Community Guidelines: Respectful Language at FriendZone

Summary

FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime hosts an open discussion regarding the use of sensitive language within the community. This announcement addresses the importance of inclusivity and the impact of racial slurs, emphasizing the server's commitment to maintaining a respectful and welcoming environment for all members. The discussion highlights why certain terms are restricted to ensure everyone feels safe and valued in our social sp...

niftyorchid-81 OP

If you aren't black, or mixed you shouldn't say the n word. :catfuckyou:

niftyorchid-81 OP

And I don't wanna hear the "no one should say it" bullshit shut that shit up IMMEDIATELY

quickbadger-36

What does it mean when the blacks say it?

quickbadger-36

Does it mean "bro"?

niftyorchid-81 OP

Yes

quickbadger-36

Then why not say bro

niftyorchid-81 OP

It kinda is and kinda not, depending on how you say it

quickbadger-36

If the intial meaning Nd origin of the word is not from a gud place

quickbadger-36

The word should drop

quickbadger-36

It shouldn't be used by anyone

niftyorchid-81 OP

Non black people are getting way too comfortable with sayin it

quickbadger-36

Same with the blacks

quickbadger-36

We are comfortable with it too

quickbadger-36

It's either we let everyone use it or no one

grandquiver-69

That word was literally targeted at blacks so changed the meaning for themselves

grandquiver-69

Sometimes other groups do similar things with usually derogatory words

grandquiver-69

That are targeted towards them

steadyanchor-59

exterminat this nigga

quickbadger-36

So we agree the meaning is changed?

quickbadger-36

Then why not let everyone say it then

grandquiver-69

Well sorta but if non-blacks use it then it just resorts back to the original meaning

steadyanchor-59

its racist if ur not black saying it

snowyorange-96

The people are racist anyways to the Whites so na we should not but that dosent mean they get to have privileges to be racist to us

quickbadger-36

Hey? I just don't get how a word doesn't want to come to one meaning

quickbadger-36

But it's not normal to keep a word that you have a back history with

steadyanchor-59

nigga what

niftyorchid-81 OP

No one should be racist it goes both ways

grandquiver-69

Well it's not like they can get rid of it fully either, so might as well change it up within the community

snowyorange-96

Still if people dont want Whites to be racist then why they keep being racist to us and bad I dont get it

snowyorange-96

Nobody can be kind if nobody stopping

steadyanchor-59

we dont call them

steadyanchor-59

the c word

quickbadger-36

Hmm. So you like when a black calls you that Nd yet a white does it it's an issue. Isn't that a bit racist?

niftyorchid-81 OP

I can't speak for black people as a whole

steadyanchor-59

no its racist if the white persoan does it

snowyorange-96

Exactly one guy was racist bc i was white

steadyanchor-59

gng its like ur forgetting racism with WHITE PPL ENSLAVING BLACK PPL DDNT HAPPEN

grandquiver-69

Well I wasn't rly putting my thoughts on if a black called a non-blacks person the word, I meant more between themselves

niftyorchid-81 OP

What have I started

steadyanchor-59

u jst might be the white man trying to defend urself because u said it..

grandquiver-69

This happens in hot takes lol

quickbadger-36

Hmm

steadyanchor-59

WHICH WASNT OK

quickbadger-36

I'm black

quickbadger-36

I don't think it's okay for me to call my fellow black person the word too when I can just call them what it means

niftyorchid-81 OP

I'm just saying racial slurs shouldn't be said if you aren't that race, if you use it between your race I could give less of a fuck

steadyanchor-59

uh huh surely

quickbadger-36

So let me get this straight

quickbadger-36

When a black says it, and when it white does, they don't mean the same thing

quickbadger-36

What if I call you that as a black while trying to use it for the same meaning as a white dude

grandquiver-69

It's more to do with the way and reason y ppl say it

steadyanchor-59

no it dont

steadyanchor-59

ohh heyyy brownieee

steadyanchor-59

IM SORRYY

grandquiver-69

That could probs work if your close to them

quickbadger-36

You think, a black can't use it as a hate word on another black

steadyanchor-59

sigh

steadyanchor-59

i rlly am sorreh

niftyorchid-81 OP

Y'all not finna do this bs in MY hot take

grandquiver-69

I mean then that's just partly hating themselves or smth isn't it

quickbadger-36

I will be the first then:r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

Till you all drop it

niftyorchid-81 OP

^

quickbadger-36

Nah, I think we should either let go of the word. We don't have a good history with it

grandquiver-69

This happens often even if OP isn't joining in many hot takes

niftyorchid-81 OP

He's black

grandquiver-69

I mean that would be the best thing to do but ppl won't rly stop saying it, so the next best thing to do is regulate it ig

quickbadger-36

I'm black.

