Is Physical Intimacy Cheating in Long Distance Relationships

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server is buzzing with a controversial debate regarding physical needs in long-distance relationships. Members are passionately discussing whether seeking physical outlets while apart constitutes cheating or if it is simply a matter of personal arrangement. This thread highlights the diverse perspectives within our community on commitment, boundaries, and the realities of modern digital dating...

quiethammer-89 OP

If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we meet, no love, but just for needs.

its not cheating and it should be acceptable. for long distance only.

its insecurity or lack of accepting their needs if you disagree.

quiethammer-89 OP

this is for long distance relationships.

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
jadetiger-51

ts lowk like me asking my buddies if I should have a 25th beer, knowing full well I'm going to drink that 25th beer anyway, and I'm lowk only looking for support for a course of action I've already set my mind too, while still knowing i'm probably going to die or blackout that night.

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
jadetiger-51

Why would you go into a long-distance relationship while knowing that you have 'needs' that a long-distance partner can't fufill????

quiethammer-89 OP

THIS IS HOT TAKES

@jadetiger-51 Why would you go into a long-distance relationship while knowing that you have 'needs' that a long-…
quiethammer-89 OP

for their personality

quiethammer-89 OP

its true tho

@jadetiger-51 Why would you go into a long-distance relationship while knowing that you have 'needs' that a long-…
jadetiger-51

It's like sticking your finger in a blender and blaming the blender. 😭

@quiethammer-89 THIS IS HOT TAKES
jadetiger-51

Fair enuff.

jadetiger-51

Defend yo take or bear the same of 'ahh take' haver.

solargarden-53

This is the most hot take thing I’ve ever seen here holy shit

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
sharpdolphin-67

This for sure cheating
Even tho y’all don’t know each other physically irl
But I mean hey online dating can happen if it’s dedication and commitment
It’s very rare nowadays but only time will truly tell

@sharpdolphin-67 This for sure cheating Even tho y’all don’t know each other physically irl But I mean hey online da…
quiethammer-89 OP

its literally not cheating

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
sunnyjester-27

Trying to minimize and normalized cheating lol, if you have need then don't do distance relationship

@sunnyjester-27 Trying to minimize and normalized cheating lol, if you have need then don't do distance relationship
quiethammer-89 OP

its not cheating

@quiethammer-89 its not cheating
sunnyjester-27

What is it?

@sunnyjester-27 What is it?
quiethammer-89 OP

Its an arragement. natural desite

youngsummit-15

I guess as long as you both agree to it, its fine. would never personally do this tho. It's like those open relationships ig

@quiethammer-89 Its an arragement. natural desite
sunnyjester-27

Are you that desperate to the point that you need more than one guy to feel good

@sunnyjester-27 Are you that desperate to the point that you need more than one guy to feel good
quiethammer-89 OP

u cant please many guys?

@quiethammer-89 u cant please many guys?
sunnyjester-27

No, I have more important goals

@sunnyjester-27 No, I have more important goals
quiethammer-89 OP

like what

@quiethammer-89 its literally not cheating
jadetiger-51

Survival of the fittest, my neighbour being alive means there's a smaller chance of my mall having exactly what I need, I should kill him, since it's not murder.

🙄

If you wanna fuck, talk it over with yo partner. 💀

You came into the relationship knowing full well you had needs.

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
magictiger-90

idk man sounds like cucking

@quiethammer-89 its literally not cheating
sharpdolphin-67

It technically counts as cheating

@quiethammer-89 like what
sunnyjester-27

Good you're interested but I don't share that w stranger

@jadetiger-51 Survival of the fittest, my neighbour being alive means there's a smaller chance of my mall having…
sunnyjester-27

Lol, it's insane, it's like I want to be in a relationship but I don't want to be committed to you

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
swiftorchid-87

somethings tells me this is a post made to cope with certain actions taken:Smirkk:

@swiftorchid-87 somethings tells me this is a post made to cope with certain actions taken
quiethammer-89 OP

no. youre wrong

@sunnyjester-27 Lol, it's insane, it's like I want to be in a relationship but I don't want to be committed to you
quiethammer-89 OP

you are such a pick me

@sharpdolphin-67 It technically counts as cheating
quiethammer-89 OP

it aint cheating

@magictiger-90 idk man sounds like cucking
quiethammer-89 OP

cucking?

