Is Polygamy Just Cheating? The FriendZone Debate
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently engaged in a thought-provoking debate regarding the ethics of polygamy versus cheating. Members discussed cultural traditions, the role of love in marriage, and whether non-monogamous arrangements can be considered valid. This discussion highlights the diverse perspectives found within our active social hub, where members feel comfortable exploring complex topics together....
Normalized cheating
That's not cheating, everyone involved knows abt it
It's not always like that, and the idea of wanted someone else while you're married and is just terrible
It's cheating but renamed and accepted
How os it cheating 
There used to be another purpose for it, but yh for specifically love it's not a good thing but I still don't think it's cheating
And I think it's cheating
You can't get married to someone and thinking of going to find another person
Will you feel good sharing your partner? Where's loyalty here
Well yh I get your point
Why yourself? No, cut his thing instead it's easier
Isn't it a form of marriage pref?
Cheating can exist even in polygamy which is probably outside the respective people
Exactly
Huh
Where I am from, people do that as the same as monogamy. Marrying two wives at once. It's not something that is done out of selfishness. It's actually an agreed something
Besides if it was same thing as cheating, it would be legal or allowed in many places
Well, you can always ask the ladies in it
50% will support you
Same as another 50 disagreeing
Just because someone's opinions Nd pref doesn't match with yours doesn't mean they are delusional or brainwashed
Well some of them might wanna do it for things like security
Childbearing too
Well yh ig
Not all are out of need
True, some regions have that happen cos they need support but they still choose to do it
It's a form marriage, not something they do out an engage in
Besides we have got traditions Nd cultures that it is much accepted
Yh sometimes it's mainly a contract thing
Yh sometimes it's not out of love but that doesn't always make it cheating
Oh right, early marriages in history weren't about love
Not everything has to be about love
In modern times it's not rly needed but historically it was used for support
Oh, according to this. You haven't seen a stable polygamy?
Not everyone decides to do things like marry out of love either
And you doubt if love can exist in polygamy
For like,it depends on your definition of what love is
I for one, do not see it as cheating since it goes under the same term as marriage
Also, love is mainly about care and responsibilities
Not just feelings alone
Anyways, we all got our preferences
I see. That's how you see it
Well, I guess I can can't say anything to disagree with you.
But everyone has a preference like I said
For some, love is an exclusive thing, where it is one on one
For others, it's just fine
And about real men, just because someone is different that doesn't make them fake man or a lesser man
Men are men
Ok imo
Polygamy lacks real love imo
Cuz real love involve exclusiveness
And oneness with that one person
And if they are agreeing to it then I don't think it's cheating
Everyone is in on it
But I wouldn't be in one at all lol
Not cheating but yeah its wrong
Polygamy does even alline with the Concept of the word CHEATING
What is polygamy again?
Give me the definition of both
Cheating exist in both monogamy Nd polygamy. And it is a relationship outside the agreement of the said people
It's a form of marriage that is socially acceptable in some traditions Nd cultures
Is Polygamy just cheating that got socially accepted and renamed ?
No...
Just because it doesn't aline with your preferred system of marriage or relationship doesn't make it any wrong
Just as monogamy is exclusively btw two people
Same with polygamy exclusive btw the said people
Most people don't prefer it because,well they have their reasons why. Some feel that love would be unequal
Yeah I agree with and to say Polygamy isint cheating cheating involved deception lies etc ofc cheating can happen in monogamy polygamy etc but polygamy itself isint cheating
Yeah, it's like saying veganism is starvation that got rebrand
Fr 😭💔
Yeah. Polygamy is done in the way monogamy works too for the same marriage reasons
Although there are other cultural settings like marrying a widow
Or for child bearing
Etc
Yeah but at the end of the day saying is cheating is narrow thinking
You don't know?
No
It's cheating
It's when a man married multiple partners because he's incomplete and miserable so he wants to try and marry different women to feel fulfilled
He can't be committed to one so he wants to check around
Well i don't see why if he was fair to all of them
And what would you call a lady married to multiple husbands?
(this is just straight generalisation of the concept of polygamy)
I know there is a concept of forced polygamy but that doesn't mean people don't agree on the normal polygamy
You can ask around for people in it
Will it be fair if your wife married a second husband
Is that even common
Yah but there is many problems that could happen to a woman that wouldn't happen for a man
Be honest about this
I don't keep the stats so I can't say
You won't like the idea of sharing your wife
So don't say it normal thing
Good then
Quick question, so all the women in polygamous marriages don't agree to the concept of it?
