Sortir avec des hommes plus âgés : Maturité vs Âge | Discussion FriendZone
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Cette discussion sur le serveur Discord FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC explore la question courante de savoir si sortir avec des hommes plus âgés garantit une meilleure relation. Les membres de la communauté débattent de la différence entre rechercher la maturité et cibler des groupes d'âge spécifiques, offrant des conseils équilibrés pour trouver un partenaire qui vous valorise vraiment. Elle souligne l'importance de privilégier les traits de caractère plutôt que les attentes basées sur l'âge dans une relation saine....
For some reason this sentence just doesn't sit with me
That's their choice
Yes
Cause you do think they do it for the wrong reasons as always. Like someone can't just have good intentions
I agree
Hmm. Sure some of theses young people aren't as naive as you make them sound to be.
A person who SPECIFICALLY goes for younger doesn't seem predatory to you? Tell me whats the right age range starting the male is 50 how young can he go
Alright. A guy for 50 goes for a lady of 23
Is that predatory of you if she wants him?
You seem to want to erase her agency in the matter
Like she is just some NCP that's has her life all played out for her
Who are we to judge ppl , let them do whatever they want it's their choice
Not everyone has predatory intentions
Holy fuck
Holy fuck
I don't have a problem with anything, I don't judge ppl, I only make my life decisions and I am clear about those decisions
I gave a good example
No you did not.
Back read
My life's showing me chances of me finding someone younger than me
That's crazy
Hmm
A woman's prefrontal cortex isn't even fully developed till 25 and saying that the law doesn't matter once you turn 18 you can go date preds?
You are making decisions for her
But among the total confessions I ever get , most of them were of boys younger than me
No im not, it seems that way to you because you don't like how I'm right, im giving her what she should know
I said 23 which is a good age for someone to have some agency of their own
Don't act like a lady can't go after an older guy
Prefrontal you say. Like we do take all science for facts
Even at that 25 you think she can't make wrong decisions?
So if she wants to at 23 sure that's her agency and choice
I don't like how you dictate your own preference of life as standard for everyone else
That's all
You maybe right. But right for yourself is fine
For real
Obviously no body supports predatory men or women
Which is why I gave a good example of 50-23 and if both are mutual in it
You let them be rather than assumption everything came from a bad place
Anyways, for me anyone three years ahead or behind is fine for me
They see the worst in people
Y'all insane I'm srry
I guess media does make it look like everyone is suddenly the same
We aren't
I put up a good statement
You just saw it as insane without giving a good reason to why
Yeah. That's what she doesn't want to get
Even people of the Sam age can still do things for a bad reason
Unless she believes dating your age suddenly eliminates the things "that happen when you don't date your age"
Yeah, anyways let's not hurt her ego since she ain't putting up any good argument
Yeah.. that's happens when you state facts that people have said without having your own opinions or perspective to it
