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Yo

You a guy right?

Yes I’m a guy why 😭

I need an opinion

Like relationship wise

Oh what’s your

Up

My girl of almost a year... has been distant

and has this bi... guy friend she always talks to

and shes broken up with me once because of her friend talking bad abt me

Hmm this is a tricky one honestly like if she is has broken up with you once just because her friend yknow is talking bad about you then she’s not the one especially if your doing everything right by her yknow if your taking care of her yknow not being a jerk to her then she shouldn’t give a damn what anyone says about you no matter who they are

She was on a softball trip with her team and the whole trip she had to listen to it, was her excuse she told me

hi

when we got back together

hi

hey

Yeah that’s no excuse that’s the thing about relationships it doesn’t matter who says what or whatever on the outside yknow if yall are good yknow your both good and happy with each other then it don’t make damn what anyone on the outside says

Another thing

Is that why would she be listening to anyone about you anyways

If your doing right by her

It don’t make a fuck if anyone is talkin bad about you she should be defending you

She apoligised the next day and we got back together but then she startet talking to this guy named josh

hes bi

and texts her all the time

says goodmorning

goodnight

hey

huh?

srry just joined

your good

thanks

np

do you want to be friends

sure

and ive told her how i felt and she said shed talk to him less but never has

yeah brooo

i added you

Then she’s not keeping her words and if your uncomfortable with something know she should do it and it’d be the same way if roles were reversed

But i dont wanna be contro;;ing and say stop talking to him completely

Well yeah I get that

It’s a complicated situation definitely

But

She should realistically be defending your name and not breaking up with you because her friend yknow

yeah...

Juz do the same

And talk to another girl frequently and see what she thinks

Like yknow being controlling is bad yknow but like the way she’s being isn’t showing she fully trusts you because she’s going off of what her friend says

i told her a scenario like that nd she goes "well id trust you"

She might say that so that u would let her continue

Juz do the same

ok, but in case she does break up wit me a made a long thing about how i knew it was comin...

Wdym

I don't fully understand

About what?

Abt this

I wrote down what was in my mind and made like a long paragrapgh about how i knew it was gonna happen and how she hurt me and stuff

Oh

yeah

So when u guys break up u gona show it to her?

yeah

I drained myself trying to better you & the sad thing is, you never noticed how hard I tried. I waited on your texts. I gave you your space. I put your feelings over my own. I gave you my trust. I stayed. I was being loyal and it seemed like you weren't. I disregarded all my boundaries so this could work and that wasn't enough. I'll always forgive you but never forget this. I just expected us to turn out differently, a family. I was always there for no matter the terms. It hurt me to watch you fade away from our relationship & it seemed as if it never bothered you. My loyalty, the communication, & patience just wasn't enough to keep you. I know I haven't been the best person to you either so I don't hold it against you and I never ever will but I know I deserve better and with that, this is my goodbye message. I will always love you because you were my first real relationship but i knew this was coming since the first time you broke up with me. im not trying to argue with you anymore. thats not what I want to build with anyone. i've worked hard to outgrow the version of myself that argued and snapped, and I refuse to go back there. I won't argue anymore. I'm not someone you play with because that's what you did, even if you didn't notice it. You constantly hurt me to the point i couldnt cry about our relationship because I knew it was over from the time you let Amberley decide what happens in your life. Sadly, this is goodbye. I'm not leaving because I stopped caring, but rather because I care too much that it hurts and it feels like I'm fighting for a relationship that you gave up on a while ago. I love you but loving you is costing me too much of myself. The truth is I fought for us until I had nothing left to give you anymore. I will always love you but from a distance, where it hurts less. I'm letting you go even though my heart is screaming to stay.

Woah

Yooo

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