Is that what you say?
if some concept is being taught to someone from childhood
that its the right way
then even if it seems
they agree to that concept independently
but still that opionion is not theirs
it is not really about just preference or saying both sides should have the exact same option the systems that allowed men to have multiple wives were built around responsibilities like financial support protection anf clear family structure especially when it comes to children and lineage
if one woman had multiple husbands it creates real complications around parentage responsibility and legal rights which is why most societies historically did not allow that setup
also it is not something automatic or easy even for men it usually comes with strict conditions and expectations and many people choose not to do it at all
so the idea is not simply about fairness in the sense of giving identical options it is more about how different roles and responsibilities were structured in those systems not just what feels equal om the surface
In short these rules were made by men..so they benefit men
Not really bc a woman can refuse to marry a man with multiple wives or she could say in the marriage contract she doesn't want her man to marry another woman which is her right and many things
With that logic since both monogamy Nd polygamy were taught I would say monogamy is also wrong since it's everyone's opinion but what we were taught to accept
their is a thing called FAMILY and SOCIETAL pressure..and its real
yea marraige in it self is taught concept to us..its not inherent
Even the family can refuse if they wanted to and social pressure you won't get that pressure since it's normal to us
Bru
Poly is cheating
The end
lezz goo
maybe it is easy to say no for ur society but if u see other nations like afg and few others..there it isnt that easy to do so
Well it's a problem that needs to be solved true but bc it's not normal to most ppl doesn't mean it's wrong and I feel like it benefits society more in many ways
well that statement can be used in many other wrong situations
to make it sound right
That's why we should correct it by being fair to all of your wife's (if) you have more than one and even in saudi arabia it's rare to see someone having more than one wife
both are wrong in todays society
why do all that..why not just remove polygamy..remove the root of the problem itself😃
U are going to a completely different route gng💔
Removing it would cause even more problems like bad cheating which is the biggest problem even for the women it's pretty bad
enlighten me on how a polygamy squad cant cheat on eachother
Monogamy is romantic selfishness that got rebrand Nd socially acceptable
Well you cannot prove it is impossible because that is not realistic any person can betray trust whether they have one wife or more it depends on the person not the number of partners but the idea is that when someone has more than one wife in a known and agreed setup there is less need for secrecy which is usually the core issue still it is always possible if the person lacks honesty or commitment
Yah lol
so we need to spread love to everyone
mmm we know u have high vocab..why flexing it😔
had to search what nauseating means
💔
then its even worse..for me
first productive thing of the day...hell yeaaa
🥵
Be obvious about it though
stay in bed..its not worth waking up
Exactly polygamy is cheating, but it is made by the selfish patriarchy to look okay because this time the man could marry his side woman,
Love is meant to be share by two people not more,
Making your partner unhappy because of your selfishness isn't love
Most women okay with it are either desperate,pickme, forced,those who don't want love just benefit from the marriage or those groomed to view it as okay
If I agree with someone to kill me,so that won't be regarded as suicide right....?
Btw most women don't agree on polygamy they don't just have any say if their husband comes up with the idea....
Unless they were never inlove in the first place,
So because a kid agrees to marry an old man does that that makes that child marriage okay....?
Weird it's mostly guys defending polygamy
Marriage isn't always abt love anyways, polygamy being loved based does make it weird but it's diff under other circumstances like to support ppl who can't help themselves (like widows for example)
I'm talking about polygamy in general, doesn't matter
How many wives would you have?
Doesn't change anything that's it's cheating w a different name
Why not focusing on one person
And it's just weird, you're getting married and go to your wife and tell her, you're not the only person I'm going to marry, because we're allowed to, you mind is already thinking about who's going to be the next in your bed
So sad
Marrying more than one is an option not an obligation you could marry one and focus on her if you want or you could marry more than one
I didn't say it was an obligation, I'm talking about the idea of polygamy
Your wife could say in the marriage contract that you won't marry anyone but her and it's acceptable nothing bad with marrying one or more
You think there is nothing wrong w marrying multiple partners?
Good for you then if you want to share
Yes, if you treat them with all due respect and treat them fair and not favor one above thr other than i think it's not wrong
Good for you
Nice explanation...
This even shows polygamy is worse than cheating ,
in cheating the man might hide the side chick cus he doesn't want to hurt his partner
but in polygamy you are bringing the side chick to your home then making her equal to your wife
Not even considering your partner
You have no f*king excuse to give polygamy is bullsht
If polygamy is cheating what would u say abt David that had wives and concubines
Or Solomon
They were kings
And old times weren't based on modern settings on love
Back then people had other reasons for things they do
That's reduction
Maybe Polygamy is jus another level of Open relationships
sounds attempting
Maybe I would practice it
🥀
I have my reasons
So don't judge me in as much as I don't Judge anyone
yea u do...
