n3rds :) Community Safety Update
Résumé
n3rds :) announces an unmerge and moderation actions after discovering inappropriate conduct involving an underage member and lewd behavior that affected the community. The post explains why the change was made, notes incidents that made members uncomfortable, and reaffirms the server's zero tolerance for sexual misconduct and harassment. This matters to keep n3rds :) safe and trusted.
a lot of people are asking about the situation as to why I unmerged the server, and there is a real reason. I’m going to explain it but please read with caution, this may make some people uncomfortable
Jaz @v3rls was an integral mod in the server. She basically helped to build the server when we were starting and we all thought she was a good person. We also merged with her server as I thought she was a good person with best interests at heart, this did not end up being the case.
Jaz told us she was 15 years old, and she in fact was 15 years old, she lied to her boyfriend who was 20 years old at the time claiming to be 19 years old. None of us were aware about any of this. They participated in lewd activities and I would like to make it clear whoever her boyfriend was, did not know her true age. This is now her ex boyfriend who is now engaged, an adult and she is still an underage minor, trying to mess with an adults life who was not aware of what she had done, She also made people in this server uncomfortable by commenting about their bodies and acted out of line regarding it. She also defending people who asked members of the server for 18+ photos and other disgusting things, including events that happened in vc’s Everyone knows I DO NOT tolerate any of that in my server
