Modern Dating & Traditional Values: The Great Debate

Summary

The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC server recently hosted a spirited community discussion regarding the evolution of gender roles and the search for traditional partners in the modern era. Members debated the impact of workforce participation on family dynamics and the challenges of finding compatible life partners today. This conversation highlights the diverse perspectives within our community on social expectations and personal values.

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That’s true

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But my claim is also true

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That’s the whole point I’m making

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That’s why good men can’t find a woman

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Because women lost the mindset they had 50 years ago

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Because she wasn’t stupid

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We had common goals

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Shared common interests

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Same religion and faith

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Put that faith into each other and now we are inseparable

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Women want to work because feminism says women can do exactly what men can do

oliveviolet-93 OP

Because women didn’t work

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They didn’t have to

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Yes it’s the individuals decision

oliveviolet-93 OP

Doesn’t make it not stupid

oliveviolet-93 OP

It’s stupid for the most part

oliveviolet-93 OP

That’s not stupid that how’s it’s always been meant to be

oliveviolet-93 OP

I don’t complain that she sits at home all day and doesn’t work and only cleans for like 30 minutes

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Because I know that’s my god given role as a man

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I’m not if a woman makes a stupid decision I call it stupid

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Men have also stopped being like how they were also

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And I think it’s stupid

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How is she dominated

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I support her decision because this is what she wants

oliveviolet-93 OP

No women should do what they want

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The original take is women have lost the mindset

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And as you pointed out men have to

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But the traditional way we’ve done things for hundreds of years points to the conclusion that the system we have now of a woman can do anything a man can do is stupid

oliveviolet-93 OP

I didn’t “lose” anything

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This mindeset never existed until recently

oliveviolet-93 OP

The mindset we “lost”

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Is the one that’s existed for hundreds of years

oliveviolet-93 OP

My take is correct tho

oliveviolet-93 OP

You have no argument against it

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I did omit that men are the same way

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Thank you someone’s logical here

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How do I not respect women

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And how does my wife not have freedom

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You’re yet to answer this

oliveviolet-93 OP

Either way you said my wife isn’t free

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And you haven’t told me how

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This whole time

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I understand that

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As I said earlier

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I’m not saying all women are inferior to men

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The key word I used here

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Is on average

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There are some girls who would slam me in chess

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Not a lot but a few

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Some who are better at maybe some logical sport or video games

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