I've got a big heart
Not all
Those wives later turn them away from God
And they sinned
No excuse
It's not anybody business that doesn't make it right...
If two people agree on killing the other person it is not bodies business because it is consensual right....?
Btw agreeing on something doesn't make it consensual
Yeah..the comparison was a bit off. Everyone has different preferences.
Hush....
It's just a bullshit which was made up by some group of selfish ,horneeky boys to normalise have their sidechick legal....
One woman would be okay for a sensible normal man
Okay can you tell me the any benefit of polygamy
Polygamy affects the home,wives,man himself,the innocent children that would be giving birth to,infact the society in a whole
Fact remains even one has right to make their choices fair...
That doesn't mean polygamy is a good choice
I see polygamy same like people being whore and street dog
Those are also their choices
Just this time polygamy is the legal one
Every man who thinks of that ideas knows secretly they are selfish or just want lot of women to sleep with nothing healthy there just disgusting choice
And every woman accepting it are either groomed to accept it or are not really in love just in the marriage for things they gain in marriage or insecure women who think they are less of a woman
Deep down none are happy sharing their husband
Polygamy has always been for selfish reasons and lust
Polygamy was a thing then for kings and wealthy people
Who wanted to have lots of beautiful women cus they feel they are wealthy and should have such privilege
Last it became normal for mere selfish men to have such thought
Yes other benefits are women having financial stability and also men having lot of offspring....
Facts still remains that idea was brought up because of lust
And btw polygamy is legal and normalise must countries call the sidechick mistress
And why was the making women financially stable a advantage then because women were not allowed to go to work by the same selfish men of them
They wanted them dependent on men and own them... Not just one woman different women cus they are selfish
So don't say polygamy is for the benefit of women....
If they wanted to true help women become financially stable why don't they help them for free or create opportunities to empower them.
Nah...
This is invalid
Kings practiced polygamy and had many mistresses(also part of polygamy but this is not as legalized as making the sidechick your wife)
It has been normalized even in the past , don't say stuffs you don't know
Both accepted culturally and religiously in some societies
But nowadays most people are leaving that act just as they leave some barbaric cultural act but still yet most still do it cus it's allowed by their religion always defend it
Yep too, even marriages back then usually didn't have anything to do with love either
Must we all love?
Some ppl don't wanna so no
And also some don't feel love the way other people do
And that's fine
Yeah
If no one your answer you are just broken think of how to heal dude
All this self deceiving would do you good
Deep down you hate yourself
That's reduction of someone
Just because someone is different from yah
Doesn't mean they are broken
Or they hate themselves
What a massive assumption
If you don't understand me you can ask
That's what normal people
Nah an honest advice
Take it or leave it your choice
Only psychopath don't see need to love and you are not one so you are just coping
Well. You refused to ask so nevermind
Damn
We are all different people, what you may call love would be different for some other person
And polygamists always look the same
😭 lmao
They are dude no f**king woman would be happy sharing their husband
All the women who are in polygamous marriage all feel unhappy and they can confirm it if you ask them
Most coping and pretending to be okay only did that because they husband promised to compensate them with gifts
And yes if you are a insecure woman you will have no problem sharing your husband because you think you are not enough
Does it matter?
Riley
Get out
Oh
I'm African if that's important
Some women are def into that lol lets not pretend there are no women who like that
Me personally im.not one of them
But like there are women who r into polygamy
Also a lot of people in here seem to think that polygamy just means the guy gets to sleep with other people or something lol which isnt really true
No problem
Women wanting it or not
It not a reasonable choice
And that is very tiny percent
Just as some women and men like to sleep around with numerous partners
Not a nice choice but their preference
Then what is it about.....?
Polygamy is rather too small
Girls can sleep with others too lol
So if a woman wants that ur saying its not a reasonable choice
Even if thats what she wants
You have no point here....
So....?
Polygamy or polyandry both or same
Both are for selfish and honkey people
And it we focus on polygamy
The percent of women who genuinely like it are very few 5% of 95% of normal people,maybe those with weird kink or those who are closet too
If a woman or a man decides to be a prostitute
It a reasonable choice because that is what they want 
Ok so why are those peiple with that kink wrong for enjoying it if evwryone participating wants to
That is different and yk it lol
All your point are baseless fr....
That kink aspect is if the man sleeps with them at same time and it is obvious that it haram or unacceptable in places
And that is few percentage
That few percentage can't be used to judge the rest... Then make polygamy ok
So invalid
How is it baseless to let some people who are into something do it without being jduged
That is very reasonable
What business is it of yours what consenting adults do in the bedroom
Whether it's their choice or not it is not a reasonable one.
Are you so dumb that you can't understand everything here?
