Should I Tell My Mom I'm a Femboy? Community Advice

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In the Femboy Order ・Femboy Tag ・LGBTQ・Femboys・ Gay・Furry・Trans・Roblox・Warthunder・Gay Tag・Furries server, a member seeks advice on coming out as a femboy to their family. The community provides supportive guidance on how to drop hints and navigate difficult conversations. This discussion highlights the importance of peer support and safe spaces for those exploring their identity within our inclusive community.

merryharbor-29 OP

So I became a femboy 3 days ago and since then I have been having thoughts of telling her but idk if I should because we are southern family what should I do?????

merryharbor-29 OP

what do you think

merryharbor-29 OP

I should do

merryharbor-29 OP

In my head I see it playing out good but idk

sagegrove-13

id think try to kinda work into it slowly showing signs, i tried this with my mother and she is more excepting of it

sagegrove-13

she knows ur bi alr right?

@sagegrove-13 id think try to kinda work into it slowly showing signs, i tried this with my mother and she is mor

merryharbor-29 OP

But how like what kind of signs?

merryharbor-29 OP

And do you have older siblings

@sagegrove-13 she knows ur bi alr right?
merryharbor-29 OP

No she dose not know anything

sagegrove-13

No, i only have a younger brother and younger stepbrother

merryharbor-29 OP

O

merryharbor-29 OP

I have a older brother

merryharbor-29 OP

Idk what to do

sagegrove-13

id say starting out with the fact that ur into both genders and tell her that, i feel shed be more open to that thought than the femboy thing, and slowly overtime start showing ur feminine side

merryharbor-29 OP

Ok

merryharbor-29 OP

Thanks for your help I am going to take into consideration

sagegrove-13

ofc! Keep me updated so then ik how else i cud help

@merryharbor-29 So I became a femboy 3 days ago and since then I have been having thoughts of telling her but idk i

pearlyonder-33

Well give it a week or two to see if you’re really a femboy and it’s not just a phase

pearlyonder-33

Cuz a few of my friends where femboys for like a week and now they’re regular chuds again

@pearlyonder-33 Well give it a week or two to see if you’re really a femboy and it’s not just a phase
merryharbor-29 OP

Ok will do thanks

merryharbor-29 OP

Um so I might not have to tell her so she has access to my ChatGPT account because she is using my laptop for fire fighting school and she is using ChatGPT to help (do t ask why I told her not to) but I open ChatGPT rn and she is using it the the reason that is a problem is because I gave ChatGPT a promt on to make me a pfp that looks like a femboy but not to femboy like and it shows all the promos on the side of the SCREEN IN VIEW so idk if she saw it or not

merryharbor-29 OP
merryharbor-29 OP

I k ow I said I was going to sleep but I had to say this

merryharbor-29 OP

Should I just put hints with that

sagegrove-13

in all honesty, its worse the longer you hide it. The thought of it being in your mind will begin to eat away at you until you finally break, making it more of an emotional conversation that it could be. Sure, hints are a good way to kinda numb the pain and have it come out gradually, but ultimately its better to just rip the bandaid off then peel it away slowly.

@sagegrove-13 in all honesty, its worse the longer you hide it. The thought of it being in your mind will begin t

merryharbor-29 OP

Ok I will tell her

sagegrove-13

I wish all goes well.

@sagegrove-13 I wish all goes well.
merryharbor-29 OP

Thank you I will keep you updated by my pfp

merryharbor-29 OP

If I have not done it yet

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merryharbor-29 OP

If I am doing it right now

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sagegrove-13

alr

merryharbor-29 OP

If she actually accepts me

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merryharbor-29 OP

And if she don’t

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merryharbor-29 OP

That’s it

@merryharbor-29 If she actually accepts me ![image](https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1532594275504881796/1532

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swiftarcher-67

Omgggg

@swiftarcher-67 Omgggg
merryharbor-29 OP

Yep

@merryharbor-29 If she actually accepts me ![image](https://cdn.discordapp.com/attachments/1532594275504881796/1532

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