Asian Men Dating & Relationships: Community Discussion
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Are we considerably the worse men demographically out of all races
Like are we just F Tier or something
What are we doing wrong at this point
It hurts because I'm filipino and I feel we still dont get appreciated as much along with all other Asian men out there (all race obvs)
Like we deserve better bro
Ok, who’s judging us? And f tier??why would anyone think of themselves that way 😭
Idk like im looking on based on the stats like asian men in particular is just considerably the worse among all other race of men bruh
its rare nowadays in 2026 to see an asian man dating an asian woman or any other race regards
its likeeee are we not unique
are we not the greatest are we not the goats
something like that
Well, it is rare to find Asian men dating in this era and it is not because of not being unique or being different than others, these days majority of people are used to cheating in relationships and being part of temporary relationships. On the other hand in Asia we are thought respect and care for others from a really young age, that’s why we usually don’t last in toxic relationships,we look for true love which definitely takes time and patience.
We can’t think of ourselves as the greatest of the best
Every race is perfect in its on way
2 billion Asian men struggling fr
It's the online ones who are ruining the market for you guys
Asia is a continent, not a race
Also some are mama's boys
Lol are you sure?
That and also cultural differences, less likely to date for example and might do more arranged marriages (not a bad thing but yh)
It's men's fault, they don't want to be men anymore also you guys prefer your fellow men
2 billion is a wild number
Be men like how
idk about that one.....
I checked online lol, it's acc over 2 billion over 18
holy smokes wowza
Men not being men anymore?
Wdym?
both genders be at fault it cant always be one or the other
i hate that type of biases
It's not even mainly abt gender since that's not smth ppl choose, it's society's ideas of each of their roles
Gender biases r shaped by social ideas
ik but like it always cant be that way most of the time
Facts
its like ive been seeing so many podcasts abt gender inequality and its like bruh why are we even fighting over this and that
to the point where we cant even respect one another
ik its off topic but social media really shaped up society as a whole
It shouldn't be put ppl don't like to change how they think, besides these ideas have been around for a long time
Yh true, it fuels hatred more as well
its rather the influence from people and just getting the knowledge from em its like i question humanity a lot bc of it
Yh it's pretty messed up imo
i try my best not to be bias about one thing or another but like its very difficult type of thing in a way
Everyone struggles with biases, at least u try not to think in only that certain way
Difficult?
In what way?
it depends on certain topics honestly
yeah thankfully PHEW
The only Asians who are appreciated
Are Korean, japanese and chinese
Some others are even considered asian 💔
That is 💯
True
I'd say
That the one of the big reasons is cultural difference
They have a whole different thing
We have a whole different thing
If an asian is like let's say born in America
And he understands that culture
He might nit be preferred
People prefer their own race a lot
Gives like
More familiar vibes ( not always and for everyone )
So a lot of factors
Yeah 💔
It could also be racist (few of em )
Preference ( a lot of them )
gotta include filipinos
hmm i didnt see this part
If anyone talks abt asian , these are the first people who come to mind
so we aint even included?
Atleasr to non Asians
thats insane
Like the immediate thought isn't u and ne
Me*
Those are tho
Russia ain't even considered asian 💔
Neither are us
Sorta but they have had a history of their culture being made fun of, especially chinese
And tdy they are appreciated a lot too
idk what to tell you man its part of the continent
Ik
Well tbh it does look a bit weird, like that one trend where ppl were 'at a very Chinese time in their life's cos they were drinking hot water💀
💔
I have seen multiple shorts
Where
There are
The "good" asian countries
Which are korea , japan , china
Then there are the "bad" "ugly" countries
Which are the rest
💔
Place, Japan 😍, place, other country (for example Russia or India)😒
That trend too
Bad?ugly?
Yep
How do you judge a country
On the basis of these words😭😭
Actual words used in shorts, but
As satire
U'd be surprised, it happens a lot online
Nah sometimes they're serious lol
Shorts really change the game tho cant lie
Well they are indeed
U must be so innocent
I aas like that once too
Until I heard crap for being born 
For being my colour
Dude
I have seen
Dedicated hate channels
Who did you hear it from?😭
Some of them operated by
14 yo girls
Actually...
Sitting in a completely unrelated country
Tiktok changed the game
People, the ones u see around u .