Most cases of polygamy are not done because of that kink or whatever, and no woman in her right mind would want her husband to have another wife.
Most in polygamy have no to choice to accept because their husband says so....
Just because consenting adults agree to something doesn't make it normal, especially when one is being selfish.
So can an abusive marriage be considered normal and okay just because both parties consent to it?
It is obvious you are dumb....
You keep appealing to the majority of cases which i agrew with u on but to claim there is no case where polygamy cant be right is so stupid
If a marriage appears absuive on the outside but it is exactly what the wife is into and the husband and wife are both on the same page about what is on and off the tavle and they have healthy communication and are both happy i dont see any issue with it
I have seen working polygamy
They got married on the same time and things are okay with the three people involved
It's more like a small set of people it works for
Thats what im saying
and this mf is saying its always bad cos it doesnr work for most people
Thats such a stupid argument fr
For real,what ever that it's not their pref is wrong I guess
This says alot....
God forbid having opinions 😭
Btw keep hiding behind that female catfish profile
Ahh
Like atp can't even do a single thing
Just beside she disagrees with her means she is a guy lol
Weird logic
No logic
For real, she is like women can't be into polygamy just because she isn't into it
Like insulting pfps after a reasonable point shows that u just lost
Always the mulstiens supporting it....
Talking about it to you is like talking to a 4yrs
She is their spokes person ig💔
Yeah, I guess so.
Can't even spell it write yet hating 😭
And also she isn't giving opinions anymore but just straight up insults
Im not here to catfish any1 lol
Thats how she always is
We lwk go way nack
Learnt that from experience
So basically you get to tell consenting adults what they can and cant do 🤔
😭💔
Yeah, she is the law
Guess im trans now as well lma9
Ig because she don't like it she the ideal woman and all women should be like her 💔
For real, it's not like anyone is against her having her way in monogamy
Excactly
She did make some valid points around women being forced into it which i agree with but to flat out say there are no cases where polygamy is something all parties are completely down with and therefore its never ever ok is just braindead ngl
Well,this is modern times
People don't really get forced anymore
Well that point sorta falls cuz forced marriges isint in polygamy only
I f**king know I am right cus both a broke person and supporter of sptein are against me
So heartwarming seeing you all wimp
Yeah. Forced marriage is forced marriage just carrying the name of polygamy
Yeah
Who supports eptsein here lol
Miss right
Miss Ego
Let's feed it for her
With logic ,add this
Legit no logic btw
Just vibes
Me when I lie
🪣 🪣 🪣
Bro she will never get full
Yeah, if there are 50% of forced polygamy, there are also 50% of consenting ones
Fill that you all
You can't hold an argument
Just a broken record
Maybe whenever i start having people avtually critique my arguments i should just start claiming i won
Could be the new methox
Plus if someone use smth badly it doesn't make the thing automatically bad
I guess,when you start seeing your pref as always right. You start seeing small
Fr and not even see how ur embarrassing urself
For real, to her. Thinks people only do it for the process of having kids
I mean alot litterly have kids without marrige tf
She ran away haha
And even the ones in monogamy cheat alot
So why not have a consenting polygamy
Most Cheaters btw
She will be back
What did u expect 😭💔
Idk lol jist to keep calling me stupid or something
I want all the smoke fr
Good job....
Ran out of insults?
Think back in ur life do some self reflection
When was the last time u were in an argument
And conceded a point
Its probably hard for u to remember
Cos it seems to me like you think you are always right
Reflect and better urself haha
Drop the ego
Good job...
She never learns
Still wondering how she keeps friends
Same line every time....,
Seems like you always go about looking for friends you problem not mine,
Fun fact I have lot of reasonable friends those with common sense
😅 I guess I touched a nerve
Show me your friend then
You should stop projecting dear
Ok
Here is your trophy 🤓 🏆
Thanks
Now. Let others share their opinions without you going straight up to reducing people
Just dont do Polygamy thats it
Why not ?
If ppl want to let em
Idk like people on here just dont seem to fw it
Thats their own problem tbf
Ik Open Relationships has been around for awhile now too but this is also why there are different types of relationships for a reason i guess
Huh wdym
I mean theres nothing really to explain much
Its like whatever relationship they wanna be in if theyre happy abt it at the end of the day
Let them be
People can be happy with bad choices , Letting them have that choice doesn't mean it would be considered normal and right,
People do make their mind to commit suic fide and are happy with it but that doesn't mean it a good or normal choice ,
"If they are happy with it "
There is high chance of one of the partners not being happy in polygamy
Yep
And what makes smth like polygamy wrong
Agreed as long as it doesn't harm ppl
Like just because yall don't agree with polygamy doesn't make it bad to be compared sui cide nor necessarily a bad choice for everyone
Plus that Suic cide argument litterly doesn't fit in and csn be used against relationships generally i can say the same thing ppl who commit it are happy but not good so as relationships so dont date litterly so flawed
Atp it just depends on the person tbh
No one argued that others shouldn't make their choices
Polygamy is a bad choice which got normalized and that is fact
Just like smoking...
