Is Looksmaxxing Insecurity? The Modern Masculinity Debate
Zusammenfassung
FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosts a deep dive into the origins of looksmaxxing and its impact on modern masculinity. This community discussion explores whether current trends in male appearance are driven by genuine self-care or underlying social insecurity. Join the conversation as members analyze how societal expectations and cultural figures influence the way young men define their identity today.
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I hope women are better than this 🙂
I wish men the same
It simply means you assume the worst in people my man
Nah , it's just not people
Always look the negative
It's the whole setup
Yeah I know!!
I have weighed the pros and cons
All that makes life worth living is experience
And that too you let go , you just can be present in the present
Pessimism does help us get rid of many blindfolds but the thing is it does not help us to become better so it becomes pointless sometimes
Why to become better?
What is there to conquer?
I would say I'm a realist
I hope you relate to me then
What's there to relate to
These
I'm not pessimistic
But you said you were a realist
I know when to optimistic
Are you from India?
Yeah. Cause at the end of the day. Reality settles it all
No, but our conversation doesn't require the fact of where I'm from. Does it?
I agree
Can you help me out here then man?
Elaborate
If you're comfortable having a conversation of my opinion of the world and yours
Yourself!! So that you grow
There's a quote "the blind leading the blind"
I had a goal , I gave my 100% ,and I achieved it , I was happy and then it slipped my hands , and nothing interests me anymore
No wonder you feel that giving effort and doing better doesn't matter!!
Why do you try to be better?
But the thing is what if you had remained in that place without starting!! Remember we always have two choices-
Either stop here(become pessimist like you are now and never take a step)- fail before even starting.
2)start and most likely you'll fail again but the thing it does it gives you a purpose to live for my man
Oh. Sure. I would love that
Because I deserve it!!
I want it- I want to be In the top
That is what I am talking about
I can look through the facade
I can no longer fool myself
And that's what's killing me man
And what then , I have walked that path
I told you
It isn't what you think it is
Give me a common example of a facade you speak of
A dream
A goal
Yeah, I have been pessimistic for a long time so I could understand a little but
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