How Do You Love Someone? Deep Conversations at FriendZone

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FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC is a vibrant community where members engage in meaningful discussions. This announcement highlights a recent deep-dive conversation regarding the nature of love, the complexities of online relationships, and the philosophy of sacrifice. It showcases the server's commitment to providing a space for members to vent, share personal perspectives, and connect on a deeper level beyond casual small talk.

@fleetumber-40 Hmm So, how would you love him? Only in your mind?
quickbadger-36

Maybe

quickbadger-36

It's not a something that can easily be simplified

@quickbadger-36 I also love myself enough to think about myself before giving into a love that I have to sacrifice…
fleetumber-40

Things like time is quite a sacrifice, don’t you think?

@quickbadger-36 It's not a something that can easily be simplified
fleetumber-40

Yeah, I do agree on this

@fleetumber-40 Things like time is quite a sacrifice, don’t you think?
quickbadger-36

Time, attention,etc

quickbadger-36

Anything you can lose

@quickbadger-36 Maybe
fleetumber-40

Hmm
I guess, you don’t always have to show it…
Love is love

I agree

@quickbadger-36 Anything you can lose
fleetumber-40

Yeah

@fleetumber-40 Hmm I guess, you don’t always have to show it… Love is love I agree
quickbadger-36

Yeah.., people display it in a different way. I do find it cringe to even say something like I love you

quickbadger-36

Me spending my time and attention says alot

quickbadger-36

But I guess people can't read minds and still need those words

@quickbadger-36 Yeah.., people display it in a different way. I do find it cringe to even say something like I love…
fleetumber-40

Yeah
Words don’t matter to me…

@fleetumber-40 Yeah Words don’t matter to me…
quickbadger-36

Really?

quickbadger-36

I can't be so sure

@quickbadger-36 But I guess people can't read minds and still need those words
fleetumber-40

I still do not know the reason…

Maybe for some false sense of security?

@fleetumber-40 I still do not know the reason… Maybe for some false sense of security?
quickbadger-36

No.. because that's how we humans communicate

@quickbadger-36 Really?
fleetumber-40

Yeah…

@fleetumber-40 Yeah…
quickbadger-36

So if the person who like says they love you. I guess that wouldn't matter

@quickbadger-36 No.. because that's how we humans communicate
fleetumber-40

I guess…
But those 3 words “I love you”
What does it give to you?

@fleetumber-40 I guess… But those 3 words “I love you” What does it give to you?
quickbadger-36

It passes a message. It's a communication of feeling

@quickbadger-36 So if the person who like says they love you. I guess that wouldn't matter
fleetumber-40

Well… their words won’t be needed to prove they love me…I guess

@fleetumber-40 Well… their words won’t be needed to prove they love me…I guess
quickbadger-36

Hmm... Works differently for everyone then

@quickbadger-36 It passes a message. It's a communication of feeling
fleetumber-40

I guess, it’s true…

@quickbadger-36 Hmm... Works differently for everyone then
fleetumber-40

Yeah, I just believe that you don’t need to do anything to prove it to me…
If I do love you, I do love you..

@fleetumber-40 Yeah, I just believe that you don’t need to do anything to prove it to me… If I do love you, I do l…
fleetumber-40

But if she needs those words, I guess, I would say it

@fleetumber-40 Yeah, I just believe that you don’t need to do anything to prove it to me… If I do love you, I do l…
quickbadger-36

Hmm... Sounds a bit one sided

quickbadger-36

People have to prove things

@fleetumber-40 But if she needs those words, I guess, I would say it
quickbadger-36

:armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

Soka

@quickbadger-36 People have to prove things
fleetumber-40

Again, you are right

fleetumber-40

Through their actions

@fleetumber-40 Through their actions
quickbadger-36

And not everyone sees this actions as an act of love

quickbadger-36

Someone can be kind to me and still not be an act of love

fleetumber-40

We aren’t fighting

quickbadger-36

It's Discord :armscrossed:

@quickbadger-36 Someone can be kind to me and still not be an act of love
fleetumber-40

Yeah, I’ve seen this… a lot

@quickbadger-36 It's Discord
fleetumber-40

Literally

@fleetumber-40 Yeah, I’ve seen this… a lot
quickbadger-36

So. The words are just as important as the actions

@quickbadger-36 So. The words are just as important as the actions
fleetumber-40

You think so?

fleetumber-40

Can’t someone say those words with no actual meaning behind them?
Basically, a lie… I mean

@fleetumber-40 Can’t someone say those words with no actual meaning behind them? Basically, a lie… I mean
quickbadger-36

Of course lol. That's like what happens some of the times

@fleetumber-40 You think so?
quickbadger-36

And actions can also be a lie

quickbadger-36

So I can do some acts of love to bait someone if I want to:armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

Wouldn't be so hard

@quickbadger-36 Of course lol. That's like what happens some of the times
fleetumber-40

So, you would choose to believe those lies because of love…
Thus, love being called blind

@quickbadger-36 So I can do some acts of love to bait someone if I want to
fleetumber-40

Well, I wouldn’t be surprised…
It’s you, Afterall

@fleetumber-40 So, you would choose to believe those lies because of love… Thus, love being called blind
quickbadger-36

Not really, how would I choose something that I know is not true

quickbadger-36

Well if I don't know that's a lie. I guess that's fine

@fleetumber-40 Well, I wouldn’t be surprised… It’s you, Afterall
quickbadger-36

Yeah. It's me once again

quickbadger-36

Words can be lies

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