Everybody is entitled to their own opinions
How
Smoking casuses lung damage that the substance itself but polygamy Itself isint bad
Yall need to differentiate between Personal judgment and Empirical concrete facts
You can't convince her to see it in a different way
Lmaoo
Lwk seems to be ignoring my points i guess she don have the Sauce
Everyone knows saying Polygamy is wrong for the things it happen in it just narrow thinking
Yeah. And the comparison was btw it Nd suic is just not a good one
Well,if you say forced marriage is wrong
I would agree with yah
Fr like bruh what
But a system of polygamy involving people who consent to it with their rules Nd how it should work, they are adults and choose it so I see no issues
This hot take still hot taking I see
Same but its not like its exclusive problem in polygamy like their arguments don't make sense
Yeah
Polygamy is exclusive lol
Wsg gng
It's btw the people involved
Not much
I mean the idea of using forced marriages to say polygamy is wrong is dumb cuz it's not exclusive to polygamy
Eat smth
No, I did earlier
Yeah,maybe she is still trying to differentiate btw both terms
Then no room to debate and have that ego at all 😭
Who connected that lol
Now i think im the only one who eats when v
Bored
Lwk alot of BS bro 😭💔
Well,I don't know. She has her reasons why she thinks it is wrong
It depends for me, if I'm in the mood or not
But reasons don't match the same for everyone I guess
I mean ppl make the craziest examples sometimes
I see
She compared polygamy to Sui cide 😭😭😭
Thats why I said personal opinion don't make empirical concrete facts
Well, what can we do about someone who's personal opinion speaks for all
She is like it's impossible for women to want polygamy
Oh wow
Thats so funny
I'm out,tag me if something comes up. I will check in the morning
I was leaving too but I will if I cee smth
Oh
And stop changing everytime 😭💔
U remember me?
Yes ur TITI
Then KFC
Like bro why 😭
Also mankind
Yep
I think I will change it before I sleep
Crazy
This one is getting unfamiliar
Bluh
Do u have like a profile crisis or smth 😭
It's very familiar
Change is a constant thing
Not that constant tho
Ayooooo
It's Ace
Nooooo
Creepy ahhhhh horse
For real
The horse has venom syndrome
Last argument give your conclusion why do you think polygamy is right or wrong and we move this
Alright
Polygamy is right because it's recognised by society as a form of marriage
Bojack horseman
Its neither right or wrong
Note; this different from forced marriage
It's also exclusive because it is btw the consenting people
But why the name icu
And also it's there pref
Intensive care unit
Why not fbi
That's too risky
Or cia
I'm under cover
Mhmmm agreed
I'm a bit tired
I think I should get married
To a regular girl
Nuh br crazy for the kids
Nah,kid not kids
I don't want many of those little ones
Life is hard
Bro doesn't want to pay child support 😭
Lol
Oh, where I'm from
It depends on the family
Dad or Mom side can win the kids
Really? So what society say is right then it's right
Like in the case of my parents,my mom side took us, in the case of my cousin it was dad side
Me too and i think it's for all
Isn't it the same as open marriage? Just one is legal
And open marriage is even better both parties benefit
Not really. Hmm, let's just say there are three people. And we all want to be in a polygamy system
Anything wrong with?
Open marriage is not exclusive, polygamy is exclusive btw those people
Yea because marriage should be an union of 2 ppl
Who's world is this??
Well, check the Bible
We saw alot of more than two people
Adam and Eve not Adam, with Eve, Maria, Lea and John just for Adam
Marriage origins was never abt love
For real
What if I don't want love
But a marriage that I am okay with
Them what do you want
Because when you want money they call you gold digger you remember that
I mean ppl still go through arranged marriages by choice, they don't always do it for love but more for stability
Lol,not money
What then
Wanting financial stability doesn't make u a gold digger tho
The body?
So you can try different ppl
Nah
If I wanted that, I might as well stick to monogamy Nd cheat
Many here said that when I said if she wants rich for stability they said it gold digging
Ppl don't need to marry for a reason like love or wtvr
So it's not even about the body
I did too
Ehh so you just marry
Well it's not, that's dumb reasoning
Love doesn't always get things done
Would love make me a meal when I need one, nah. Someone has to
Some do it for connections and stuff, arranged marriages use that as a reason
Polygamy is for many reasons some are just selfish
Ofc u can still marry due to love, but it's not exclusive to everyone
Well, would you call three people who consent to it , all selfish?