quickbadger-36

Well, you can either laugh it off. Or use the opposite equivalent if dude wouldn't stop

niftyorchid-81 OP

I'm sayin racial slurs shouldn't be said, but it is way more common to hear a white person to say the n word than a black person to say the c word and all I'm saying is either one doesn't make you cool. I legit just watched half this server whit mostly whites in it say the n word and haven't seen a single black say the c word

quickbadger-36

So they know what they are doing right?

grandquiver-69

Yh true, on an individual basis that would work

steadyanchor-59

im

steadyanchor-59

hungry

steadyanchor-59

i want

steadyanchor-59

5 bars of milk chocolate 5 bars of white chocolate a bowl load of french freis with cheese dip and 7 chicken tenders iwth buffalo sauce ranch sweet honey mustard chopped tomatoes that green leafy stuff small chopped onions all mixed around with iced water and a monster

grandquiver-69

Yh it's said so often here💀

quickbadger-36

Ask them why they say it. If they say it means bro, then ask why can't they just call you bro

quickbadger-36

I'm 21

grandquiver-69

U can just call them out sometimes, I call them racist if it's directed at me lol (I'm not black or white)

snowyorange-96

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

Nah. They know what they do. Most

niftyorchid-81 OP

Me the whole time

quickbadger-36

Green?

niftyorchid-81 OP

Help what

grandquiver-69

Brown

steadyanchor-59

sjgh

quickbadger-36

There are brown people?

steadyanchor-59

im still hungry

steadyanchor-59

u crazy if u think IM sharing

grandquiver-69

Yh it's so shocking 💔

steadyanchor-59

WOAH HOW DID U REACH MY LVL IVE BEEN IN THIS SERVER FOR 2 MONTHS AND U DID IT IN 3 DAYS

steadyanchor-59

WOAH WOAH OK

niftyorchid-81 OP

Man I have JEOMBree so I'm not in class all week

niftyorchid-81 OP

6

quickbadger-36

Well. Technically most of us are not exactly white or black. It's brown, chocolate,there are a few I can actually agree with the colour black, even whites don't look white

quickbadger-36

People are colour blinded

quickbadger-36

Nope. Blacks

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

grandquiver-69

Well the terms were made why European colonialists (I don't wanna tread there too deeply here)

quickbadger-36

I see

quickbadger-36

What were we doing then

niftyorchid-81 OP

I'm closing my hot take off withhhh:

Man shut that shit up, if you say any racial slurs and you aren't that race you're racist 😒

grandquiver-69

What

snowyorange-96

Damn

snowyorange-96

Thats crazy

quickbadger-36

I still find colonization weird

grandquiver-69

Ofc it's weird lol

niftyorchid-81 OP

What's colonization..

niftyorchid-81 OP

I feel dumb

quickbadger-36

How do you complain a whole bunch of people

niftyorchid-81 OP

Oh yea that's hella weird

quickbadger-36

Sounds like magic:r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

Maybe

quickbadger-36

Maybe not

steadyanchor-59

6..

steadyanchor-59

whats colonized

quickbadger-36

Imagine us doing the colonization

quickbadger-36

Now that's a new perspective

niftyorchid-81 OP

They did

steadyanchor-59

school..?

steadyanchor-59

probably

steadyanchor-59

i jst sleep in school all day and raegen does my work

steadyanchor-59

so

steadyanchor-59

idc

niftyorchid-81 OP

And Asia don't forget

steadyanchor-59

asians are also indians i never knew that

steadyanchor-59

wait no

steadyanchor-59

indians are asians

steadyanchor-59

i ddnt understand it but heyy

quickbadger-36

It's a subtle process

quickbadger-36

I think weapons also played a part

steadyanchor-59

seriously

steadyanchor-59

weapons

steadyanchor-59

do they breath?

quickbadger-36

And also who had bigger boats

quickbadger-36

They end breathing

quickbadger-36

I said. It's either we all drop it

quickbadger-36

Or we all use it

quickbadger-36

You don't want to drop it ?

quickbadger-36

Why

quickbadger-36

Hmm so it's an exclusive word for only a specific people?

quickbadger-36

Since we were called this word which had a meaning not so good . We get to keep it and use it amongst ourselves?

