Should I Come Out? Seeking Advice in the Femboy Community
Summary
In the Femboy Order ă»Femboy Tag ă»LGBTQă»Femboysă» Gayă»Furryă»Transă»Robloxă»Warthunderă»Gay Tagă»Furries server, a member shares their anxiety about coming out to their parents as pansexual and a femboy. This discussion highlights the importance of community support when facing family uncertainty and fear of rejection. The thread provides a safe space for members to share personal struggles and offer encouragement to those navigating their identity.
I have been in the closet since around 2022
and I am pansexual and obviously a femboy
and I have been thinking of maybe telling my parents about who I kind of am.
My friends at school already know and they're ok with it, but I don't know if my parents would be ok with it. I have bee thinking of telling them anything for around 4 months now but I just don't know if I should???....
Well Iâm not exactly sure what they think
The only thing I know is that my dad has a gay brother and my dad seems to be ok with it
Thx for that
And they arenât religious or conservative but I think about this all the time how when I asked to shave my legs and my mum got weird and said âwhat are you gay or something??!?â
It kinda shut me down on the topic entirely
Iâm scared they wonât accept me and what if we wonât be as close as we are.
I donât know if I can handle being turned away from my parents or even my family
There is no rush in telling them
I only told mine cause well i had alot of stress at school and stuff and was performing worse academically because of it
Thatâs one of the reasons I want to say something
Well if they dont support then they are stupid
What makes them stupid
If they dont support you
Its not necesarelly stupid but they should atleast try to be a little supportive
Well who did you tell first
I told my mum that i was trans... and well she started to try and make it seem like it was the worst thing in the multiverse to stop me from being trans
And my dad... well he dont know
Cause i aint telling him
He scary
I donât know what to do. I feel like a crazy person
You are NOT crazy
Dont say stuff like that about yourself
But what if itâs true
What if i need mental help
What if they send me away to get help or something
Thats like a 0% chance of happening
I guess
Im not too good at this stuff but i do hope that whatever you decide to do has good results
Now i have to go before my parents yell at me to get ready for bed đđđ
If I do say something how do i tell them or Atleast one of them
Ok
Um thats a question for someone else now đ im here for moral and emotional support if needed
Oh ok
Itâs so good
This is lowkey what i shouls have done... not like it would have made a difference since my mums transphobic
What did you say
Um
Its cringe im not saying it here
w<
Oh ok
It was embarassing enough saying it to ma
Yeah
Thats ok ig u donât gotta tell me
Sorry
No donât be itâs personal and I can respect it
Should I tell my mum by text