U know it's exclusive right
Btw those people
Ik someone who married a second wife because his family didn't like the first, another because his first wife couldn't give him girls children
Crazy
Oh
It happens
It's not good
Valid with that reasoning
Tho it's diff situations for others, but it makes sense
Well, how is that a selfish reason
I think mostly it's about the reason behind it that can be selfish
What if I just want that
Technically could still be said for other types of marriage
You also don't want to share your lover Nd one calls you selfish for it
Why would you marry a second wife because your wife couldn't give you girls, do you think that woman will be happy is husband marrying another wifey for that reason
It's like mocking her
Though it's the man fault
Well,what if she says he can or should
Out of nowhere?
Because of pressure she might say that
From the man family or him
I see
I'm a guy,and I'm dating a bi,and then we meet another lady. And we are all okay with the system of polygamy
Would you call us crazy?
We get married on the same day
Yh sometimes it's wrong, once I saw a vid of a so-called scholar mocking a woman for not wanting her husband to marry another woman but she didn't add that into the marriage contract
As I said they're many reasons for polygamy and some are crazy and selfish
Still, if ppl consent to it then it's better at the start
Well, let us be crazy Nd selfish then
At least it's better than getting into a broken polygamy
Sometimes they don't write it but they claim it's the culture
Yh true, they love doing that when it's not even supposed to be allowed
They be like my father married two wives and it works
Monogamy isn't exactly like the most working system too
Divorces happen alot
Yeah. It does for a few people
Why are you taking it personal are planning on marrying 4 wives
Bluh
Doesn't work if the woman feels disrespected, then any points fall apart
Bluh
Never claimed monogamy was perfect
So we are allowed to practice the one of our choice then
Guys just don't bother falling in love, it makes things easier 😄
For real
Bluhhh
Bluhhh
Bluhhhhhhhhh
What if you are aromantic
BLUH
BLUH
Isn't marrying for the sake of love
BLUH
Bluh
U messed up lol
Yeah.cause I don't want to marry for love
Still possible ig
I want to marry because I want to
Not always
😭 you didn't see nothing
I saw it and u know it
No
no
I don't feel love in the exact feeling way
I'm just talking about the idea of polygamy, not telling you what to do w your life
Yes
Alright, personal opinion then
Polygamy may be wrong
But it's a pref
Ppl have different ideas of it
The great gig in the sky
N AND O
Yea just like everyone here
Liar
Yeah. Some are okay with monogamy
And we are good with that
You make me bluh you bluh i hate how bluh you are
Others are okay with polygamy Nd the other types
And some are not
Keep hating😁
Well, everyone is gotta pick what they like
Bluh 😠
And we all have different perspective that's why we're sharing it
It's not like you must follow this or that
Exactly i agree it's normal to me and it's un ethical to others
I see. And to yah, no reason justifies the system of polygamy?
Cmon all the world
Join in
Love train
Join what?
Huh
Hate train
Don't you know it's time to get on bored
Board
Cmon all the world join in world
You got idea
Ty
Nope
Man this song is good
Still had to correct?
Was thinking maybe 3 men one for emotional support, one for physical support and the other for financial support
Yep
Now you have the wrong idea of polygamy 😭
Well, if you want that. Who's gonna stop yah
You're the one justifying it so you can
Well, I believe it can work out
You'll be my financial support
So that's why I support it
Lmao 🤣
I support it too
Like you with your wifey and his husband, yea it can work
Oh, I'm not married. Still got time to figure things out
Not used to the whole dating culture
In the future
Still a bit far
The future i love future talk
Really? You're not interested in those stuff
I find it exhausting
It's more like a drama for the world
It can be scarring
Without any written scripts
Ehhhh you should just stay like that
Maybe but isn't that why god made it unknown
Relationship is for old pll
What is for young people then
Yea but it can just ruined your happiness
School
Focus in school
School is annoying💔
Oh. Would be done with that soon enough
All we can do is accept what god has given us for he is all knowing
Probably why I still am not interested in ladies for now
Can't handle two madness
Ppl can't put faith if it's too much pressure
Don't even start
Hahaha I just finished my stuff tho🙃
Depend on the teacher and classmates, in a year I can miss school just once if I'm really sick 🤣
No pressure in patience or acceptance
I didn't i still got two weeks 
That's good
School is trauma for me, I hated it
True ig
U can pull through it
Why do you hate, the teacher or classmates
Holy brainrot
Both, I'm glad I left
No i can't
Brainrot indeed
For me if I don't like a teacher it's really difficult to understand his course so I try to not dislike any teacher
Survive
Ohhh is that bad
Yh, once I got banned from my school's library😭
Ehh only girls?
