Setting Boundaries: Dealing with Unwanted Pressure
Summary
In the Femboy Order ă»Femboy Tag ă»LGBTQă»Femboysă» Gayă»Furryă»Transă»Robloxă»Warthunderă»Gay Tagă»Furries server, a member sought advice regarding a friend pressuring them for explicit content. The community provided supportive guidance, emphasizing the importance of setting firm boundaries and prioritizing personal comfort over pleasing others. This discussion highlights the server's commitment to fostering a safe, respectful environment for all members to seek help and share experiences.
I have a very good friend, we used to talk a lot but lately weâve like drifted apart. Yesterday he messaged me for the first time in a month and the only thing he asked for was n*des. Heâs not doing well right now I guess, and maybe this would cheer him up but I honestly donât want to do it, I feel disgusted with myself and I hate being s#xualised... Should I put up with it just because heâs my friend and it might make him feel better? I just donât know.
Sorry
dont, it's not your job to please your friend that way
you can be there for him by talking to him
but do NOT send n*des
You definitely should NOT go through with that itâs obvious their using whatever bad situation theyâre going through in life as an excuse to use you
Yeah, I kinda know it but he won't stop pressuring me about this
Thank you :c
push back on it tell him itâs genuinely creepy and you refuse to help him if he wonât take accountability for it and stop
Tell him to seriously stop, if he doesnt then block him
