Should I Tell My Girlfriend I'm a Femboy? | Advice Thread

Kk, do you still need help?

Alr do you want to talk about it privately?

Umm anything is fine, what’s best for you?

This is fine for me, so whats the problem?

Ok so it might be a bit long I’m sorry

I was born in 2010, I am now 15 but I’m going to turn 16 in August! Anyways we doing really care bout that LMAO. So basically I’ve been a femboy since I was 11. I know that sounds extremely young but I’ve been on discord servers since that age and I’ve always felt like a femboy, felt like I needed that feminine touch to my life. About a year ago i found myself being pansexual and to be honest I’ve stuck to it for a long time now and I think I’m mature enough and confident enough to be sure that being a femboy and being pansexual is what I want.

That was kindaaaa of an intro

Now for the problem

This year I met a girl that’s in my class that I found absolutely GORGEOUS, she’s like THE BOMB and I guenuinly have never found someone this attractive. Anyways skip the bullshit I’ve found myself dating her. We’ve been together for now about 2 months and she does not know I’m a femboy, I think she knows I like every gender because of my reposts and just my general attitude and what I’ve told her. But I’m extremely scared of announcing or telling her that I’m a femboy. I love her so much and I absolutely don’t want that to ruin our relationship.

Anyways so now I am pretty lost because I feel like I’m stuck in between two worlds. She is straight but accepts lgbtq people and has a lot of friends that slide that way but im scared to tell her like ARG

It’s so stressful and I love her so much and I’m scared to fuck things up

IM LOST

anyways…

anyways…

Alr so your situation complicated but its ok, so a great first step it to test the waters and ask her if its possible (in a non-suspicious way) “what would you if I was a femboy”, or ask if she has ever had a femboy friend and what dose she think of them. You could tell her outright if shes good w/ it or if shes very hostile to the idea she should still be open to talk about it if she loves you like you love her.

Sorry im on mobile and its kinda hard to type fast and clear at the same time.

Haha no worries for the slow typing trixy thank you so much for helping

Mhm I already asked her if she’d love me if I was a « girl »

And she thought about it for like a minute and then said yes

So that’s kinda scary

She really wasn’t sure

That’s good that she would still love you, I think that the not telling her is definitely scary, but if it helps she will definitely need time to process you telling her that “your a femboy” so try to tell her in a way so she can ask questions and won’t have yo mull over that thought without you.

Yes I understand

Guenuinly thank you

Even though you’d think it wasn’t much

It makes me think even more and that’s good

More solutions lmao

You’re welcome if you need help in any other situation you can txt me and if you still got questions I got you.

Thank you trixy

I knew furrys were nice but not THAT nice ;3

not that an answer is needed i want a happy ending

just hoping the OP had a good ending with his gf accepting him as a femboy dawg