Community Safety Update: Dealing with Unwanted DMs
Summary
This announcement addresses concerns regarding unwanted direct messages within the Femboy Order ・Femboy Tag ・LGBTQ・Femboys・ Gay・Furry・Trans・Roblox・Warthunder・Gay Tag・Furries server. It emphasizes the importance of following community rules, which strictly prohibit dating and unsolicited DMs. The post provides guidance on how to report harassment to moderators to ensure a safe environment for all members, highlighting that rule-breaking behavior will result in immediate bans.
This is becoming a big problem.
I dunno, maybe these people are seeing my outfit posts or something, but like 3 people in this server have DMed me trying to date me or just honestly being freaks.
My intro clearly States NO DMS unless you ask, and the server rules says this is not a dating server, but it's come to my attention that these people don't regard the rules at all.
I don't know how to stop this, and I've tried reporting but it doesn't exactly work. I just need help, if any mods see this I can give you the few usernames I have screenshotted and/or remember but I really need this issue to be resolved until it gets to a point that I either stop posting completely or I leave this server.
Sorry for the inconvenience, love all my fellow femboys!
Sincerely,
- Hexa.
people keep DMing me and I don't exactly knoe what to do about it.
DM a mod
they'll get banned
dm a mod or #🎫・report-user please
people keep DMing me and I don't exactly know what to do about it.
I dealt with this before
Once had an adult DM me and he blacked out his pfp and changed his display to a full stop after leaving the server
People are fucking creeps
i had a dude tryna meet up for sx, kept sending me his dih and tried sxting
Same.
Wait
Was his user Phantomdoggo12
no it was something with cleveland
And being an adult doesn't make one safe from creeps
I know,
Glad you do, some people think that one is safe after becoming an adult
That's...
extremely ignorant
how does one even come to that conclusion
shit
they think that when someone turns 18 (or whatever age it is in your country), you go through a sudden biological shift, where you suddenly change from a young child to a full grown adult and you are suddenly fully developed.
???
YK I actually know some adults who think that, too.
They think that they're so different from me just because they happen to be 3-4 years older.
That they're somehow on a higher level
and that they're full grown
and they don't realize that people develop at different rates, some 18 year old could be further developed than 22 year old me
Either way you brain doesn't mature until you are 25-30
yeah, and that is also different for every person (I hear many say that it matures at 25 for everyone)
Most mature at 25 but if you have autism, adhd, ect it happens at 30
I suggest a ticket, only cause its easier to track
uh
not why i had pinged you
theres something that concerns me
Huh
Cmon man that was like a week ago
I'm not gonna remember now
lol
A week too late on a ping 😭
I have the same problem actually. Its weird af, but the best solution is to just not dm accept the message requests. If you can, just ignore them, only way ive truly found that stops them. (Also ill put my status to smth like “I DONT WANT AN ONLINE BF SCREW OFF” every once in a while and that seems to work when the messages start coming it)
