Would You Date Someone With Kids? | FriendZone Debate

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently held a lively debate on whether members would date or marry someone who already has children. The discussion covered diverse perspectives, ranging from personal preferences and ego to the challenges of step-parenting. This thread highlights the open and honest social atmosphere that defines the server, where members feel comfortable sharing their views on complex life topics...

sunnyjester-27 OP

Pls don't be rude, just be honest

nobleriver-83

Yes I would. That would be a win win too, bc I want children SOOO BAD and I don't wanna become pregnant

gentleunicorn-93

Dating is a different thing but I don't think I'll marry

@gentleunicorn-93 Dating is a different thing but I don't think I'll marry
nobleriver-83

Even if they're a 10/10?

@nobleriver-83 Even if they're a 10/10?
gentleunicorn-93

Hmmmmmmmm......
Good question 🤔

gentleunicorn-93

But I still think that marriage is a bit too much for me in general

@gentleunicorn-93 But I still think that marriage is a bit too much for me in general
nobleriver-83

Same, it feels like prison. Like Wym I can't directly break up w u huhh

@nobleriver-83 Same, it feels like prison. Like Wym I can't directly break up w u huhh
gentleunicorn-93

What? I didn't understand what you said

@gentleunicorn-93 What? I didn't understand what you said
nobleriver-83

Forget ittt

amberyellow-59

Nah

@nobleriver-83 Forget ittt
gentleunicorn-93

Ok

gentleunicorn-93

In my belief, marriage is required only when you require a companion in life.

gentleunicorn-93

So marrying a person who has children is like playing a game from the middle which was half completed by some other person before me

amberyellow-59

They would have to be of my royal bloodline sorry

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
swiftorchid-87

No..not at this age

@swiftorchid-87 No..not at this age
nobleriver-83

HAHAH bro marries an 15 year-old mother

@nobleriver-83 HAHAH bro marries an 15 year-old mother
swiftorchid-87

bruhh!!🥀

swiftorchid-87

i meant am will not to do at my age..like am 20

swiftorchid-87

maybe when someone is at least 27-18

swiftorchid-87

then they can think bout it

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
grandquiver-69

Probs not since sometimes that child might struggle to accept a step-parent

@swiftorchid-87 then they can think bout it
nobleriver-83

Haha ofc

@grandquiver-69 Probs not since sometimes that child might struggle to accept a step-parent
nobleriver-83

evilstepmother

@nobleriver-83 #evilstepmother
grandquiver-69

Yh u could be like that

@grandquiver-69 Yh u could be like that
nobleriver-83

Ofc I will be like that, duhh

nobleriver-83

I will use my power to the fullest ☺️

@swiftorchid-87 No..not at this age
sunnyjester-27 OP

So in the future?

@nobleriver-83 Ofc I will be like that, duhh
grandquiver-69

What I meant was disliking at the start but that works too haha

@grandquiver-69 Probs not since sometimes that child might struggle to accept a step-parent
sunnyjester-27 OP

Yea, it's better not to

@sunnyjester-27 So in the future?
swiftorchid-87

maybe..but probably not

@grandquiver-69 What I meant was disliking at the start but that works too haha
nobleriver-83

Hahaha

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
warmpanda-50

Nope. I'd never.

@warmpanda-50 Nope. I'd never.
sunnyjester-27 OP

Lol why?

@swiftorchid-87 maybe..but probably not
sunnyjester-27 OP

Any reason

@sunnyjester-27 Any reason
swiftorchid-87

I wouldnt want any other man's kid..u can call it ego issue or anything else..but it is what it is

@sunnyjester-27 Lol why?
warmpanda-50

I'm NEVER raising a child that isn't mine, over which I have no control whatsoever about how he behaves or grows up. And for which I would only be a wallet at most.

@swiftorchid-87 I wouldnt want any other man's kid..u can call it ego issue or anything else..but it is what it is
warmpanda-50

No, it's just normality that was transformed into absurdity by women that wouldn't take accountability for their actions.

@warmpanda-50 No, it's just normality that was transformed into absurdity by women that wouldn't take accountabil…
swiftorchid-87

well sometimes Men do it too..like they have childrens and they marry someone else

swiftorchid-87

but its a NO for me...if others want then they can do it

@swiftorchid-87 well sometimes Men do it too..like they have childrens and they marry someone else
nobleriver-83

What should the men do w their children then? Kill em?

@swiftorchid-87 well sometimes Men do it too..like they have childrens and they marry someone else
warmpanda-50
  1. I never said men don't do it.
  2. It's usually women that whine about "men stepping up to fuflill their roles as parent" to avoid taking accountability for their own actions.
  3. The "no being normality" also counts for women too, but as said in point 2 it's usually the opposite, especially since women almost always get custody of the child, given the system's inequalities.
@nobleriver-83 What should the men do w their children then? Kill em?
swiftorchid-87

I mean kids can be annoying...:y_lookaway:
but i was just saying that both men and women do it..nothing wrong in it

@warmpanda-50 1. I never said men don't do it. 2. It's usually women that whine about "men stepping up to fuflill…
swiftorchid-87

yea makes sense

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

Nah, unless I have a kid too

quickbadger-36

So single parent x single parent

@swiftorchid-87 I mean kids can be annoying... but i was just saying that both men and women do it..nothing wrong i…
nobleriver-83

HAHAHA yh ofcc

swiftdelta-92

Ew

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
snowyjungle-82

Nope....
Being a Stepmom isn't for me

silentheron-29

No

silentheron-29

F them kids

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
snowyorange-96

No, i would not

snowyorange-96

Marry someone who had a child

plaidgarden-51

No

@sunnyjester-27 Pls don't be rude, just be honest
jadetiger-51

Are they keeping me around as a babysitter or am I a legitimate romantic pathway for em.

jadetiger-51

Me (18) am sleeping with a single mother (41), we're planning to get married, how do I get her son (20) to respect me. 🙂

nobleriver-83

Yeah yeah, I do the thing w "you" too and you're really right

@jadetiger-51 Me (18) am sleeping with a single mother (41), we're planning to get married, how do I get her son…
nobleriver-83

Sleep w him too

nobleriver-83

Ofcc, no gate keeping

nobleriver-83

HAHAHAH better if he's a femboy

nobleriver-83

PHAHAHAHA

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