Confession & Style Help — Relationship and Goth Tips
Summary
Within the Femboy Order・Femboys・Furry・LGBTQ・Roblox ・Tomboys ・Gay・Femboy Tag・Gay Tag・Twink Tag・Minecraft community forum thread titled "Confession & Style Help — Relationship and Goth Tips," a user expressed confusion about pursuing a straight male interest while transitioning, alongside seeking advice on adopting a goth/alt style despite financial and knowledge limitations. Other members offered supportive advice, suggesting the user focus on self-acceptance and gradual style exploration rather ...
So, I like a guy, I'm a girl but I don't look like a girl, he is straight and idk if that is good or bad for me if you see it in a short term would have been better for me he to be gay but in a long term when I will start HRT it would be bad, the perfect thing is him being bi but I really doubt he is, so it's useless building strategy on a thing that's very unlikely (yet plausible, I found him on 2 femboy servers) I want to be goth/alt but I don't really have the money, time and the knowledge (I don't know shit about styles in general, like yea i can distinct them but idk what clothes should i buy, how do i put them on to look nice and not like a dumbass). This is all thxxx (≧ω≦)
is this guy online or irl
Hey… I get what you’re saying, and honestly it sounds really confusing to deal with both feelings and identity stuff at the same time.
About the guy… try not to build everything around “what if”. If he’s straight, that’s just something you can’t control, and it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you. Sometimes feelings just don’t line up, and that’s okay, even if it sucks.
And about your style… you don’t need money or to know everything to start. You can go step by step, try simple pieces, see what feels like you. Nobody starts knowing how to dress perfectly, we all figure it out over time.
Just don’t be too hard on yourself… you’re already trying to understand yourself and that’s actually a big deal. Take it slow, you don’t have to solve everything at once 🤍
dang
I should be softer with my advice like mahpop
you're overthinking it
just tell him
look at yourself and ask yourself if you'd date you
style is just something you'd figure out along the way
do we think I'm a good advice giver
I get what you meant, but it’s not that simple. People often see themselves differently than they really are — someone can be amazing and still feel not enough, or the opposite. Even if she were the “perfect” person by every standard, it doesn’t mean the guy she likes would feel the same. Attraction isn’t a formula, it depends on personal taste, timing, and things you can’t control.
true
I mean
even if he did like transs or men or women
by the average standard
is she attractive enough
to think that she looks pleasing to herself
For now just be close to him joke to him about femboy and other stuff I'm just see his reaction and day by day come closer to him your joke become bolder and bolder reveal himself when he feel ready
makes sense
in my class
arcamadonna
That's what i'm already doin
Straight up NO br, i'm still a guy to him
That's like the whole point, I'm asking help because ik he wouldn't ever date me, as I am now
Dude this ain't my first rodeo, it's just my first time with a boy
Just got in a debate with him on whether (in a immage) it was a Russian or Egyptian AK, or an ak74u or an ak74 or an ak47 or an akm
It's Russian
Yes the original AK design is Russian but it it was produced on license in Egypt
Oh yeah we also do it here
But I don't think we have licence
I can't move on
So boni tutti a parlà (Evryone is good at speaking)
"Tra dire e il fare c'è di mezzo il mare" (in between sayin' and doin' there's an ocean)
I just have to glow up, mainly for me and secondarily for him
Ahhhh i hate English, like it's much easier to say it then actually doing it bro
He is also homofobic 😭 but i love him
