Dating mit älteren Männern: Reife vs. Alter | FriendZone-Diskussion

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Diese Diskussion auf dem Discord-Server FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC geht der Frage nach, ob das Dating mit älteren Männern eine bessere Beziehung garantiert. Community-Mitglieder wägen den Unterschied zwischen der Suche nach Reife und bestimmten Altersgruppen ab und bieten ausgewogene Ratschläge zur Suche nach einem Partner, der einen wirklich wertschätzt. Es wird betont, wie wichtig es ist, in einer gesunden Beziehung auf Charakterzüge zu achten, anstatt Erwartungen an das Alter zu knüpfen....

@jadezenith-71 The simple thing for me love is mutual
quickbadger-36

Not always

jadezenith-71

And I am childish for my age , I want someone who can cherish me at the same time understand me , and vjce versa

@jadezenith-71 And I am childish for my age , I want someone who can cherish me at the same time understand me , a…
quickbadger-36

That's a full package

quickbadger-36

I hope you find

@quickbadger-36 Not always
jadezenith-71

I am talking about myself dude

@jadezenith-71 I am talking about myself dude
quickbadger-36

I know. You want a mutual love

jadezenith-71

🤞🏻🙏🏻🤲🏻

quickbadger-36

It's that easy to make love equal?

@quickbadger-36 I know. You want a mutual love
jadezenith-71

I want my partner to love me more

@jadezenith-71 I want my partner to love me more
quickbadger-36

I thought you wanted something mutual

embernoodle-23 OP

thats horrible thing to experiemce

quickbadger-36

I don't know, people have different capacities o showing love

@quickbadger-36 I thought you wanted something mutual
jadezenith-71

Mutual is a term but can you irl get that mutual love it's a big no , either husbands love more or either wife's love more

quickbadger-36

I can't force my expectations out of someone

@jadezenith-71 Mutual is a term but can you irl get that mutual love it's a big no , either husbands love more or…
quickbadger-36

That's just crazy then.

jadezenith-71

But my partner should love me more

quickbadger-36

I hope you find such

@jadezenith-71 But my partner should love me more
quickbadger-36

What if they can't meet that your expectations of them. What if you are the one that loves them more

quickbadger-36

Well,me taking a big break till I'm ready for a life(like marriage or so)

@quickbadger-36 What if they can't meet that your expectations of them. What if you are the one that loves them more
jadezenith-71

It's possible but my mom says if a man loves you more then there are more chances that the relationship will work out as compared to women loving more

@jadezenith-71 It's possible but my mom says if a man loves you more then there are more chances that the relation…
quickbadger-36

Pretty much most guys would want a girl that loves them more too

quickbadger-36

A relationship would only work if you both want it to and not because of you loves the most

@quickbadger-36 Pretty much most guys would want a girl that loves them more too
jadezenith-71

Men are more practical compared to women, and as I said earlier I am a bit childish so I want my partner to understand me

jadezenith-71

Are you a man

quickbadger-36

I guess people are that passionate. I'm very much nonchalant when it comes to things like that

@jadezenith-71 Men are more practical compared to women, and as I said earlier I am a bit childish so I want my pa…
quickbadger-36

Hmm. Not all guys are practical,but I do hope you find the type you seek

jadezenith-71

Ok tell me how you will treat your wife if you come to know she doesn't have any past , she hasn't dated anyone , and you're her only one and last

@quickbadger-36 Hmm. Not all guys are practical,but I do hope you find the type you seek
jadezenith-71

Amen🤞🏻

quickbadger-36

Yeah yeah. I don't really give much effort to it, life is already tasking enough to b trying to be someone's expectation of me

quickbadger-36

Yh

quickbadger-36

But she's just like every other regular person :armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

Using the word true an woman

quickbadger-36

Hmm

quickbadger-36

You are setting a high bar

merrynectar-54

Most older men date younger women because they know they're easier to manipulate and take control of, it can be said that yes maybe in the right age range a few years younger is fine and can definitely apply to "older men love you more" but more importantly if a man can't find a woman who's around his age that would like to date him what does that tell you? It can definitely lean towards predatory behavior if an older man likes younger and dates younger, "Maybe they have a preference" maybe they do, but don't you think it's weird how their preference is younger? Why not someone their age or someone close to their age, why would they want someone whose life isn't on the same page as theirs, they have ways to manipulate you that you don't even know of, i had a friend completely ruin herself over an older man who took advantage of her youth and purity, please be careful.

jadezenith-71

That's what I meant

quickbadger-36

You probably the one seeing her that way. Still just a regular person in the end

quickbadger-36

Not until you can't meet them yourself

@merrynectar-54 Most older men date younger women because they know they're easier to manipulate and take control o…
merrynectar-54

If no one reads this I will doe

quickbadger-36

I see

jadezenith-71

For me love is a one time decision

@merrynectar-54 If no one reads this I will doe
quickbadger-36

I read it

luckyxenon-54

I like older girls

quickbadger-36

But girls Thier age also prefer people of different range

merrynectar-54

My mother gave birth to her third baby at 30+ i think they'll be fine

@merrynectar-54 My mother gave birth to her third baby at 30+ i think they'll be fine
jadezenith-71

They will be

@merrynectar-54 My mother gave birth to her third baby at 30+ i think they'll be fine
quickbadger-36

A 50/50 possiblity of them being fine. But okay

jadezenith-71

I think adoption is better

@quickbadger-36 But girls Thier age also prefer people of different range
merrynectar-54

Yes true, but it is the older person's job to make sure youth is protected and cared for in a way that isn't slowly draining their youth away, as an older person you should know better then to take advantage of someone who you know isn't in the right state of mind when it comes to loving older, people younger are naive, more prone to getting manipulated and taken advantage.

@jadezenith-71 I think adoption is better
quickbadger-36

Some people want a biological kid

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