Reminds me of the race change community to 'east asian' looks😐
Internet changed it
Wait what?
yes besides that
Oh u haven't heard of it, it was smth I heard from a few years ago
RCTA, race change to another aka transracial identity
💀
Wth
Literally💀
How is that even possible
Idk but it's so weird
I'm not even considered asian
By some
They say
The Himalayas are there for a reason
I'm guessing India, that's a SUBcontinent which is still part of Asia,
Even tho its SUBCONTINENT
It's still ASIA
Idek
Exactly
Ik someone whose long ancestors
Basically
They came to India
And their anceostes
Were like
Mongolian and Chinese
She don't even want to be considered indian
She's got Mongolian and Chinese flag in bio
Even tho they haven't been there for centuries now
There is a place in India known as assam
And people over there they look Chinese but have been Indian citizens for ages
But the government is racist against them
The govt isn't racist against them .
people are
Some of them
Cuz they don't exactly look "indian"
They got more asian features
But that doesn't mean
Everyone hates them
But,
They have been there for ages they identify as Indians
People hating them is pointless ngl
I agree with u 💯
A lot of hatred is pointless but ppl still hate
But haters are brainless people
Who won't understand tht
I
True
And others
Stand strong with our northeast
Their culture
Traditions
Everything
U would find people in America that hates Americans
Another place which borders Myanmar is going thru civil war rn cuz of tribal disputes . The govt and media isn't covering the case exactly
So ur kinda right
Not necessarily true, yes true the fact tht Asia contributes 60 percent of total population but we’re actually top education wise, I bet if u ask a random American to name 5 countries or perhaps ask basic maths questions they’d struggle, economically china , India and Brazil are top 3 contributors in Asia and china is 2nd on world gdp, Japan and South Korea literally live in the future with bullet trains and Samsung powering half the things they own, but again what actually matters most is being knowledgeable where Asia is 1st, it’s just that a lot of ideas were either stolen and patented (not disregarding the fact that some were genuinely smart), besides I think we all know the only reason Britain still exists is becz they r still running on the money they looted not very long ago but Britain is running out of money, soon its economy shall collapse and we can already see glimpses of it… besides tht America shall also see its downfall (not immediately) but ye soon, china bouta take over and this is imminent
interesting interesting
He meant in terms of dating
But ur not very wrong
He said demographically
"Asian men dating crisis"
Idk
if you look at the bigger picture I think people are made or payed by corrupt governments to hate specifics
Gng read his first msg
He clearly said demographically
Ig ur right
Well he meant in dating .
How does
"Demographically"
Have to do with it
He said like
Demographic constitutes population, gender, education , income etc
The main motive was abt dating
Alr okay okay
Fine
First he said demographically
Then specified to dating
We covering all cases
It's fine lol
Which one is it 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
Ehh dating sucks
💔
lol
Dating ig sucks
In todays time yeah its very complicated
Becuz of people
People make it bad
💔
We got Asian parents Gng they very strict, they even see u greeting a girl they gon call da police
After a while
Mine will be like
"Get married"
No talks b4 abt it btw
I feel like this exact mentality is what instilled in us a sense of not opening up to a girl we might have crush on or perhaps restricting us from dating
Like communication?
my parents wasnt really like that thankfully
Yea lol but thts only after a certain age
Yeah
I think it also goes to stereotypes?
As to why
We suck in dating
Plus overall experience ruin things up too
No I mean I don’t literally but my mum gets clingy and starts teasing me the moment I talk abt a random girl
Regardless of where she in my class or not
Mhmm
shoot i guess lots of people have different asian parents then
Teasing ?
Bro forget that
I once talked abt a girl in my class
My mum brought that in an argument
She said to my dad
That I'm getting out of hand
And I'm texting a girl
And so And ao
Damn
If I mistakenly talk about a girl my parents are gonna have a frkin round table conference
Ima get cooked💀💀
Exactly
Yea lol
To this day we still do
F in the chat for Papa Duck
Why
We just are
Plus Oxford Study ifykyk
I see
Well idk much
But whats nice is if people are like caring for others
And good heart
Then i guess
YEAHHHHH SOMETHING LIKE THAT
People is ok with it
Yes then idk why ur hated
Or disliked
It might be skill issue
or that we're just not good enough
am i able to use stickers on hot takes
Yes
Maybe