@quiethammer-89 it aint cheating
sharpdolphin-67

It literally is

@sharpdolphin-67 It literally is
quiethammer-89 OP

its not. just physical needs

@quiethammer-89 its not. just physical needs
sharpdolphin-67

Yeah say it again for more than 10 times

@quiethammer-89 its not. just physical needs
swiftorchid-87

then why even be in online relationship to begin with

swiftorchid-87

🤷‍♂️

swiftorchid-87

or ldr

@swiftorchid-87 then why even be in online relationship to begin with
quiethammer-89 OP

some people are nice and comforting or they move away after being tg irl for college or job

@quiethammer-89 cucking?
magictiger-90

girl just you and your partner like do it on face time together

@magictiger-90 girl just you and your partner like do it on face time together
quiethammer-89 OP

facetime aint irl. it doesnt feel as good

@sharpdolphin-67 Yeah say it again for more than 10 times
quiethammer-89 OP

ur just insecure

swiftorchid-87

Ragebait:pepethink2: ?/

@quiethammer-89 ur just insecure
sharpdolphin-67

It aint insecurity atp
Like if ur talking to somebody else irl while ur in a LDR obvs thats signs of cheating right there
(You’re for sure ragebaiting)

@quiethammer-89 you are such a pick me
sunnyjester-27

Lol I don't go around sleeping w any random guys do feel a bit important, you see the difference

@swiftorchid-87 Ragebait ?/
quiethammer-89 OP

nope. this is hot tae

quiethammer-89 OP

take

@sharpdolphin-67 It aint insecurity atp Like if ur talking to somebody else irl while ur in a LDR obvs thats signs o…
quiethammer-89 OP

yall are too insecure

@quiethammer-89 nope. this is hot tae
swiftorchid-87

so its like a open relationship atp

@sunnyjester-27 Lol I don't go around sleeping w any random guys do feel a bit important, you see the difference
quiethammer-89 OP

ur a religious bumpkin

@swiftorchid-87 so its like a open relationship atp
quiethammer-89 OP

kinda

@quiethammer-89 yall are too insecure
sharpdolphin-67

🤷‍♂️

@quiethammer-89 kinda
swiftorchid-87

It is

swiftorchid-87

if ur doing all this with consent of ur partner

swiftorchid-87

then i think it is

sharpdolphin-67

That is only if it is considerably an open relationship

sharpdolphin-67

But most of the time its not really the case

@quiethammer-89 ur a religious bumpkin
sunnyjester-27

You got it, and you're desperate

@sharpdolphin-67 That is only if it is considerably an open relationship
swiftorchid-87

she said Kinda..so def not open relationship with consent ig

swiftorchid-87

so its just cheating atp

@swiftorchid-87 she said Kinda..so def not open relationship with consent ig
sharpdolphin-67

Yeah I can see it for sure

@swiftorchid-87 she said Kinda..so def not open relationship with consent ig
quiethammer-89 OP

they dont gotta know everything bout your life

@sharpdolphin-67 Yeah I can see it for sure
quiethammer-89 OP

k wtv

@quiethammer-89 they dont gotta know everything bout your life
swiftorchid-87

broski...

@swiftorchid-87 broski...
quiethammer-89 OP

what

@quiethammer-89 what
swiftorchid-87

thats cheating

swiftorchid-87

nothing else

@swiftorchid-87 thats cheating
quiethammer-89 OP

its not tho

quiethammer-89 OP

cheaing would be irl

quiethammer-89 OP

if you were tg irl

swiftorchid-87

so ldr doesnt mean much to u

swiftorchid-87

??