I didn't talk much to others
Oh why?
Weird question, I'm a bit confused by it
I let someone use my school password to print smth🙃
Ladies or girls
Got called out in front of my yr too for it
School is fun, although I have been in it for like three years(uni) never been to the library lol. I do talk to a few of my course mates, lecturer are gud
Just the whole act of waking up in the morning
And thinking of what to eat and going to classes Nd writing exams
That's the stress
So we hopped from polygamy from other topic then to other topics
What's the difference between a lady Nd a girl
Oh is that bad? I have done that before because I was still using the computer
Ig, I didn't know tho
Well, we clearly had to diverge because it was going nowhere
people are defending ts omg
During exam in my uni if you reached 6 am, you will find ppl already there, I have a lot of research so I have to always use library, but that's crazy you don't do that
I mostly read just a day to the exam
Super brain
I do all nighters
Uni is nice ngl, but ppl give crazy takes on my course
I had like 3 exam a day so impossible to do that
Do you like what you're studying?
Just one day for me
Yh it's interesting tho very heavy
Medical related?
Nope, political
International relations
Oh
What's that about
It's an interesting one
Like relations between countries, political ideas, migration, trade, history etc
Oh
Yh it's fun to learn abt
Sounds like a lot
Yh it's a lot tho
What's yours
Men, my shit keeps getting harder each year
Computer engineering
At one point I was wondering if I was really learning about computers lol
Oh cooll
With math and stuff it's not easy
I got a few friends doing that toi
Yeah, last exam on math was all on integration type shit
How would you set a whole exam on just one type of questions Nd if you don't know that topic yah cooked
I'm glad I didn't use computer stuff, looks hard
I think they did the same thing in one other course, I felt like crying
No
Yeah, it is hard. I just hope this semester is better
I thought it's memorisation for all the topic stuff
That's cool
😅
Oh right,I remember memorising formulas for one exam
Gush,I mixed in up when it was time to write
Ok then don't survive
I couldn't even ask the person close to me since they were so ignorant
Well do
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Ohh that's not good but for us you can't ask because they answer is generally not the same we mostly have stuff like section A answer any 3 questions out of 5 , you choose what you know and the other person might choose a different question
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Thats a personal opinion not a universal law
Like in context of a marrige break then marry another is it really 2 ppl anymore
So if yall think marrige is strictly a UNION of 2 only and u can do it with more than 2 in diff times makes all of this just inconsistent
Not to mention yall are saying its bad but don't even drop why its bad like Alcohol or Drugs
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Hi
Bye
Gay
Ur comparing polygamy as a choice to something which is activrly harming you and is highly addictive lol this makes no sense
Its neither inherently right or wrong just depends on what everyone involved wants
When you break up, you have nothing to do w that person anymore
You have your freedom to go after someone else
And there are countries that don't support polygamy
You should read previous messages
If you have read the previous messages you will see I stated it is a choice,
Everyone are entitled to their own opinion or choice sure
But that doesn't mean they are entitled to make other accept their bad choices as normal
I don't know what is hard here to understand....
Ego sure ,I take that as a compliment
Debate.....? this is more of bullsh*t and fact
Ego sure ,I take that as a compliment
Debate.....? What is going on here is poetry
Expected you not to see the connect....
No negative effect of polygamy that's what a dumb clown would say
For the wives : low self esteem,feel betrayed by her husband,jealousy, conflict, competition,no happiness,or love,strife for property or attention for husband,some depraved women can kill the second wife or their kids etc
Children: no love,shared attention which should be given to them, competition,child trauma, depression, suicide,poor academics or socializing, insecurities,lack of love, living in conflict, poverty if the man is not financially stable ,life trauma , physical and mental trauma etc
Man : stress,home would be full of chaos , raising unhappy kid who would later despise him, wife would grow to hate him etc
All because of the man's selfish reasons
Now what did the a obvious dumb clown who always projects his low IQ on peoples say
Polygamy is normal because society accepts it
Very valid reason why polygamy should be considered normal
Just as child marriage should be normal because some society and religion accepts it
With all these I am out,
Keep being in your dumbness and ignorance
Again with clown
Poly is still cheating
Still its no more union of 2
If there countries that support it and not it proves my point its not a universal law to marry 2 only
Name what makes it bad
U say dumb clown but those problems isint a problem that the system build its the people in it and those problems are in monogamy too so I suggest u get serious yall are just embarrassing urself in that case cars are bad cuz u can run someone over with yall talking like everyone in polygamy faces problems which is false get ur facts right and try thinking logically
Like i find it odd for yall to assume other relationships have no love while its consectual like bro what
As if ppl don't feel undervalued im monogamy too
If thats the reason why yall find polygamy bad then just don't find a man cuz thats litterly a relationship problem not type of relationship
As if said yall can't even provide Concrete facts of why its bad
If your jealous mindset doesn't aline with it its fine but can't call it bad while u don't even have anything to make it bad
I told you to read previous messages if you can't we move on, after all it's just ppl giving different perspective if you say yes someone else will say no that's how things work and nobody forced nobody
If you support it's okay, other don't still okay
Then if thats how things work then litterly polygamy can't be objectively wrong tf
Yall like contradicting yourselves u said it should be a Union of 2 now u make it opinion based plus those reasons as I said can go against any form of relationship yall need to get yourselves straight ong
If u don't support it is ok but calling it objectively bad doesn't make it opinion based choose a stand 🥀
I'm done w you, think whatever you want
We have discussed w other ppl earlier that understand stuff
Don't ping me again
Obviously ur done what do u have to say nth u can't
Okay bro
How abt u be more mature and accept u were wrong u can't provide evidence to ur claims or what makes is objectively wrong as u were standing on that earlier can u?
