Dealing with Toxic Family Dynamics | FriendZone Support
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This announcement in FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime addresses the heavy topic of dealing with neglectful or manipulative parents. The community discusses the importance of venting emotions rather than suppressing them, offering advice on how to move forward from past trauma. It highlights the server as a supportive space where members can share their struggles and find comfort in a community that values mental well-being.
And i hate that
That police gets involved
Seeking help costs alot
Its hard bc my mom always created drama and calls my grandpa and then there will be alot
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Its not hard to let go, its only hard bc it is drama and i feel forced to keep unblocked bc people said
Blocking is not right thing to do
Shes ur "mom"
I have always been needing to babysit someone older then me so idk what purpose is in my life
Or role
I dont talk to them alot about it i talk a few things to my siblings they have it hard too
The purpose is life itself, it's to explore and enjoy the pleasures and gift of this grand adventure.
Can't blame you for not knowing because you have been too much focused on a single pain point that has made you not see the heavenly glory around it.
If all this is hurting you then eventually you'll have to do something because if not, then you'll suffer for a long period of time, even when they are gone.
You fear what drama will happen afterwards and want to avoid it so I can see why you say what you say, in this case I think the best firm action you could take is have a proper conversation with them- clear out your boundaries.
And if you'd want to avoid even that then remember "what you are not changing, you are choosing it".
Sure enough you do not want to be imposing on your siblings- fact is you don't need to, you are an adult, decide what is best for you.
relatable🫂
but how one can move on when its their own family..their "support" the ones they expect to get love from but instead keep on getting wounded by them
Yeah it's sooo hard isn't it???
To try to move on from everything that you once desired and held dear to your heart.
I am sure it would require the strongest of will to grow out of a situation like that, and I think sometimes those people get the desire to be loved by their family again. sometimes question their own decision that they made.
"Maybe I was wrong, maybe I should not have done anything then I could have what we had all those years ago."- a question that comes to them.
what keeps people moving and not returning to the past is remembering the reason why they did make such a choice in the first place- a choice to separate themselves from what was slowly killing them from inside.
right..not like they had a prefect childhood they kinda had the same but still they wont try to understand and js forgot how they used to feel at those times
Yup.
I learned to respect my mother and father even when they don't respect me
