Dating Older Men: Is It Love or Manipulation? | FriendZone
Summary
This community discussion on FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC explores the controversial topic of dating older men. Members share diverse perspectives on whether age gaps equate to maturity, love, or potential manipulation. The thread highlights the importance of personal preferences and emotional readiness in relationships, fostering an open environment for members to debate the realities of modern dating.
Hmm. Oh let's see, although it's a topic most people have a different opinion on it
They do see it as an issue. You wanna talk on it?
The issue of having just one person to love I guess
Yeah, alot of people do base love as a monopoly thing I guess
Yeah. Something like that
That's a good way to sum it
I personally is okay with any though,so it probably depends on the people I engage with
I do believe you can obviously love two people at the same time
It wouldn't be equal but yeah you can give it what you have
Not a bad preference
Oh. That makes sense
But it's all up to what you want and what your partner wants I guess
Although anything poly would have to be something that's mutually agreed on my all parties
Well, a valid reason for wanting monopoly
Well.. people can talk
It's not like life is any easier for those who do a single person way
Oh. Did both know?
Or just something that happened in secret
That sucks, bro did try to give it his best probably
I see
Well. Sorry that it didn't go well for him
Damn. Gone so soon
I've got a question
"what does love feel like?"
Exactly
I probably don't feel what they feel but I wouldn't say I don't love them
I don't go crazy about them or think about them all the time
Sometimes It even seems like I don't care but usually when they want me to do people pleasing things like singing
Also I like to value my me time..so probably wouldn't pick anyone's call while gaming or doing something fun
Also yeah, even if they do like me, I still want someone better
For them
Exactly. I'm not insecure. I'm just not someone who can be the person they want. I'm me and nothing beyond that
Oh. Not totally compulsory to fight
Why would I have to fight for someone, I never said for someone to do the same for me.
I already have a well organised idea on the kind of relationship rules and regulations I want
Definitely want alot of me time and some of us time
Also yeah,I can't read body language so if you got an issue o something to say you would have to say it
Cause I wouldn't get it otherwise
Also yeah. No social caging
They can talk to people of the opposite gender as long as nothing crazy happens
Hmm. More like I want them to be just the same way they were when I met them I guess. A friend if that's the right word
Yope, I guess that's one of the reasons why people date but it doesn't always end up that way
Oh
I hope it doesn't down that route for you
Theses days I bearly talk to the opposite gender if it's not a causal conversation
Maybe maybe one day I might catch those magical feelings people talk about
I see. I guess it's different for everyone
Most people I talk to don't know how to hold conversations
They either don't know what to say or are tired
Or one thing or the other
