المواعدة الحديثة والقيم التقليدية: النقاش الكبير

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oliveviolet-93 OP

But for the vast majority of women it would be beneficial to support your husband

oliveviolet-93 OP

The only thing that can make a good man better is a good woman at his side

oliveviolet-93 OP

Name a few

oliveviolet-93 OP

That’s like saying since African Americans were slaves for so long that’s why they are all stupid

oliveviolet-93 OP

That would be an incorrect statement

oliveviolet-93 OP

Your past ancestors dont determine your innate values or intelligence

oliveviolet-93 OP

If that was the case I would be less intelligent since I’m black

oliveviolet-93 OP

Elaborate

oliveviolet-93 OP

I get you’re point but you’re using a totally different example that doesn’t work

oliveviolet-93 OP

Your original claim is since women never had rights to study and teach and all of that but men have

oliveviolet-93 OP

Paraphrasing

oliveviolet-93 OP

But that’s about the claim

oliveviolet-93 OP

Then you say people born into places WITHOUT access to this stuff can’t possibly get smart

oliveviolet-93 OP

So what about women born into the US with equal education

oliveviolet-93 OP

I’ll agree the ancestors does kind of determine that only it’s this example

oliveviolet-93 OP

Look

oliveviolet-93 OP

Let’s take out women’s education and call it just education for this example

oliveviolet-93 OP

There are colleges teaching this “education”

oliveviolet-93 OP

Open to men and women

oliveviolet-93 OP

How come men perform better nowadays

oliveviolet-93 OP

Because hundreds of years ago like you said women didn’t have access to

oliveviolet-93 OP

But now that they have access why are they still behind

oliveviolet-93 OP

I’m saying for most of human history it’s been women haven’t had education

oliveviolet-93 OP

That’s what I meant by hundreds of years

oliveviolet-93 OP

Ok than answer me this

oliveviolet-93 OP

If Africans had no right to study and stuff like woman

oliveviolet-93 OP

They were enslaved for thousands of years

oliveviolet-93 OP

Egypt

oliveviolet-93 OP

Rome

oliveviolet-93 OP

Greece

oliveviolet-93 OP

Most recently America

oliveviolet-93 OP

How come Africans today don’t need to “catch up”

oliveviolet-93 OP

Give them the same education as us and they thrive as we do

oliveviolet-93 OP

And how come the African men are smarter than the African women

oliveviolet-93 OP

Neither one had education yet the men still picked it up faster

oliveviolet-93 OP

When they did get access

oliveviolet-93 OP

Fair point but the different in time isn’t to long

oliveviolet-93 OP

It’s not

oliveviolet-93 OP

So hold on to that thought

oliveviolet-93 OP

How long did it take them to go from teaching the first Chinese people

oliveviolet-93 OP

To Chinese people are smart

oliveviolet-93 OP

Give me an estimate on years

oliveviolet-93 OP

50?

oliveviolet-93 OP

100?

sageanchor-35

:aqua_sip:

oliveviolet-93 OP

The main point is you can’t use “catch up” as an excuse

oliveviolet-93 OP

We had the first black university in 1837

oliveviolet-93 OP

Where women were admitted

oliveviolet-93 OP

We had a bunch of other hbcu

oliveviolet-93 OP

Early that women

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