I like peace, from the first day I made this take I said different opinion ppl shared, and you only read what you what you want to talk nonsense
I can't be repeating myself just to satisfy you and tell you what you want to hear
No I'm not accepting shit
It's hot take
As if i said polygamy is the only way like u guys set ur opinions as truth then come say I talk nonsense
Nobody everyone shared their mind
Nobody everyone shared their mind
Did I say its cold
We all have freedom to express so as I calling ur dishonest thinking cuz now ur saying im saying nonsense but nevertheless u can't even debunk it so u were the one saying nonsense go sleep lady in blue
As if ur hottake was really a hottake calling it Normalised cheating Wow such a neutral stance now what happened
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Why do u keep reffering to polygamy only as a man having mutliple wives and not ever entertaining the other side of it
U make good points and that may be true for a large amount of cases but to flat out apply it to all cases of polygamy is silly and inconsistent
Do u only consider polygamy as to be a man with multiple wives for fear ur argument is gonna fall apart???
Like yeah i agree its not my cup of tea but if people wanna do it they can do iit
Kink shaming is weird ngl
Damn
IC wsp
I'm gud
Today has been hell for me
I think over sleeping can cause hallucinations
Peak im currently texting from EFootball lol
My phone was off all day so I had to experience that😭
Wow
I guess I would have to stop being a distraction
Gotta keep up with the collab
Lol, keep it up bud
Will do
I see how you got there, but the main difference between the two is this: Consent.
If you have a reletionship with two poeple wo didn't consent to sharing, then thats cheating. However, if you ask your partner and they agree, thats Polygamy. Sometimes cheating is the side effect of an uneducated poly person, Which gives the sexuality a bad wrap.
Vro
How is this still going
I think polygamy is too small
Some king Solomon type shit is the next plan
😭
Do you also wanna have 3 husbands
Don't be surprised hot takes are like that and in my opinion this hot take is good
One for emotional support, then for physical support then for financial support
Which kind of strength did he has to satisfy all those women
Lol but how would you know who's the father tho
Some wisdom
They don't have to know, because he'll be their child
And a big heart
It's a good idea, you should consider it
How 😭
They'll be like our wife is pregnant we'll be fathers
Not necessarily, the whole DNA thingy exist
Unless they all want to take the role of a father without the biological essence of it
All of them??
Yea
Also the child can look like their dad
That just gets messy for the kid then😭
But even tho how could a father be proud of he's son knowing he probably isn't even he's son and even than what name would he take all the four??
Exactly
Hmm
Y'all would rly wanna put a kid through that? Best to not just have one
Not exactly. Some of us has more than one people we consider father
For example me
My name, all my husband will have my last name
Lol
Yet this case would be all the dads would be getting with the mum and the kid would see that
No i mean the son will have he's father's name and he doesn't know who he's father is
He'll have my name
Because he's dad will have my name
We have dad and dad family, mum and mum family the same way they understandood that, he will too
Well, structure matters
I don't expect everyone to exist under the same roof
Oh so u mean gay couples
Than what you have are sl.ves not husband's
Than what you have are sl..es not husband's
Exactly
I wonder how they rise kids who aren't exactly like them
Yep
And can balance the whole mother part of child rising
How? They're men who take their wife name after marriage
Better yet everyone could just keep their own names
Yah but that literally beats what a father is
Hi
No
A responsable woman she is
Let's be honest you can't take the responsibility of four husbands and you just switched what a father is literally someone who is responsible to everything
