yep ur points valid

but go in more detail on the last one

so you think relationships arent worth it if both genders play traditional roles exactly?

or not worth it for men

i think if she loves u she will shower u with attention

i think theres effort on both sides if its a good woman and good man

also if a man loves a woman a lot i dont think he would see giving her attention as effort but rather something he would want to do

so he can spend time with her and probably want to get her gifts too

u brought up attention

well yeah u should give someone u love attention if shes ur wife or girlfriend

why would u randomly stop

as in?

be more specific

i think all are expected from both sides

no one carries a larger burden there

how so

ohh alright!!

yeah for sure it does

its unfair but they do get pushed out of social situations because some people view others with mental health issues as less than

Honestly speaking
I would say yes partially
Tho not directly their fault but the misogynistic system
They keep feeding men with toxicity
No reasonable woman or lady would like a toxic man
So this would make any relationship they have fail cus of the toxic characters.
You don't need toxic masculinity to be respected and loved as a man
You would only get more bitter and frustrated
If you want to be loved and have peace break free from toxic misogynistic society and maybe you find someone who would love you....

amazing take 👏 👏

This 🤏
And they would also be the ones playing tough guy on the surface when they are dying inside....
You want an angel but you are a devil
Pathetic...

literaal truth bomb ur so based

Everyone get heartbreak
It would only take a matured person to work on himself and move on....

then they cry about not having a gf when they literally rot their brains w p-rn and bp

Nah....
In a healthy relationship both sides received equal treatment

Women tend to try in making their relationship work general
Tho there are toxic women out there...

And they expect to get an angel
The worst part is some may even have that angel but still treat her like sh*t
Then when she leaves they will start playing victim

Men’s choices can exacerbate loneliness, but they do not fully explain it. Addressing it effectively requires both individual action and shifts in social/cultural norms that facilitate male friendship and support-seeking.

Male loneliness is not entirely self-inflicted, but individual behaviors do contribute alongside broader social and structural factors.

Don’t thank me. I’d rather be useless than responsible for helping someone like you.

I don’t need to know anything about you. The fact that ‘good effort buddy’ is your best comeback already told me everything worth knowing

I have to use AI, because talking to you dropped my IQ to the point I couldn’t spell ....comeback’ without help.
Lol😂

Any person who loves you would be jealous and clingy
Tho everyone has their type

You’re announcing cringe to a room that doesn’t exist because it’s the only way anyone would listen to you. Even your imaginary audience is trying to leave

You’re announcing cringe to a room that doesn’t exist because it’s the only way anyone would listen to you. Even your imaginary audience is trying to leave

Ok bro you win

Congratulations, you just wrote a job description for an emotional parasite. You don’t want a friend, you want a host to drain until there’s nothing left. Go stalk someone else ....I’m not your life support.

Ok bro you win

I was just messing around

🙂 i hope you doesn't feel bad

Apologies!

That isn't being clingy it is disrespect and being a narcissist

Actually I do write poems,and as always I kinda sound like ...Ai type shit

It is obvious....
Them sounding unnecessarily formal....
No emotion just straight up words
Adding full stop and commas like they are writing a job application...
Etc

Be there would still be feeling in their right up

Ai write up is obvious
Just plain...

It is also easy to stop those using translator too...
Almost same thing but this a little bit different

what

If they want they can if they don't want no shame in it

Why killing yourself to be perfect in another's people language when they don't know a word in yours
If you want to learn another language a good thing but that doesn't mean you should ridicule yourself if you aren't perfect in it

Learning 7 different languages of recent including Spanish

Like I stated earlier learning new things should be done
Improve yourself not to impress others

Who cares about them
Do it for yourself not because you feel need to be accepted by them

Still in basics.... For now

You will only get depressed and have low self esteem if you follow that

Nah....

Being approved is different from seeking approval

Doing things because it is right
Is different from doing things because you want people to think you are doing them right

Well everyone with their choice

And that is it
That moral perception would be approved if right without you seeking the approval in the first place...

Like I said everyone with their choices

No

Maybe yah

Yes, bout 90%