Community Guidelines: Respectful Language at FriendZone
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FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosts an open discussion regarding the use of sensitive language within the community. This announcement addresses the importance of inclusivity and the impact of racial slurs, emphasizing the server's commitment to maintaining a respectful and welcoming environment for all members. The discussion highlights why certain terms are restricted to ensure everyone feels safe and valued in our social sp...
If you aren't black, or mixed you shouldn't say the n word. 
And I don't wanna hear the "no one should say it" bullshit shut that shit up IMMEDIATELY
What does it mean when the blacks say it?
Does it mean "bro"?
Yes
Then why not say bro
It kinda is and kinda not, depending on how you say it
If the intial meaning Nd origin of the word is not from a gud place
The word should drop
It shouldn't be used by anyone
Non black people are getting way too comfortable with sayin it
Same with the blacks
We are comfortable with it too
It's either we let everyone use it or no one
That word was literally targeted at blacks so changed the meaning for themselves
Sometimes other groups do similar things with usually derogatory words
That are targeted towards them
exterminat this nigga
So we agree the meaning is changed?
Then why not let everyone say it then
Well sorta but if non-blacks use it then it just resorts back to the original meaning
its racist if ur not black saying it
The people are racist anyways to the Whites so na we should not but that dosent mean they get to have privileges to be racist to us
Hey? I just don't get how a word doesn't want to come to one meaning
But it's not normal to keep a word that you have a back history with
nigga what
No one should be racist it goes both ways
Well it's not like they can get rid of it fully either, so might as well change it up within the community
Still if people dont want Whites to be racist then why they keep being racist to us and bad I dont get it
Nobody can be kind if nobody stopping
we dont call them
the c word
Hmm. So you like when a black calls you that Nd yet a white does it it's an issue. Isn't that a bit racist?
I can't speak for black people as a whole
no its racist if the white persoan does it
Exactly one guy was racist bc i was white
gng its like ur forgetting racism with WHITE PPL ENSLAVING BLACK PPL DDNT HAPPEN
Well I wasn't rly putting my thoughts on if a black called a non-blacks person the word, I meant more between themselves
What have I started
u jst might be the white man trying to defend urself because u said it..
This happens in hot takes lol
Hmm
WHICH WASNT OK
I'm black
I don't think it's okay for me to call my fellow black person the word too when I can just call them what it means
I'm just saying racial slurs shouldn't be said if you aren't that race, if you use it between your race I could give less of a fuck
uh huh surely
So let me get this straight
When a black says it, and when it white does, they don't mean the same thing
What if I call you that as a black while trying to use it for the same meaning as a white dude
It's more to do with the way and reason y ppl say it
no it dont
ohh heyyy brownieee
IM SORRYY
That could probs work if your close to them
You think, a black can't use it as a hate word on another black
sigh
i rlly am sorreh
Y'all not finna do this bs in MY hot take
I mean then that's just partly hating themselves or smth isn't it
I will be the first then
Till you all drop it
^
Nah, I think we should either let go of the word. We don't have a good history with it
This happens often even if OP isn't joining in many hot takes
He's black
I mean that would be the best thing to do but ppl won't rly stop saying it, so the next best thing to do is regulate it ig
I'm black.
Well, you can either laugh it off. Or use the opposite equivalent if dude wouldn't stop
I'm sayin racial slurs shouldn't be said, but it is way more common to hear a white person to say the n word than a black person to say the c word and all I'm saying is either one doesn't make you cool. I legit just watched half this server whit mostly whites in it say the n word and haven't seen a single black say the c word
So they know what they are doing right?
Yh true, on an individual basis that would work
im
hungry
i want
5 bars of milk chocolate 5 bars of white chocolate a bowl load of french freis with cheese dip and 7 chicken tenders iwth buffalo sauce ranch sweet honey mustard chopped tomatoes that green leafy stuff small chopped onions all mixed around with iced water and a monster
Yh it's said so often here💀
Ask them why they say it. If they say it means bro, then ask why can't they just call you bro
I'm 21
U can just call them out sometimes, I call them racist if it's directed at me lol (I'm not black or white)

