Exploring Gender Identity: Demiboy, Genderfluid & More

I guess maybe you are a Boyflux then right?

And what does that mean?

Sometimes u feel 100% masculine other times you feel more feminine etc

The proper work they’re thinking of is demiboy but you might just like to explore your gender identity/expression

demiboy huh

Well I Google it and it may be the term I was looking for thanks:)

Oh and just one more question, how does the genderfluid thing work? Is it something that you have at birth like split personality, do you genuinely have to feel sometimes girl sometimes boy to be it or can someone just one day decide to be genderfluid?

That is the correct term. Boy flux is not actually a thing, but it is a term used instead of Demiboy primarily

No. It is impossible to decide that you are gender fluid. just like all gender identities, it is something that is set by something in your brain before you’re even born. that goes the same way for sexualities. There is some connection but with what you’re saying about multiple personalities that isn’t just a different gender that’s a different consciousness essentially so not exactly.

But yeah, some people just wake up and are like yep I feel like a girl today and that’s perfectly fine and normal.

I can explain it in excruciating detail if you want me to because there’s so many other things that really help everything else makes sense but also it’s very interesting to learn about

Ik ik, just wanted to know the specifics to not get it wrong since I know a few people who have similars things

It’s a very complicated subject

So, if I got it right, since I don't "have" genderfuild from birth, if today I told all my friends that from now on I'd be genderfluid would that be wrong?

Ye ik

Oh I though Boyflux was the correct term

I re-googled it and boyflux is a term but not exactly the correct one

Oh wait só what is boyflux then

Probably what you think it means it’s just like fluctuating masculinity but in this case, it’s not that their masculinity is fluxing, it’s that it’s just they don’t like being masculine

Oh fair enough I guess

sorry, I just wanted to know, am I right about this?

i find the science behind it so interesting

i do sometimes prefer to be called a girl nowadays but whats weird is it wasnt always like that so thats why i dont consider myself genderfluid or non-binary or anything like that, just personality 🤷

So u think it's okay to become genderfluid at any point?

i am not really educated enough to decide, what i will say is if it feels right for you, then go for it, not really anyones job to gate keep it

but im just one person so

Aight aight, I think you're right, thank u so much ^^

I mean sometimes you just don’t feel like your gender but it doesn’t always mean you’re trans or gender fluid.

If you actually think that you are, then you are. I’m just saying that’s not something that you decide that you are. it’s something you figure out

But, hypothetically, if I just say "I'm this gender now", is it not good by other people or does it just not work like that?

If you’re just making it up and it’s not true, that adds to the problem of transphobic people doing shit like that. That’s mainly the point I’m making

Ohh

Yeah that makes sense

indeed