@swiftorchid-87 so ldr doesnt mean much to u
quiethammer-89 OP

its an emotional connnection

sunnyzephyr-89

Wtf no matter what, that's definitely cheating and disloyalty, doesn't matter even if it's long distance, should respect the partner and their feelings

@quiethammer-89 its an emotional connnection
swiftorchid-87

:cathammer:

swiftorchid-87

Hmm this a post to cope with some thoughts and actions fs

@sunnyzephyr-89 Wtf no matter what, that's definitely cheating and disloyalty, doesn't matter even if it's long dis…
quiethammer-89 OP

i respect my partner

quiethammer-89 OP

always

@swiftorchid-87 Hmm this a post to cope with some thoughts and actions fs
quiethammer-89 OP

its not

@quiethammer-89 i respect my partner
swiftorchid-87

by fucking another dude..??

swiftorchid-87

is that what u call respect

@quiethammer-89 i respect my partner
sunnyzephyr-89

If that person did accept on this shit,you both doesn't have anything at all

@sunnyzephyr-89 If that person did accept on this shit,you both doesn't have anything at all
quiethammer-89 OP

first go and learn proper english

@swiftorchid-87 by fucking another dude..??
sunnyzephyr-89

For real, doesn't make any sense at all

@quiethammer-89 first go and learn proper english
sunnyzephyr-89

Why would I? For you?

@sunnyzephyr-89 Why would I? For you?
quiethammer-89 OP

illiterate

@quiethammer-89 illiterate
sunnyzephyr-89

Just like you

@sunnyzephyr-89 Just like you
quiethammer-89 OP

wait aint you the korean/japanese looking girl?

@quiethammer-89 wait aint you the korean/japanese looking girl?
sunnyzephyr-89

I'm German

@sunnyzephyr-89 I'm German
quiethammer-89 OP

ik ur bf

quiethammer-89 OP

hes a fucking creep

@quiethammer-89 hes a fucking creep
sunnyzephyr-89

Hell no girl

sunnyzephyr-89

You don't know my bf

@sunnyzephyr-89 You don't know my bf
quiethammer-89 OP

i can tell his @

quiethammer-89 OP

i know him

quiethammer-89 OP

he was being creepy to me

quiethammer-89 OP

i blocked him

sunnyzephyr-89

Who are you even talking about?

sunnyzephyr-89

My bf is Zack

quiethammer-89 OP

i know him

sunnyzephyr-89

Show me screenshot

quiethammer-89 OP

iamzack67?

quiethammer-89 OP

is that hs @

quiethammer-89 OP

he was asking me for disgusting pics ifyk

quiethammer-89 OP

and trying to do weird shit

quiethammer-89 OP

i blocked him and reported him

quiethammer-89 OP

fking creep

sunnyzephyr-89

That's not my partner

quiethammer-89 OP

ok good

sunnyzephyr-89

Yeah and mine ain't definitely asking anything to anyone

@quiethammer-89 i respect my partner
snowyjungle-82

Respect yet still cheating
If it was something right why hiding it in the name of they don't need to know about everything about your life "

@swiftorchid-87 Hmm this a post to cope with some thoughts and actions fs
snowyjungle-82

Obviously
Since she claim it's okay why asking for our opinion
This is all coping and feeling guilty

quiethammer-89 OP

yeah he was

quiethammer-89 OP

iamzack67

quiethammer-89 OP

creep

@snowyjungle-82 Respect yet still cheating If it was something right why hiding it in the name of they don't need t…
quiethammer-89 OP

not hiding. he didnt ask so

quiethammer-89 OP

youre weird. i dont like ur dm

quiethammer-89 OP

who?

quiethammer-89 OP

its not cheating

snowyjungle-82

All your comments are baseless dude....
You are cheating that is fact
Trying to claim being faithful just increase the irony making you also dumb and not just a cheater

snowyjungle-82

Still went ahead saying you respect him
Omy.....

@quiethammer-89 If we're dating online its okay for us to have irl fwb or physical outlet for our needs until we me…
grandquiver-69

No it's kinda weird to have that

grandquiver-69

I'm guessing friends with benefits... That whole concept is weird

snowyjungle-82

This is actually none of our business ,
Stupid bringing such here then going ahead to argue with us for our opinion when your mindset is obviously bullsh*t

