Should I Tell My Girlfriend I'm a Femboy? | Advice Thread
Summary
In the Femboy Order ă»Femboy Tag ă»LGBTQă»Femboysă» Gayă»Furryă»Transă»Robloxă»Warthunderă»Gay Tagă»Furries server, a member shares a personal dilemma about coming out as a femboy to their girlfriend. This thread highlights the importance of community support for LGBTQ youth navigating identity and relationships. It serves as a safe space for members to seek advice on sensitive topics like disclosure and self-acceptance within a welcoming environment.
Does anyone think they could help me? I have a problem related to a relationship and to the fact that I am part of the lgbtq community.
Kk, do you still need help?
Yes đ
Alr do you want to talk about it privately?
Umm anything is fine, whatâs best for you?
This is fine for me, so whats the problem?
Ok so it might be a bit long Iâm sorry
I was born in 2010, I am now 15 but Iâm going to turn 16 in August! Anyways we doing really care bout that LMAO. So basically Iâve been a femboy since I was 11. I know that sounds extremely young but Iâve been on discord servers since that age and Iâve always felt like a femboy, felt like I needed that feminine touch to my life. About a year ago i found myself being pansexual and to be honest Iâve stuck to it for a long time now and I think Iâm mature enough and confident enough to be sure that being a femboy and being pansexual is what I want.
That was kindaaaa of an intro
Now for the problem
This year I met a girl thatâs in my class that I found absolutely GORGEOUS, sheâs like THE BOMB and I guenuinly have never found someone this attractive. Anyways skip the bullshit Iâve found myself dating her. Weâve been together for now about 2 months and she does not know Iâm a femboy, I think she knows I like every gender because of my reposts and just my general attitude and what Iâve told her. But Iâm extremely scared of announcing or telling her that Iâm a femboy. I love her so much and I absolutely donât want that to ruin our relationship.
Anyways so now I am pretty lost because I feel like Iâm stuck in between two worlds. She is straight but accepts lgbtq people and has a lot of friends that slide that way but im scared to tell her like ARG
Itâs so stressful and I love her so much and Iâm scared to fuck things up
IM LOST
anywaysâŠ
anywaysâŠ
Alr so your situation complicated but its ok, so a great first step it to test the waters and ask her if its possible (in a non-suspicious way) âwhat would you if I was a femboyâ, or ask if she has ever had a femboy friend and what dose she think of them. You could tell her outright if shes good w/ it or if shes very hostile to the idea she should still be open to talk about it if she loves you like you love her.
Sorry im on mobile and its kinda hard to type fast and clear at the same time.
Haha no worries for the slow typing trixy thank you so much for helping
Mhm I already asked her if sheâd love me if I was a « girl »
And she thought about it for like a minute and then said yes
So thatâs kinda scary
She really wasnât sure
Thatâs good that she would still love you, I think that the not telling her is definitely scary, but if it helps she will definitely need time to process you telling her that âyour a femboyâ so try to tell her in a way so she can ask questions and wonât have yo mull over that thought without you.
Yes I understand
Guenuinly thank you
Even though youâd think it wasnât much
It makes me think even more and thatâs good
More solutions lmao
Youâre welcome if you need help in any other situation you can txt me and if you still got questions I got you.
Thank you trixy
I knew furrys were nice but not THAT nice ;3
so op? any follow ups?
not that an answer is needed i want a happy ending
just hoping the OP had a good ending with his gf accepting him as a femboy dawg
Welllsssss
I havenât said anything yet
Iâm on vacation and I really donât want to try anything by message
