Marriage Promises: Manipulation or Commitment? | FriendZone

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FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosts a deep dive into the complexities of modern dating. This community discussion explores whether marriage promises are being used as a tool for manipulation or if they reflect genuine commitment. Members weigh in on social pressures, the importance of personal growth before marriage, and how to spot red flags in relationships.

@lightsilver-62 well if they both think that's all to it congrats ig, but in the long run idk how that wil spiral
freshbeacon-38

well idk abt long run cos if a relationship is based on that thing onky , it’s bound to fall off when they find a better sleeping partner

@grandquiver-69 As in like let's say the divorce happened cos of certain issues occurred, idk like in some cultures…
lightsilver-62

there's also like the virginity factor, some cultures consider it a deal breaker

grandquiver-69

Oh yh also that

@freshbeacon-38 well idk abt long run cos if a relationship is based on that thing onky , it’s bound to fall off wh…
lightsilver-62

yeah that's what I meant because at one point you'll get sick of sleeping in general, well it's not like a concrete science every case is different, but usually it's difficult to maintain such on the long run

lightsilver-62

I'll be back guys gotta take care of thing quickly

@grandquiver-69 Giving what was supposed to be a gift back is a bit off
freshbeacon-38

i remembered a story i read on reddit abt smth related to this

So sum girl was planning to break up w her bf from 8 months but she waited till her bday so that her bf can gift her gaming pc

freshbeacon-38

And she broke up js after receiving that as a "gift"

@freshbeacon-38 And she broke up js after receiving that as a "gift"
grandquiver-69

Oh damn, I was using what I wrote as an actually example cos the husband kinda hit the wife (happened with a friend and I told her to report him cos it happened abroad)

swiftdelta-92

women ☕

grandquiver-69

Idk if they've divorced now, probs in court

@warmorchid-53 marriage is a social construct at the end of the day, and society tells us massivly one thing : a w…
snowyjungle-82

Marriage is great especially if both partners are reasonable and respects themselves
Getting married is okay if you want but not a must tho...
That want most people are confused with some people think life of a woman is revolves around marriage

@sunnyjester-27 Some men throw around marriage promises just to make you lower your guard. Suddenly it's ^^you're g…
swiftorchid-87

there's a reason everyone says to never trust anyone..

swiftorchid-87

not defending if someone does this

swiftorchid-87

but if ur an adult with a sound mind

swiftorchid-87

then u shouldnt believe in these things in first place

swiftorchid-87

people change all the time and they can hide behind their fake face

swiftdelta-92

people fall for obvious traps and then blamd everyone but themselves

@swiftdelta-92 people fall for obvious traps and then blamd everyone but themselves
lightsilver-62

I agree wuth ligma

swiftdelta-92

balls

@swiftdelta-92 balls
freshbeacon-38

aight bet....no what

lightsilver-62

so yeah, I mean I believe in true love ngl, but not the hollywood version

@lightsilver-62 so yeah, I mean I believe in true love ngl, but not the hollywood version
freshbeacon-38

wht abt japanese version their love stories in movies r so surreal

freshbeacon-38

Sometimes a bit extra

freshbeacon-38

😭

@freshbeacon-38 wht abt japanese version their love stories in movies r so surreal
swiftorchid-87

that aint real life

swiftorchid-87

love may exist but its not a forver existing thing between two persons

swiftorchid-87

it can change and does change

@freshbeacon-38 And she broke up js after receiving that as a "gift"
happybeacon-57

Yeah that’s a financial strategist right there , she’s making it far.

snowyjungle-82

That is why as a woman have a life before thinking about marriage and be ready to walk out if things change
Have self respect not feelings over everything

@freshbeacon-38 And she broke up js after receiving that as a "gift"
swiftdelta-92

i bet my life that would approve it

lightsilver-62

gotta dip guys talk later, take care

@swiftdelta-92 i bet my life that would approve it
freshbeacon-38

😭😭😭🖐

@happybeacon-57 Yeah that’s a financial strategist right there , she’s making it far.
freshbeacon-38

Truuu

@grandquiver-69 Like either side could be using the other for money
sunnyjester-27 OP

You see, you don't have an exemple:armscrossed:

@lightsilver-62 water found in ocean
sunnyjester-27 OP

:armscrossed:

@sunnyjester-27 You see, you don't have an exemple
grandquiver-69

I did have an example, it's lower down the messages

@swiftorchid-87 then u shouldnt believe in these things in first place
sunnyjester-27 OP

You don't know those men then

@sunnyjester-27 You don't know those men then
happybeacon-57

There’s always clear signs of someone being manipulative , just take it slow and they’ll slip.

@swiftdelta-92 i bet my life that would approve it
sunnyjester-27 OP

You seem to know me more than I thought

@sunnyjester-27 You don't know those men then
swiftorchid-87

but as an adult why are u even believing in any of this..

swiftorchid-87

people are like this..they lie and its not only men who lie

swiftdelta-92

tell her sis

swiftorchid-87

and a promise of marraige is not a pact signed by them..if ur doing something just cuz other one said something

swiftorchid-87

then u arent a rational person imo..

swiftdelta-92

ragebaiting atp

grandquiver-69

U need clear conditions to act as safeholds, but not everyone can do that ig

@swiftdelta-92 ragebaiting atp
swiftorchid-87

:y_lookaway:

sunnyjester-27 OP

Because you love the person and they use the love and promise of being together and marry you to just scam you

sunnyjester-27 OP

When you get feelings for someone you'll understand

@happybeacon-57 There’s always clear signs of someone being manipulative , just take it slow and they’ll slip.
sunnyjester-27 OP

Not really

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