Accepting Your Past: A Deep Discussion at FriendZone

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sharpdolphin-67 OP

I know that either some people have a rough upbringing depending on how life goes
But for me its like
Mentally speaking its constant overthinking from basically everything in terms of life and where I’m at
For y’all
Obviously idk what y’all situation yall are in
But
Hopefully in the end
Everybody is happy with how life is going
But for me
Im just stuck on a constant cycle of endless emptiness

amberyellow-59

Can't change the past and future hasn't happened yet so focus on the present

amberyellow-59

Any time you start overthinking past actions just find a way to distract yourself

swiftorchid-87

no

@amberyellow-59 Can't change the past and future hasn't happened yet so focus on the present
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Sadly that is reality

@amberyellow-59 Any time you start overthinking past actions just find a way to distract yourself
sharpdolphin-67 OP

cant stop wont stop

@swiftorchid-87 no
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Dang we both in it then

@sharpdolphin-67 Dang we both in it then
swiftorchid-87

mistakes made in past are not so easy to accept..i still think everynight if i would have done just that one small thing differently then my life would have been completely different rn

gentleunicorn-93

Accepting our past?
Of course,why not.
Or are we supposed to know a way by which we can change our past?
If not then why not accept it. You can't change it anyway.

@gentleunicorn-93 Accepting our past? Of course,why not. Or are we supposed to know a way by which we can change our…
nobleriver-83

It's easy to say that, but you can't really control your feelings even if u want to accept it

@nobleriver-83 It's easy to say that, but you can't really control your feelings even if u want to accept it
gentleunicorn-93

Fair

@gentleunicorn-93 Accepting our past? Of course,why not. Or are we supposed to know a way by which we can change our…
swiftorchid-87

when u think of possibilties every night on how things could have been...its not easy to accept those things

gentleunicorn-93

But we can't cry over spoilt milk too, it ain't gonna get back to its original form so why keep crying over it.
Focus on utilising that spoilt milk in the future,cause that may help

@gentleunicorn-93 But we can't cry over spoilt milk too, it ain't gonna get back to its original form so why keep cry…
swiftorchid-87

exactly..i hope i can do it

@swiftorchid-87 exactly..i hope i can do it
gentleunicorn-93

Good luck 👍

@swiftorchid-87 mistakes made in past are not so easy to accept..i still think everynight if i would have done just…
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Literally bruh
One thing on any day
Can change your way of thinking or anything in an instant

sunnyjester-27

Thank God, my past is not that horrible for me to think about it

@sharpdolphin-67 I know that either some people have a rough upbringing depending on how life goes But for me its li…
jadetiger-51

Accept in what way.

@jadetiger-51 Accept in what way.
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Like if u have a bad past for instance

@sunnyjester-27 Thank God, my past is not that horrible for me to think about it
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Thats good to hear

@sharpdolphin-67 Like if u have a bad past for instance
jadetiger-51

and...?

@jadetiger-51 and...?
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Thats all nothing more

sharpdolphin-67 OP

or if anything have a good past

jadetiger-51

Yeah, I'm asking what you mean by 'accept'

@sharpdolphin-67 Thats all nothing more
jadetiger-51

💀

jadetiger-51

Accept in WHAT way??

jadetiger-51

Move on??

jadetiger-51

Forget??

jadetiger-51

💀

jadetiger-51

Wallahi.

@jadetiger-51 💀
sharpdolphin-67 OP

I cant move on obvs but im not saying much from here

@sharpdolphin-67 I know that either some people have a rough upbringing depending on how life goes But for me its li…
grandquiver-69

No but I like to sometimes separate it from my present self

grandquiver-69

As if the past was a diff person, besides ppl change a lot sometimes

@grandquiver-69 No but I like to sometimes separate it from my present self
sharpdolphin-67 OP

So you pretend the pain is there basically?

@sharpdolphin-67 So you pretend the pain is there basically?
grandquiver-69

No? Idk what u mean

@grandquiver-69 No? Idk what u mean
sharpdolphin-67 OP

Oh nvm

grandquiver-69

Alr

snowyorange-96

No

snowyorange-96

I dont accept it

snowyorange-96

Cause it is lies in it

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