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wildmartin-15 OP

The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we have never been more connected to each other in history ever before.
We know we are loved by people and that we love some people but those who love us don't know what we really are!!
We often times live with defensive walls made by us to defend ourselves from the horrors of society.

Certainly people feel lonely now because they fake themselves all the time to get along with other fake people, and with social media(the fake platform) we are so far away from reality.
At the end of the day it is only you who knows what you really are, a pathetic person or a person who is worthy and deserving of true human connection.....
What comes to your mind people, do share!!!!

wildmartin-15 OP

I would like to know your opinion my man!!

wildmartin-15 OP

Ofc it's you ligma lol, I should have known you'll say that!!!

wildmartin-15 OP

Oh okay, Nice to know!!

wildmartin-15 OP

:tomsip:

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
pearlguitar-88

I heard about it and makes so much sense

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
snowyorange-96

Yeah and nah they fake being around people to gain something

@pearlguitar-88 I heard about it and makes so much sense
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah man!! Tough times for people right now!!
Have you noticed more people are afraid to talk to others offline??
People can only talk through a screen now lol!!

@snowyorange-96 Yeah and nah they fake being around people to gain something
wildmartin-15 OP

Yup, but that's just 1 side of the story!!
The other side is what others would think about them if they were to be exposed!!
No one would like to be excluded from the social group

snowyorange-96

Yes

@wildmartin-15 Yeah man!! Tough times for people right now!! Have you noticed more people are afraid to talk to ot…
pearlguitar-88

Nah there is one thing i disagree with which is tough times these times ain't tuff you literally get order food through you phone in old times they had to hunt there food plus it was about survival you don't eat you die

@pearlguitar-88 Nah there is one thing i disagree with which is tough times these times ain't tuff you literally ge…
wildmartin-15 OP

Not talking about tough in that sense, sure it has become easy if we compare olden times in that regard.
Talking about how humanity has come to the point were they find it so very difficult to form connection and friendship

@wildmartin-15 Not talking about tough in that sense, sure it has become easy if we compare olden times in that re…
pearlguitar-88

I mean yeah if everything is online why would I try to talk online or irl

@pearlguitar-88 I mean yeah if everything is online why would I try to talk online or irl
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah makes sense lol, but sure enough offline relationships and friendships could effect and influence you more than online ones haha

wildmartin-15 OP

Not true for every case tho.

@wildmartin-15 Yeah makes sense lol, but sure enough offline relationships and friendships could effect and influe…
pearlguitar-88

Yeah but honestly very rare to find

@pearlguitar-88 Yeah but honestly very rare to find
wildmartin-15 OP

From what I know my friend you have struggled with the same problem in younger days(offline friendships and all), Care to tell me your thoughts and what is your opinion now??
Is it valuable and how influential is it??

@wildmartin-15 From what I know my friend you have struggled with the same problem in younger days(offline friends…
pearlguitar-88

Am not saying it couldn't work i have many online friends but what i mean is it's hard to make a connection with them as friends bc you don't see them and probably you don't even know how they look i feel like it makes it harder for the connection as friends to continue i mean am not saying you have to but that's my opinion

@pearlguitar-88 Am not saying it couldn't work i have many online friends but what i mean is it's hard to make a co…
wildmartin-15 OP

Yup well said, definitely connection in online is hard!!!
As difficult as it is there are other factors that can make it a nightmare to form connection too lol, for example the different time zones, misunderstanding through words and the most important is life making you busy!!
When you get busy with life you stop giving time to online chatting and connection I guess....

@wildmartin-15 Yup well said, definitely connection in online is hard!!! As difficult as it is there are other fac…
pearlguitar-88

Yeah..

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
quickbadger-36

Phones

quickbadger-36

The very cause of it

quickbadger-36

Food, good sleep Nd some cash

quickbadger-36

The solution :cuteblob:

quickbadger-36

Oh. Also gaming with buddies at home

quickbadger-36

Or watching a bunch of anime

quickbadger-36

Loneliness is has to do with people being there but you still feel alone

quickbadger-36

So people might be the problem Nd solution maybe

quickbadger-36

But me who's tired of talking

quickbadger-36

Find other things to occupy my time

quickbadger-36

Time flies

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
grandquiver-69

No the loneliness epidemic is fake, or is it most ppl have no friends these days

grandquiver-69

They should go out and talk to ppl then

@grandquiver-69 They should go out and talk to ppl then
quickbadger-36

Compulsory?

quickbadger-36

If I had to choose btw watching a movie Nd going out :r_kermitcorner:

