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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently engaged in a thought-provoking debate regarding beauty standards and whether looks truly dictate attraction. Members explored the balance between physical appearance and inner character, questioning how societal pressure influences self-worth. This discussion highlights the deep, meaningful conversations that happen daily in our active social hub.
Stop lying, you care abt looks
I care about my own looks
same
Most of us do yeah
It's the very first thing that draws you in
yeahh
Fr i dont care about look 
marry me
It depends
If I knew you before I knew what you look like
Wouldn't matter
Looks be caring about me
No
Oh... I'm going to cry now...
In the end, everyone is ugly
To someone else yh
So what matters is how you see yourself then
Cry but dont go "bananaas" 
Beauty in the eyes of the beholder
And that
More like eyes of the holder
If I don't see myself as a beautiful person
You probably wouldn't ever be able to convince me
😂😂
Then ig they're blind or have skewed vision
The most beautiful lie that nobody believes

Poet caused it
It was meant to be for Arts
Is bro think that he is tuff?
Bro is tuff
Yeah. People are more complicated than art works
yeahh, I would sleep forever to live in that dream world, where is isn't a lie
Also if an old man peed on the mid road, you should not care abt his look

We do care about looks. But we also care about the person too
Hence why you can still find a beautiful person unattractive
Not when others are materialistic or smth
But nobody likes an ugly shell with a beautiful soul... And it is hard to develop your soul while struggling w the voices from outside telling you how ugly you are
They just want what looks nice to them
For me, the first thing i notice is character
Then beauty
What happens if you haven't seen the person at all. Before getting to know them
But not a unattraktiv person attractive
True ig
Performative
You let others define what beauty means for you then.
Blind folks are real ones
No offence
Beauty is alr defined
Agreed 💯
As what?
I wish to be blind sometimes
Slim?
Tall?
What defines beauty
yeah, big eyes, small nose, big lips
Healthy hair
Exactly what people tell you
Straight teeth
What if everyone starts to like big nose?
It then becomes beauty
then beauty becomes having Big noses
It could be a trend at first
yeahh, but nobody does
Acc yh, it's a trend
It is called stereotype, ig
Exactly
Some tribes in africa see fat women as beautiful
you follow the beauty standards too
But not here
Yeah
If you know that it's that. Why still believe in it
Sometimes
If you are not beautiful just find your niche 😁
Bc you know how difficult it is to fight against half the world
Oh. I like in my world. Not the world
The whole Is a big place
Only care about my own POV
You think
I know
fake bc you are alr influenced by it. You only don't acknowledge it anymore, bc it alr became so normal
I beg to differ
Cuz stereotype gives people an aura or smt
Oh. Yeah. That too
But it does not make sense
Counter stereotype give double aura
But this is how society works
I can't change my looks though
Can't add an extra height
Weight is hard to get for me too

Okayy
Bro the height thing is 😔
Im 5'11 tho
Why I care about height. Is just for the kids 
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You can, platik surgery, body hair removal, make up, height surgery, do sports to gain muscles, lash serum, eye color surgery, skin care for clear skin, ....
Nah
I'm 5'7😭💔
Awaaiwirbf
No thank you. I hate surgeries. I'm too lazy to do sports
Just change ur place for a better stereotype
Exactly
Preach
SOMEONE GIVVE SOME INCHES PLEASE
Hmm. Oh, I'm beautiful lol
For me, weight loss is important cause of health issues
Looking for weight gain over here
Same here
If you are in a criminal place, if you do a good thing, the criminal stereotype will recognize you as a wrong doer. So just dont stay in that place
Yeah. Stress Nd high metabolism wouldn't let me gain it
Bro i could eat from now till tommorow
And still nothing
Lol
Only just a big stomach,that goes down after getting hungry 
Relatable
Lmao
Then i feel bad for eating too much
i wish i werent 5'2'' my calorie alotment is so low

Ah shoot
i smell food and gain weight
Please don't talk abt calories again, it's enough to hear abt it irl
When i was little i was told beans made people grow tall
Haha
Then it became my best food
hahaha preach its a sick world
And 5'11 aint bad
People just love the number 6
Haha
🥲 im not crying
It is, my friends, my siblings, my parents, my teachers, EVERYONE is trying to lose weight...
I just wanna live..
ive lost like 35 lbs in like 8.5 months. i feel better i look better life is good. looks matter but moreso u just wanna look healthy
c'est la life
Average height is the coolest spot
Yeah, not too short to be k-issed and not too tall either

