Sleeping in Separate Beds: Healthy Habit or Relationship Red

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is buzzing with a lively debate on whether sleeping in separate beds is healthy for couples. Members are weighing in on the balance between needing personal space and the importance of nightly cuddles. This discussion highlights the diverse perspectives within our active chat, proving that even the most common relationship habits can spark engaging and thought-provoking conversations...

happycopper-20 OP

Having you and your partner have your own space is healthy and comfortable

gentleunicorn-93

Ig

swiftorchid-87

mmm..maybe but idk

silvertemple-32

no cuddles?

happycopper-20 OP

well you can visit each other's room anytime but also have your own sapce and me time

happycopper-20 OP

Visiting beds creates a sense of dating and excitement

snowyjungle-82

If married nope....

@happycopper-20 Having you and your partner have your own space is healthy and comfortable
snowyorange-96

Uh not really

snowyorange-96

Cuddles are better

snowyorange-96

If i had partner id need daily cuddles

snowyorange-96

And them close

happycopper-20 OP

you can have cuddles whenever tho, its just that you have your own space to do you

@happycopper-20 you can have cuddles whenever tho, its just that you have your own space to do you
snowyorange-96

No

snowyorange-96

It feels like they abonden me

snowyorange-96

I rather have them near me

happycopper-20 OP

i mean if you trusted each other enough, why would they abandon you?

@happycopper-20 Having you and your partner have your own space is healthy and comfortable
jadetiger-51

Do you mean sleeping in separate beds 90% of the time or sleeping in separate beds like.. 20, maybe 10% of the time??

happycopper-20 OP

20%-30% of the time

@happycopper-20 Having you and your partner have your own space is healthy and comfortable
grandquiver-69

I agree, better for wanting to be alone sometimes

@jadetiger-51 Do you mean sleeping in separate beds 90% of the time or sleeping in separate beds like.. 20, maybe…
happycopper-20 OP

like maybe 20%-30%.

@happycopper-20 like maybe 20%-30%.
jadetiger-51

Then that's not really a hot-take..

jadetiger-51

no couple sleeps together in the same bed 100% of the time anyway.

jadetiger-51

I'd prefer to cuddle up with my partner.. I'd say, 95% of the time, but honestly, I'd pay for my own space sometimes too.

rustyorchid-54

I've never been in that position before so I don't know

@jadetiger-51 I'd prefer to cuddle up with my partner.. I'd say, 95% of the time, but honestly, I'd pay for my ow…
rustyorchid-54

Seems fair
Just never been in that position before to think about that

sunnyjester-27

Then you don't need a partner but a housemate

@happycopper-20 Having you and your partner have your own space is healthy and comfortable
niftyzenith-49

Space is healthy i agree but at least for me, sharing beds is not the solution to this

niftyzenith-49

It works for some people and thats amazing but personally i dont even see a reason to live together at that point beyond financial reasons.

niftyzenith-49

Sleeping in the same bed is like my 3rd favourite thing in a relationship lol

niftyzenith-49

Even after an argument, having to come back to 1 room together for the night can bring at least temporary peace. Ill have my personal space during the day insteaf

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