@quickbadger-36 Compulsory?
grandquiver-69

Not if they like being alone, that's diff from being lonely

@grandquiver-69 Not if they like being alone, that's diff from being lonely
quickbadger-36

Alright

quickbadger-36

Do I like to be alone. Not really, probably just have stuffs to do ig

grandquiver-69

I like being alone but socialising is also good, if ppl want friends then they need to push themselves a bit, I did this after ages and was able to make a friend group, even if I'm considered an 'introvert' by them

quickbadger-36

But it's tiring

quickbadger-36

Having to talk to people

grandquiver-69

True, socialising isn't always all that great

quickbadger-36

Yeah.

quickbadger-36

Although, fams is a different cases

quickbadger-36

When I'm home for holiday

@quickbadger-36 Phones
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah true, phones are a major if not the major issue!!!
And you put it nicely my man- people might be tge problem and also the solution.
Yeah it can be exhausting to socialize so you can fill in with other interesting things!!
There is a difference between being lonely and being alone!!!

@grandquiver-69 No the loneliness epidemic is fake, or is it most ppl have no friends these days
wildmartin-15 OP

It certainly is the case that most people don't have friends these days- they struggle to make friends!!!
It is a situation created by many factors but the result is visible in many things- people can become very emotionally unavailable now(lack of interaction with others does this to them)....

@wildmartin-15 Yeah true, phones are a major if not the major issue!!! And you put it nicely my man- people might…
quickbadger-36

Yope

quickbadger-36

Always have something doing

quickbadger-36

:cuteblob:

quickbadger-36

My goal is to make 20 chess variants before the end of this year

quickbadger-36

Already did two

quickbadger-36

18 left

@quickbadger-36 My goal is to make 20 chess variants before the end of this year
wildmartin-15 OP

Oh my a nice goal!!
Keep working on it, you hot this!!!!

@quickbadger-36 My goal is to make 20 chess variants before the end of this year
wildmartin-15 OP

Oh my, a nice goal!!
Keep working at it you got this!!!!

@wildmartin-15 Oh my, a nice goal!! Keep working at it you got this!!!!
quickbadger-36

😅

quickbadger-36

Wassup anyways

@quickbadger-36 Wassup anyways
wildmartin-15 OP

Yup everything good!!
Just surfing the wave of life haha!!!

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
sharpdolphin-67

Economy just sucks ass rn
It aint baby booming era like it was 70+ years ago

freshbeacon-38

idk what i am i hv got no frnd maybe i m js that pathetic

freshbeacon-38

i try to find sum but it's hard ngl

@wildmartin-15 Yup everything good!! Just surfing the wave of life haha!!!
quickbadger-36

I see

@sharpdolphin-67 Economy just sucks ass rn It aint baby booming era like it was 70+ years ago
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah, you speak correctly!!
Everything is too expensive now lol.

@freshbeacon-38 i try to find sum but it's hard ngl
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah I know it's hard but keep trying though, it's worth it....

@wildmartin-15 Yeah, you speak correctly!! Everything is too expensive now lol.
sharpdolphin-67

Many late Millennials are living with their parents or even early millennials as of now
Everything rn is just so expensive
We’re kinda like near the great depression of this era

snowyorange-96

Shut up with the brainrot

snowyorange-96

Its 2026

snowyorange-96

Not 2024

snowyorange-96

Or 2025

wildmartin-15 OP

Yeh, where have we come lol, older generation had like almost everything by 30s- they had houses, families etc.
For us it's doomed lol, so hard now a days for meeting those needs even in 30s which by the way our parents achieved in their 20s.

@amberyellow-59
wildmartin-15 OP

:tomsip:

@wildmartin-15 The world Is currently facing a loneliness epidemic which should not have been the case because we…
wildknight-88

Ok

@wildknight-88 Ok
wildmartin-15 OP

Ohhh miss Luna!!
How have you been?? Everything fine??

@wildmartin-15 Ohhh miss Luna!! How have you been?? Everything fine??
wildknight-88

Over the moon

@wildknight-88 Over the moon
wildmartin-15 OP

Haha nice!!
Enjoy the adventures, gifts and mysteries of life miss!!
A prosperous day to you!!!!

wildknight-88

Thanks dear sir

briskmartin-84

I didn't read all the previous messages but yeah, i do think a lot of people are lonely, and i think social media doesn't help

@briskmartin-84 I didn't read all the previous messages but yeah, i do think a lot of people are lonely, and i thin…
wildmartin-15 OP

Yeah social media doesn't help 🙄

briskmartin-84

Agreed bro

snowyorange-96

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