Can Non-Binary People Be Femboys? | Femboy Order Community

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This announcement in the Femboy Order ・Femboy Tag ・LGBTQ・Femboys・ Gay・Furry・Trans・Roblox・Warthunder・Gay Tag・Furries server explores the intersection of non-binary identity and the femboy label. The community discusses how gender expression, terminology, and personal comfort define identity beyond traditional binary roles. It serves as a supportive space for members to navigate gender dysphoria and self-identification.

goldenyellow-69 OP

So I like identifying as a femboy. In fact, it is one of the only “boyish” terms I use for myself outside of twink sometimes. I myself, identify as non-binary. I also have chosen to have a girly name, and sometimes have gender dysphoria and will wear breast forms.

Now, I DO NOT identify as a girl. I tried for a while, did not work. I am just non-binary person, with girly name. Can I still identify as a femboy?

brightunicorn-14

You can Identify as whatever you want, no one can tell you that you are wrong.

@goldenyellow-69 So I like identifying as a femboy. In fact, it is one of the only “boyish” terms I use for myself o

rustyvalley-49

It seems like gender fluid

rustyvalley-49

Its like sometimes u feel more girly

rustyvalley-49

While other times more boyish

rustyvalley-49

Hope that makes sense

rustyvalley-49

And that i got the term correct

@rustyvalley-49 It seems like gender fluid
goldenyellow-69 OP

Yes no bc I don’t feel masculine. It’s literally just three terms i use that are male terms

goldenyellow-69 OP

I feel more girly than boyidh

@goldenyellow-69 Yes no bc I don’t feel masculine. It’s literally just three terms i use that are male terms
plaidbeacon-49

its better to be urself freely and not change urself for others and its fine if ur not masculine i like dressing up girly too ngl

@goldenyellow-69 I feel more girly than boyidh
vivideagle-68

girly and boyish are not what define your gender

vivideagle-68

masculinity and femininity are not the defining factors of gender

vivideagle-68

only terminology

vivideagle-68

do you prefer being called a boy, going by he/him, etc. while still being fem?

vivideagle-68

thats what makes a femboy

@vivideagle-68 do you prefer being called a boy, going by he/him, etc. while still being fem?
goldenyellow-69 OP

Yes no kinda. Gender fluid

vivideagle-68

if you are fine with both terms ALWAYS that usually indicate bigender, not genderfluid

vivideagle-68

genderfluid is when your identity(NOT PRESENTATION) fluctuates, so some days you may prefer for others to call you a boy and others a girl

@vivideagle-68 genderfluid is when your identity(NOT PRESENTATION) fluctuates, so some days you may prefer for oth

goldenyellow-69 OP

Idk man i usually just go with non binary bc when I try and think about it I start getting actual headaches. I tend to lean away from masculinity and with closer friends I’m fine with getting called he/him, but prefer using They/Them in general and with people i don’t consider close friends. I have never been truly okay with being called a girl (mainly childhood trauma but i digress), but I also have really bad gender dysphoria where I REALLY wish I was a girl and have chosen a girly name and blah blah blah. The main question i guess is could a Nonbinary person identify as a femboy

goldenyellow-69 OP

My brain hurts i thunk too hard

@goldenyellow-69 Idk man i usually just go with non binary bc when I try and think about it I start getting actual h

vivideagle-68

the answer to that is depends

vivideagle-68

non binary is a huge umbrella term

vivideagle-68

a lot of non binary people identify as boys, these imo can

vivideagle-68

but i dont think someone who completely rejects the lable of "boy" can realistically be called a "feminine boy"

goldenyellow-69 OP

Fair enough

goldenyellow-69 OP

Also w pfp

goldenyellow-69 OP

My brain doesnt know what it wants

@goldenyellow-69 Also w pfp
vivideagle-68

im matching with my bfs

goldenyellow-69 OP

I believe I have figured it out. I feel closer to boy than girl, i dont ever really feel like a girl, i usually just wish i was born one. I am now deciding to think of a new name. Holy crap my brain hurts

@goldenyellow-69 I believe I have figured it out. I feel closer to boy than girl, i dont ever really feel like a gir

vivideagle-68

btw wishing to be born a gender other than your own does not make you said gender, by that logic almost every woman in the middle east would be a trans guy lmao

vivideagle-68

it matters why you wish it, detached from gender expectations and norms would you still wanna be a girl? If nobody would give you shit for what you wanna do.

@vivideagle-68 btw wishing to be born a gender other than your own does not make you said gender, by that logic al

goldenyellow-69 OP

Well yeah, but I have actually talked a lot about these feelings with my therapist. Even without the gender expectations and stuff, I would still want to be a girl. It’s more of wishing my body was a girl’s, not the social aspect of it

goldenyellow-69 OP

I’m still kinda just exploring who I wanna be and I’ma just bring this up with my therapist when I see them next

goldenyellow-69 OP

Now I wonder
 can a person be a demiboy but still wanna have a girl’s body


@goldenyellow-69 Now I wonder
 can a person be a demiboy but still wanna have a girl’s body

vivideagle-68

gender identity and body goals are seperate

quickdelta-87

"MTF"? "Mobile Task force?

@quickdelta-87 "MTF"? "Mobile Task force?
goldenyellow-69 OP

Yes

@quickdelta-87 "MTF"? "Mobile Task force?
brightunicorn-14

Mhm

CommunityOne
@brightunicorn-14 You can Identify as whatever you want, no one can tell you that you are wrong.
olivezenith-88

However don’t expect others to identify you the exact way you want to be identified , however yeah if you don’t mind what others do , you do you

@olivezenith-88 However don’t expect others to identify you the exact way you want to be identified , however yeah

brightunicorn-14

Ofc

brightunicorn-14

Depends on the person I not my place to judge there life decisions

rustyvalley-49

Except if ur in america

rustyvalley-49

Then its not free land

olivezenith-88

Yep

youngknight-94

no ones doing that 😭

youngknight-94

even therians dont go that far

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