Is Online Dating Worth It? The FriendZone Debate

Summary

The FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC community recently sparked a heated discussion regarding the viability of online relationships. Members debated the challenges of physical distance, the psychological aspects of falling for someone online, and the risks involved. This engaging thread highlights the diverse perspectives within our server on whether digital connections can evolve into meaningful, long-term partnerships.

@sunnyjester-27 I don't trust the other gender to stay alone in one room, so online is better
swiftorange-31

False accusationsssssss

hazelwalrus-55

Because i blocked you that's why you can't

amberyellow-59

Through dating apps maybe but definitely not through social media like discord lmao

amberyellow-59

You'll be talking to a 45 year old bald fat man pretending to be a girl

@amberyellow-59 You'll be talking to a 45 year old bald fat man pretending to be a girl
happycopper-20

Now tha'ts scary

@amberyellow-59 You'll be talking to a 45 year old bald fat man pretending to be a girl
swiftorange-31

You just changed my perspective of cringe

@sunnyjester-27 I don't trust the other gender to stay alone in one room, so online is better
happycopper-20

Fr tho

quiethammer-13

I was once,horrible experience never again

@happycopper-20 Now tha'ts scary
amberyellow-59

I guarantee it's the case probably 40% of the time

happycopper-20

online relationship be like, fake it till you make it

amberyellow-59

Or peds

@quiethammer-13 I was once,horrible experience never again
quiethammer-13

Dated for over 2 months then she told me to “roleplay as her sister” and told me she was into ||1n$est.||

@swiftorange-31 False accusationsssssss
sunnyjester-27

What accusations?

@quiethammer-13 Dated for over 2 months then she told me to “roleplay as her sister” and told me she was into ||1n$…
nobleriver-83

WHATTT😭😭

quiethammer-13

She got blocked immediately i dont recommend dating people online its alot easier for them to keep BIG secrets from you

@nobleriver-83 WHATTT😭😭
quiethammer-13

😔

@quiethammer-13 Dated for over 2 months then she told me to “roleplay as her sister” and told me she was into ||1n$…
happycopper-20

Wtf bro that's unresolved family issue talking right there. Good thing you ended it

@quiethammer-13 She got blocked immediately i dont recommend dating people online its alot easier for them to keep…
nobleriver-83

YEAHH I SEEE😭😭

quiethammer-13

Yeah

@quiethammer-13 😔
happycopper-20

Friendhip online? Good, but relationship? Nah

@happycopper-20 Friendhip online? Good, but relationship? Nah
nobleriver-83

agree agree

@quiethammer-13 She got blocked immediately i dont recommend dating people online its alot easier for them to keep…
amberyellow-59

No it's just more likely they will have mental health issues

quiethammer-13

I mean i had one really good online relationship but her parents made her delete discord sadly she was really nice we dated for 5 months and we almost met in person sadly

@amberyellow-59 No it's just more likely they will have mental health issues
nobleriver-83

that's why they NEED to online date

@nobleriver-83 that's why they NEED to online date
amberyellow-59

Yeah

@quiethammer-13 I mean i had one really good online relationship but her parents made her delete discord sadly she…
nobleriver-83

Aww, I mean it COULD work, but doesn't happen that often

@nobleriver-83 Aww, I mean it COULD work, but doesn't happen that often
quiethammer-13

I still miss her so badly bro she was so nice i told her id wait and i still am even if shes with someone new id still like to stay friends

@quiethammer-13 I still miss her so badly bro she was so nice i told her id wait and i still am even if shes with s…
nobleriver-83

Omgg, she seems really special bro😭😭 just be sure that it isn't limerance

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

@nobleriver-83 Omgg, she seems really special bro😭😭 just be sure that it isn't limerance
quiethammer-13

No idk if its romantic anymore i just miss her as a person i guess

@nobleriver-83 Omgg, she seems really special bro😭😭 just be sure that it isn't limerance
happycopper-20

Yeah limerance or infatuation. It's so scary to be mistaken for love

@quiethammer-13 No idk if its romantic anymore i just miss her as a person i guess
happycopper-20

That's sweet

@happycopper-20 Yeah limerance or infatuation. It's so scary to be mistaken for love
nobleriver-83

Frr, but Idek what love is 😭😭

@nobleriver-83 Frr, but Idek what love is 😭😭
happycopper-20

No one knows bro. Even married couples failed to have it most of the time. Just the lucky ones really experience them in their lifetime.

@happycopper-20 No one knows bro. Even married couples failed to have it most of the time. Just the lucky ones real…
nobleriver-83

Is there even real love?

nobleriver-83

Maybe it's just lust to procreate and ppl weren't even supposed to stay together for THAT long?

@nobleriver-83 Is there even real love?
amberyellow-59

When I have a cup of coffee in the morning

amberyellow-59

True love

@amberyellow-59 When I have a cup of coffee in the morning
nobleriver-83

Eww

nobleriver-83

Only weird ppl drink coffee

@sunnyjester-27 What accusations?
swiftorange-31

You said you don't trust males to be in same room with you yeah ?

@nobleriver-83 Only weird ppl drink coffee
happycopper-20

welp, iused to hate it and, still do, but i need it to operate in the morning

@nobleriver-83 Maybe it's just lust to procreate and ppl weren't even supposed to stay together for THAT long?
happycopper-20

Maybe not. I know some old folks who genuinely love their partner

@swiftorange-31 You said you don't trust males to be in same room with you yeah ?
nobleriver-83

It's the most scariest thing to meet a group of gangster boys when it is alr dark outside

@happycopper-20 welp, iused to hate it and, still do, but i need it to operate in the morning
nobleriver-83

Haha that's what all the addicted ones say, my mom included

@happycopper-20 Maybe not. I know some old folks who genuinely love their partner
nobleriver-83

How do u know if they actually do?

@nobleriver-83 How do u know if they actually do?
happycopper-20

I don't know, they seem happy. They argue but they still choose each other at the end of the day ig

@happycopper-20 I don't know, they seem happy. They argue but they still choose each other at the end of the day ig
nobleriver-83

I sound so picky, but like my parents do too. But they only do it bc life is alr too much, so even if they don't love eo, they're still together, bc they're used to it. Maybe they're also just used to the accompany..

happycopper-20

ig so, we won't really know. Just i said, only lucky individuals experience pure love

amberyellow-59

Most old couples that I know are just together for the company, not happy, just don't want to be alone lol

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