@grandquiver-69 I'm guessing friends with benefits... That whole concept is weird
quiethammer-89 OP

its natural

@snowyjungle-82 This is actually none of our business , Stupid bringing such here then going ahead to argue with us…
quiethammer-89 OP

youre a weirdo

quiethammer-89 OP

ew

@quiethammer-89 youre a weirdo
sharpdolphin-67

I mean u made this post so yeah

@sharpdolphin-67 I mean u made this post so yeah
quiethammer-89 OP

ur clueless

@quiethammer-89 ur clueless
sharpdolphin-67

*You're

snowyjungle-82

Ok sl* t
Coming from you i do take that as a complement

@quiethammer-89 its natural
grandquiver-69

Well wdym by the concept then

@snowyjungle-82 Ok sl* t Coming from you i do take that as a complement
quiethammer-89 OP

im not sl#t

quiethammer-89 OP

sfu

quiethammer-89 OP

ur a 304

@quiethammer-89 ur a 304
sharpdolphin-67

oh the irony

grandquiver-69

The 'benefits' r weird, like if u wanna be in a relationship then stick with that one person to fulfill ur 'needs'

@sharpdolphin-67 oh the irony
snowyjungle-82

:y_shook:

sharpdolphin-67

Miley ur a strange person for making this post like obviously it is considerably cheating from a mental standpoint obvs LDR you dont see em physically but mental standpoint however will still the individual a lot if they're willing to fully commit on this relationship

snowyjungle-82

Wasting your energy explaining for a clown...
What clown do are to amuse you and be a joke ,her brain can't process your write up

snowyjungle-82

Wasting your energy explaining for a clown...
What clowns do are to amuse you and be a joke ,her brain can't process your write up

sharpdolphin-67

Miley ur actually fr a troll get out of here please

@sharpdolphin-67 Miley ur actually fr a troll get out of here please
quiethammer-89 OP

get lost

@quiethammer-89 get lost
sharpdolphin-67

says the npc

plaidgarden-51

Yeahhhh

@quiethammer-89 its literally not cheating
plaidgarden-51

It literally is tho

plaidgarden-51

Why do u know tht tho :y_shook:

@quiethammer-89 u cant please many guys?
plaidgarden-51

Wth

@swiftorchid-87 somethings tells me this is a post made to cope with certain actions taken
plaidgarden-51

Yessssss , sacred u truly are wise and sacred 🙏

@quiethammer-89 illiterate
plaidgarden-51

Not knowing english doesn't make someone illiterate

plaidgarden-51

As the person mentioned

plaidgarden-51

They are german

plaidgarden-51

So if he's fluent in german and ur not

plaidgarden-51

Would it be ok for u to be called illiterate

quickranger-40

U might as well just be poly at that point

quickranger-40

Some ppl are fine with that

quickranger-40

And all poly ppl look and are weird so maybe that’s ur vibe

plaidgarden-51

😭 😭

happypocket-92

To be honest I don't think long distance relationships and online dating works

@happypocket-92 To be honest I don't think long distance relationships and online dating works
sharpdolphin-67

its a rare find nowadays, it just isnt for everybody

happypocket-92

I met my fiancée in high school and we've been very happy. Got engaged on Christmas 2025

@happypocket-92 I met my fiancée in high school and we've been very happy. Got engaged on Christmas 2025
sharpdolphin-67

high school couple to now is very rare nowadays

@quickranger-40 U might as well just be poly at that point
snowysilver-75

It's more of straight up cheating or lwk open relationship 😭💔

@snowysilver-75 It's more of straight up cheating or lwk open relationship 😭💔
sharpdolphin-67

theres so many different types of relationships atp you cant stop people from what choices they want to do at the end of the day but rather at least judging in the end

@sharpdolphin-67 high school couple to now is very rare nowadays
happypocket-92

Is it really?

@happypocket-92 Is it really?
sharpdolphin-67

Yeah its very rare, its hard to find that one significant other in todays era

happypocket-92

I see

happypocket-92

My fiancée and I were classmates in math class and we became fast friends within a couple months

@happypocket-92 My fiancée and I were classmates in math class and we became fast friends within a couple months
sharpdolphin-67

Dang that easily I see

happypocket-92

I was surprised because I'm a bookworm but she didn't mind at all

@sharpdolphin-67 theres so many different types of relationships atp you cant stop people from what choices they wan…
snowysilver-75

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