quickbadger-36

Then, if I as a black calls you that. Why don't you feel like what you used to feel?

quickbadger-36

I'm not ignoring history

quickbadger-36

Oh right. You definitely think a black can't hate on a black

quickbadger-36

How would you know if I call you that for the very same meaning the word had

quickbadger-36

Right

quickbadger-36

So why get angry unless you think the whites are still in power

steadyanchor-59

certainly

steadyanchor-59

u need to be struck by ZEUS nigga

quickbadger-36

My point is that I can called you the word for the same meaning as it had and you wouldn't even know that

quickbadger-36

I'm black btw

quickbadger-36

Alright.i get you. But we shouldn't call ourselves the very thing we don't like

coralcopper-80

Hi you all new here

coralcopper-80

What's with you guys and black people?

quickbadger-36

Meh, if I call you the word as a replacement for bro, I think it's just better to call you bro straight up

coralcopper-80

And what's the n word about?

quickbadger-36

Anytime I call you the word as a black. Just know I am doing what the whites do

quickbadger-36

Hate on you :armscrossed:

steadyanchor-59

ahhh

steadyanchor-59

ahhh

steadyanchor-59

ahhh

quickbadger-36

Even as a black

steadyanchor-59

ahhaa aahhh aaaaahhh aahhh ah

steadyanchor-59

aahhhh

steadyanchor-59

aaaahhhh

quickbadger-36

Yeah. They just don't want to let go

quickbadger-36

It's 21th century

niftyorchid-81 OP

Uhm what the fuck is happening

quickbadger-36

Yeah. The act of gatekeeping it is a bit racist

quickbadger-36

It's like saying, some English words should only be used by the English people

quickbadger-36

Because they had history with it

steadyanchor-59

akira akira..

steadyanchor-59

AAAHHH

coralcopper-80

Everybody talking about the n word.. people have just been weird this days😭

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

They lack livers

niftyorchid-81 OP

I have livers

quickbadger-36

:armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

Borrow me

niftyorchid-81 OP

Girl what.. You must be dumb

niftyorchid-81 OP

Someone tell this unknown the history of the n word

quickbadger-36

I'm definitely going to have an issue with my fellow black calling me that too :r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

You may have a different meaning in your hate, but if we are all going with history

quickbadger-36

I think you mean the same thing

quickbadger-36

If you mean bro,call me bro instead

quickbadger-36

Ofc. People don't want to let go

niftyorchid-81 OP

Well I'm not FROM Russia am I?

quickbadger-36

Yeah. Like the word " the third to last word in your statement"

niftyorchid-81 OP

Alright I'm not gonna debate with you people anymore

quickbadger-36

:armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

Is that concerning?

niftyorchid-81 OP

Did I stutter over text or smth??

niftyorchid-81 OP

Then why are you debating..

quickbadger-36

I wasn't even born when the word came out, can't carry history on my head:armscrossed:

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

niftyorchid-81 OP

Ok

quickbadger-36

Wait, why are we call blacks?

quickbadger-36

I'm brown skinned

quickbadger-36

:r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

For really, I really do try to find these black people they speak of

niftyorchid-81 OP

Then it doesn't count

quickbadger-36

It's okay when they say it first apparently

quickbadger-36

Flawed logic

niftyorchid-81 OP

Ayo y'all stop talking in my hot take

niftyorchid-81 OP

I need to organize my stickers

quickbadger-36

No thank you

quickbadger-36

Wait I can say the word here?

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

:frogsip:

quickbadger-36

:tomsip:

niftyorchid-81 OP

stop why are y'all watching me..

quickbadger-36

This is very off topic

quickbadger-36

Yes nigga

quickbadger-36

I didn't get time out:straightface:

quickbadger-36

Feels great

niftyorchid-81 OP

Thanks broskie

steadyanchor-59

AAYY

steadyanchor-59

u still said it its bad

steadyanchor-59

C word

steadyanchor-59

C word

steadyanchor-59

yup

niftyorchid-81 OP

Help

snowysilver-75

Facts

sharpdolphin-67

the racism is crazy with this one

olivecactus-25

I’m 27 I live in United States 🇺🇸 Georgia
I’m a female
Dm are always open for mature man

niftyorchid-81 OP

Wdym

snowyorange-96

Hm

niftyorchid-81 OP

"Adults". Btw

niftyorchid-81 OP

Idk I just have aura

steadyanchor-59

rllay hungry

emberwillow-10

Nobody should say it 🤦

emberwillow-10

WHAT is this take?

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