Chubby Femboy Struggles: Finding Self-Acceptance & Support
Summary
This announcement in the Femboy Order ・Femboy Tag ・LGBTQ・Femboys・ Gay・Furry・Trans・Roblox・Warthunder・Gay Tag・Furries server addresses the common struggle of body dysmorphia and the pressure to meet unrealistic beauty standards. It highlights the challenges of pursuing a specific aesthetic while balancing health concerns and personal limitations. The discussion emphasizes that being a valid femboy is not defined by body type, fostering a supportive space for members to share their experiences and...
My problem is that i'm quite chubby and even tho i've already been doing diet and working out for around 3-4 years i had some relapses caused by health problems stopping or heavy studies (finishing with university next month where i do my thesis defense)
So here i am at 24 yo almost 25 and i don't think i can ever be a valid femboy cause of my shit body nor lose weight fast enough with twink death getting me with everyone saying to start taking estrogens or else after 30 yo i can't ever be a femboy and such without it while it's not even an option for me out of choice and health problems that it can cause like Infertility, osteoporosis, or heart problems and especially on this last one i am in a vulnerable spot cause both sides of my family have quite the history of heart conditions so too risky for me (while i also have some slight hormonal issues myself already that luckily i treat already)
So idk what the fuck to do anymore i just feel doomed that i won't ever be a valid femboy nor happy and just stuck in a shit body till i die
You will say even if chubby it's valid
While all the femboys around are twinky and such with perfect body
With many others even saying that being fat inherently ruins the fem appearance and makes not valid as a femboy but just a disgusting creep
So idk what to do anymore
Can't lose fast enoi
Can't use hrt
I feel like i'm just doomed to be stuck in a shit body untill i die
I remember having this same talk with you in the vent channel so you don't have to take any of my advice but at the end of the day even if you can't seem to get your body looking the way you want it to look there are still gonna be people who love you for you and it really is okay to be chubby. there are many people who except the fact that their chubby and even love that part of themselves
and in this world it feels like it's not excepted to be any type of fat because of the skinny culture put on you and me but as long as you feel okay in your own skin it doesn't matter
https://youtu.be/CLsFtiOS0Pw?si=xw-bl2u1T-OJDJJj
You say this but the majority of femboys are all skinny and such meaning that's the standard to be valid
And i can't ever reach it anyway and am doomed
Why? If ya didn't read so I REPEAT
I'm almost 25
If i don't take estrogen by 30 twink death comes
And i can't be a valid femboy
And i can't seem to lose weight fast enough anyway
So at this point idk what to do other than drop dead as some people wrote to me in DMs on some socials
Cause i won't get the body i have to get anyway nor will be ever happy but just in constant pain anyway
So may as well
But people just keep on downplaying and not listening apparently
Even this guy confirmed it twice
Basicaly i'm done for
Others even called me a larper fof my being chubby and all