Nah. They know what they do. Most
Me the whole time
Green?
Help what
Brown
sjgh
There are brown people?
im still hungry
u crazy if u think IM sharing
Yh it's so shocking 💔
WOAH HOW DID U REACH MY LVL IVE BEEN IN THIS SERVER FOR 2 MONTHS AND U DID IT IN 3 DAYS
WOAH WOAH OK
Man I have JEOMBree so I'm not in class all week
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Well. Technically most of us are not exactly white or black. It's brown, chocolate,there are a few I can actually agree with the colour black, even whites don't look white
People are colour blinded
Nope. Blacks

Well the terms were made why European colonialists (I don't wanna tread there too deeply here)
I see
What were we doing then
I'm closing my hot take off withhhh:
Man shut that shit up, if you say any racial slurs and you aren't that race you're racist 😒
What
Damn
Thats crazy
I still find colonization weird
Ofc it's weird lol
What's colonization..
I feel dumb
How do you complain a whole bunch of people
Oh yea that's hella weird
Sounds like magic
Maybe
Maybe not
6..
whats colonized
Imagine us doing the colonization
Now that's a new perspective
They did
school..?
probably
i jst sleep in school all day and raegen does my work
so
idc
And Asia don't forget
asians are also indians i never knew that
wait no
indians are asians
i ddnt understand it but heyy
It's a subtle process
I think weapons also played a part
seriously
weapons
do they breath?
And also who had bigger boats
They end breathing
I said. It's either we all drop it
Or we all use it
You don't want to drop it ?
Why
Hmm so it's an exclusive word for only a specific people?
Since we were called this word which had a meaning not so good . We get to keep it and use it amongst ourselves?
Then, if I as a black calls you that. Why don't you feel like what you used to feel?
I'm not ignoring history
Oh right. You definitely think a black can't hate on a black
How would you know if I call you that for the very same meaning the word had
Right
So why get angry unless you think the whites are still in power
certainly
u need to be struck by ZEUS nigga
My point is that I can called you the word for the same meaning as it had and you wouldn't even know that
I'm black btw
Alright.i get you. But we shouldn't call ourselves the very thing we don't like
Hi you all new here
What's with you guys and black people?
Meh, if I call you the word as a replacement for bro, I think it's just better to call you bro straight up
And what's the n word about?
Anytime I call you the word as a black. Just know I am doing what the whites do
Hate on you 
ahhh
ahhh
ahhh
Even as a black
ahhaa aahhh aaaaahhh aahhh ah
aahhhh
aaaahhhh
Yeah. They just don't want to let go
It's 21th century
Uhm what the fuck is happening
Yeah. The act of gatekeeping it is a bit racist
It's like saying, some English words should only be used by the English people
Because they had history with it
akira akira..
AAAHHH
Everybody talking about the n word.. people have just been weird this days😭

They lack livers
I have livers

Borrow me
Girl what.. You must be dumb
Someone tell this unknown the history of the n word
I'm definitely going to have an issue with my fellow black calling me that too 
You may have a different meaning in your hate, but if we are all going with history
I think you mean the same thing
If you mean bro,call me bro instead
Ofc. People don't want to let go
Well I'm not FROM Russia am I?
Yeah. Like the word " the third to last word in your statement"
Alright I'm not gonna debate with you people anymore

Is that concerning?
Did I stutter over text or smth??
Then why are you debating..
I wasn't even born when the word came out, can't carry history on my head

Ok
Wait, why are we call blacks?
I'm brown skinned

For really, I really do try to find these black people they speak of
Then it doesn't count
It's okay when they say it first apparently
Flawed logic
Ayo y'all stop talking in my hot take
I need to organize my stickers
No thank you
Wait I can say the word here?



stop why are y'all watching me..
This is very off topic
Yes nigga
I didn't get time out
Feels great
Thanks broskie
AAYY
u still said it its bad
C word
C word
yup
Help
Facts
the racism is crazy with this one
I’m 27 I live in United States 🇺🇸 Georgia
I’m a female
Dm are always open for mature man
Wdym
Hm
"Adults". Btw
Idk I just have aura
rllay hungry
Nobody should say it 🤦
WHAT is this take?