Do Bullies Always Win? Discussing Trauma and Healing
Summary
In the FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community, members are engaging in a deep discussion about the impact of bullying and the struggle of moving past trauma. This thread explores the painful reality of seeing past aggressors succeed while victims continue to heal. It serves as a space for members to share their perspectives on coping with the past and finding solidarity within our supportive social environment.
As someone that has been bullied or backstabbed by people that I know back in the day
It hurts a lot seeing em winning in life and me still in rock bottom
Like I know that everybody has a pacing to go where they want to be in life and that sometimes we all gotta start somewhere in order to grow and develop ourselves for the future or just anything in particular
It's like sometimes I also wish the worse upon every single bully in this world that has harm innocent people and that they deserve the worse to the point theyre in life in prison type punishment
Like people don't deserve to feel pain from others unless it is fully fully justified
But other than that what is yall take on this?
True it hurts
QiQi understands me
it does hurt a lot
Maybe they win in life cuz deep inside
They might be hurting too
But takes pain on others to feel better
theres no excuse for them to hurt other people to make theirselves feel better its no good excuse whatsoever
even if they claim if theyre going through something
you shouldnt be hurting other people regardless of what lifestyle you are in and so on
Well true but it is what it is
I guess
But people cope differently
Im just the type of person to just never let go of my old past type of thing ya know
Ik people may accept their past for what it is but its like its just trauma to me atp
Yeah but some Haas it really terrible
And cant do what we can
yeah and suffering should never exist on innocent people whatsoever
Welll true but cant change what people do
Unfortunately
yep thats humanity for ya
Yh
They were not the ones traumatised and they've probably forgotten about you and move on with their life so it's normal that they're winning
I don't think they always win, some of the ones I knew went real quiet as everyone moved to college (then again our school had a bad reputation lol)
But yh they like to get in ppl's heads, and then just move on since they're not the ones damaged, they caused that pain instead
