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I am an ambivert and a good listener...what else does a girl want...
Im not looking for a relationship or anything, but I can give you advice if you need!
Yes 🙌🏻
Alr dm me whatever kind of advice you need
oh
Ello
What a girl need ??
?
Someone who doesnt get mad as often as most guys do.
And
I never get mad in my life 🙌🏻
Someone whos nice in a general sense. No big ego, not too much pride, etc.
Ok
And
If i have all good things you are saying than why am i single
😭😭😭
My all friends have gf
But i am still single
Girls are hard to get in general. As a bi girl whos dated both, guys have FAR less standards when it comes to dating. I try not to be a part of that majority. Most girls think guys are ugly or weird or wtvr. Its just trial and error. If one girl says no, keep looking.
🫡🫡 ok mam
Best of luck.
Most girls ???
Hey 👋
hii miss
dm
Okay
Ok
Shes not real rahul
I know just passing my time
I am tho?
I was talking abt the girl who texted him a "hey 👋"
K loo
Lol*
Oh ok
Yea
Lol pro Max
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So like we shld up our standards ?
As a girl or a guy?
Wont girls like a simple guy
I am asking as a guy
No, girls should lower theirs.
Ohhhh
Girls like money
I think
Well not all Obv
I think i am single because i came from a middle class family
My friends are not so they have gf
Not necessarily true rahul
Money is not necessarily the concern
Some do. It isnt black and white. Girls have preferences.
Especially
At ur age
Ur just 17
I have seen relationships
Like me, Im broke asf. I dont care abt money
With multiple dynamics
In some girls are rich
In some guys are rich
One of us have a girl when he was 15
What matters is they show effort to each other
Well not everyone does
Its not like if someone did
U have to too
U just gotta wait for ur chances
Same
Naah i think and i saw girls always leave one of another because he is rich or too good in something
Youre being black and white about it. Find the one whos right for you. Every girl is different, so find yours.
Exactly 💯
Again, thats some not all.
Well those girls aren't real then
U just gotta find the right one
I gtg my phones about to die.
I mean 70 to 80%
U can't be so sure of tht
That exist or that youve seen?
Ok have a magnificent day
I'd say people who wanna really wait for their partner
Seen
Wont date people
Like they would date people
They really really like
Then it isnt everybody.
I saw the surroundings
Cant make a statistic off a select group of people.
Well ur in the wrong surroundings
Change ur location 😭
I think the same
Dmm
Lmao. Is bro crying for a girl or what? 💔
🥀
I mean, Ive cried over a girl. Whats wrong with expressing human emotion?
Yea, it is fine, I am not saying that it is wrong
Then why make fun of it?
It is human nature, Ig
That does not "fun" for me, Maybe it looks "fun" for you, however, it is about your mind which makes you think like that.
If it isnt fun, nor necessary, why do it in the first place?
I did it for an other reason. I dont wanna tell it, well, I dont wanna make fun of him, that is it. Well, dont ask me question, cuz Ima not reply...
Because there wasnt actually any reason?
Doing it to hurt people?
There are many people in the world, right? He should not cry that he does not deserve a girl, let him try another way without taking the failure emotionally.
That is what
Well
Its still an impact, no matter the size. If an asteroid wipes out NYC, theres thousands of other cities, but people will still cry. He showed human emotion and you choose to discredit that. It shows what kind of person you are.
If I send this message, Ik that he can ask question abt this message, so I was to say advice to him that he should not be emotional for not getting a girl, cuz there are many, so then why should he cry?.
Well, Ik it can be hard, nothing to do with it btw
Then why make the message appear as criticism? People take things like that to heart.
Also he has a reason to cry, I did not say that it is wrong, but I want to ask him not to be too emotional for it
Not all the people, Ig
It is about misunderstanding problem, leave it.
I can do well next time, Ig
Difficult to take things into heart if you havent got a heart in the first place, I presume.
Good. Do so.
Well, the people who are emotionally affected too much would take the message too emotional, nothing to with that.
It is his choice if he should take the message emotionally or as an advice
Theres no such thing as being too emotional. People care about things. Showing emotion is the only way to express said care.
Do you mean the all people?
Are the all people emotional too much?
Yes. No matter whether you show it or not, people care about things.
If you really want to argue about the psychology of basic human emotion, tske it to DMs. I studied psychology, and I know its healthy to show emotion.
In conclusion, the people are different one another btw, in those people, they are may put their emotion first. So it is about the people, not my fault. Well, I guess that I answer the vulnerability. Ima not respond anymore here, Ig.
And "the people" doesnt apply to you as well?
Alright, fine, Ima remove it due varying emotional contradiction.
Done
Nice to meet you, and thx for advise me, and I understand smt.
Well, can I teach me about human emotion?
Youre a bit too far gone. You think of human emotion as something to be taught. You have to teach yourself how you think before learning how others think. You can study how a typical brain thinks, but emotion is different for everybody.
I already know how basic human emotion works, I think. And I am interested in psychology already. So I think that I am doing the right thing, well, if you think that I did wrong, it is free to teach me or explain its context. So that is why I asked you to teach me. And if you dont wanna recorrect me by teaching or explain me, it is fine.
Then no, I politely decline your request to be taught how human emotion works. Its a complicated subject, and I dont have the time or patience to teach you.
I am not here to waste my time, but to learn something. However, thx for your polite declination. And nice to meet you.
The problem is that I just got surrounded by emotionally affected people 💔
Try not to see that as a problem. It isnt.
I am not a simp, atleast 🥀
Dont be a simp, that is what I was trying to say, but Idk if human nature allows it
Just find a good girl for you, not just trying to get random ahh girl, maybe your type is different, so focus on that type of girl, it would be fine.
Dont think that you are not enough to ge a girl
How to find i don't know the process so talking to them is the good one
Idk if her advice works lol. Just find your type of girl bro, you dont need to change urself for a gurl
It may take time, just be patient, just dont destroy urself
Thats what i think
🫡🙌🏻
Dont just get advise from random people, Ig
Taking advice is is like practicing some question/ans. For the exams
A part of syllabus
Yea but
The practising method should be in a right way
Hmm
If you get advise from random people who say "Girls dont like big egoist boys", you would think that you are wrong
Imagine making urself bad for a gurl
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Like are you even a simp or what?
Also if you wanna die for a girl, so yea, you prob have to change yourself for the girl
In which case, if you have to change your entire personality for a girl, find another fkn girl.
Hi 👋
