Would You Marry Into a Hostile Family? | FriendZone Debate
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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community is diving into a deep discussion about relationships and family boundaries. Members are debating whether they would marry someone whose family dislikes them, exploring the complexities of toxic versus loving family environments. This engaging thread highlights personal perspectives on finding support, setting boundaries, and the importance of mutual respect in long-term partnerships....
No, I just want peace but maybe yea if... 
Yes
I can disagree
Having a hatefull family is worse
Its better to have a loving family
But sometimes you dont always get it
If both of us aren't rly family type ppl then maybe
They lie to u, they dont talk to u , they hate seeing you
And way more
They pretend they love you
Some loving families r a bit too close
As in taking up all your time
Having an Abu*ve fam is worse
You should appriciate if u have such good family
I wish i had it
Ofc but knowing the family hates u just makes it clear that u can distance yourself from them
No
Close and loving doesn't always equate to 'good' imo
Having hate family means for someone who always wanted to be loved that they just wanna not continue shi bc like
They are seeing people close with family
But they cant get same
And its always arguement or
Bad behaviors
I almost electricified
Bad things
Myself💀
No but its better than having bad ah fam
Got a laptop and was fidgeting💀
Imagine ur own family lying to u
And plays villan cards
That still happens in families like that
All the time
Loving family is kind family
Ehh
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Yes great idea
Well appriciate what you have
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I wish i had loving family
Rethinking this I don't rly know what is supposed to be loving
Loving is when ur family is happy for u and support you and like care for you with their heart and actually tries to spend time with u
Find things to do together
As a family
Well sometimes doing things together gets a bit much
Id do anything for that
Not just that, also just draining all your energy and messing with it
Till midnight for multiple days while being stressed abt work and stuff makes it a bit harder
Common in many families
Maybe
Yes, I def would
(It's intented that my gf is ok with it too obv)
Hope you'll feel that way w your kids too,
Abandoned their family for you?
Are you sure about that? You're not welcome in her family
Best idea fr
Maybe she won't do that
Well, they're not our children. We are going to make OUR family, not their family
Imagine after leaving your family for them, they leave you at the end 
So building trust first and strengthening connections between eachother is crucial
Do you think she'll leave her family for you
Wont have kids
Yea but we never know
I don't think, I can abandon my family for a random dude aka Mr boyfriend
I wouldn't bother trying to date someone for too long
Unless it's long distance, then maybe
Oh ig it's a personal thing so I won't give comment on that,
Like 8y to 11y dating?
As I said before, assuming that she is ok with it too Otherwise I'd just leave. I have no duty whatsoever to stick with someone that doesn't care about me being hated by people she knows.
Deffo not that, too long
Fr, 3y is enough then you can break up
Tbh even three yrs is long for me, but since I've never been in a relationship I'm just basing that on how irl friends have done it
Yea, it's easy for you anyway, yea sometimes love required sacrifice so you can just ignore and continue w your relationship
I see but 6 month would be better, also don't expect it to be perfect yea
Yh ofc since no one is perfect, also yh at least a few months would work
Ye
"Sacrifice" doesn't mean "suffer years of hate and belittlement while your partner does nothing to prevent this"
STFU CLANKER
i dont care abt their family as long as they love me
yes
no
So what are you going to do about it
Oh so you'll accept the humiliation and hate
I've already told you
I'm leaving
First I will win their heart, then I will marry my partner..
yuh
Nah you won't
I don't believe that
Cool
Idc
I know me
You know shit about me
So yeah, that pretty sums up everything
Sometimes it's just impossible to win their heart
im still hungry
Chill like bro I'm just kidding
What do you wanna eat
mm french fries
Usually, when you have children after marriage, it gets better..
with chicken tenders
Kids nowadays 🤣
👍
Can you cook? I'm hungry too
uuh i can tryy
Nope, it doesn't, a friend of mine is in this situation been dating for 3y now his introduced him to his family they rejected him because he's broke
Don't burn the house
i try not to
🥲 😭
My aunt did love marriage, Going against the family
My grandparents (her parents) wasn't happy
I don't think I can do that
But after marriage when they had kids, everything get settled
It's beed 13-14 years now
But when I visit her these days... I see problems in their relationship
Don't do that if you don't wanted to
But family come first, so you can't really blame him for that but if you two are married then you should become one of his priorities and should always stand for you I'm front of them
It's sad yea
They can just fake being happy
Ofc
ii dont caare
hmmm
certainly
if french fries and chicken tenders are included
beileve it or not dairy and meat makes me throw up alot
meats like beef and prok and stuff
things like chicken tenders dont
Yeah real