FRENCHHHH
Whatt, whoo??
Bro loves all shapes Nd sizes
Not you not you
I wanna be 185
Lmao
You got time?
I have accepted by growth end
I can only add muscles now
No, I'm fully grown alr😭😭
Still a minor. You might still have a few centimetres left in you
I was super tall as a kid, 142 by 2. Grade, but stopped growing at 6th grade 😭💀
Same as my sister. But she is shorter now
Another lie they told was that you get more weight when you get married, cos of peace of mind 
I M JUST WANNA BE A TALL GIRLLLLLL
haha😭💔
Ha no
What would you do with the height?
LOOK PRETTY
Play basketball
Model?
Isn't pretty a face thing?
Look to the future?
Or the others
Do you think "Face card" is a thing?
Ofc
Does it apply to both genders?
It depends on what the person wants
Hmm
If you want a girl with pretty face okay
Yeahh, but tall ppl appear prettier with the vibe
If you want one with the As Nd Bs
Good for you
Are you 5'11
Lmao
I hope you get taller
Yh
I don't really like tall girls though
i like being a short woman
but i hate the downsides of it
i dont ever have to worry about how tall my partner is which is a plus
Ha
Disadvantage?
how did u get banned from dmming on discord ?
Bro I dont even know
....sus
Maybe cos i unlocked this
idk what that is its not showing up
Bro i aint even sus
It's mostly due to too many accepted FR or sent FR in a day or chatting with someone you haven't added as a friend for long
Oh i see
They can restrict your account from DMs
This is the second time tho
Happened to me in my early days of DC
Im i really that bad
i didnt even know that could happen
Yeah. It happens
I promise ill leave as soon as i find the one 
the one what ?💀
Girl?
cooked
On DC lol
Good luck
Ace my brother
TITI wsp
he remembers

Why would I forget

because I am IRONman
Don't tell anyone though
Lmaoi
Our lil secret

Yeah. No witnesses
Tea ☕
Sus
Hot chocolate
No that's coffee

Latte
Slime all of em
Including u

Yes I am fr
So ur son
M&M
Looks is only good for first impressions only
U don't understand basic words💔


Its ok son
I know looks fade away but ... the prettier the better chances....
I am they

Huh
Huh
So if your son becomes a They them for example hiw is he related to u
Like whats ur relationships
What
Day/damn

Isint it father -son
Is it
They - it

Lmaoo
Wrong thing
So ur son
They
Son heung min
No Korean here
So they are son ?
They r they
Simple english
But .... are they?
They
They are
But they are 1
Yes
Them
So they not they
They is they 1
If they isint they
Who are they
Them
Damm
Paradox
U confused urself
Ace the them
Huh
Nah
Bro im soon gonna identify as bot
Confused
what if this person turns out not to be why he/she thinks they are
Yh so ur confused
I have succeeded in my goal
Hmm
If success is your power what are you without it
One of many goals

A successful person
I guess bro
Exactly
Yeah. Me with a new skin
How can u be successful without Success
🥀
What i mean is this:
When a masterpiece fades, it face with grace. But a not-so-fine piece...... becomes more not-so-fine
New Skin did u lazer yourself
Hard work Nd smart Nd knowledge Nd wisdom Nd many other things
Success is the result
Not the process
Not the ablity
Hm
Oh. I meant profile lol
Sooo u can't be successful without Success
Hehe boi
Ouu shi 👀
Yope
Ball knower
Do you think there is always one person in the universe mesnt for you?
Just asking
Nah
That's a big fat lie

Like the whole world sees trash but they just see masterpiece in you

?
Anyone who tells u that is lying to u
FAAH
Nah what is this madness
And sadness
🐤
And confusion
If there was something like that. You would be born with the person name in mind
All ppl are Subjective some see u as trash others won't its not a matter of thus one person
They even turn down 1 million bucks just to be with you
Soulmate
That person needs to be arrested 😅
I don't want a lover
A soulmate would be nice
-
all in his mind
In theory
Even if they say they did it for love. I will be angry
Fr
I guess you believe in that. I don't even believe in a soul 
It happens..... but in the 19'0s
Well I said would be nice... So in theory
Cos I don't believe in love
Oh. Never met any?
If they were living in our economy it wouldn't have happened
Bro some people would still chest on a soul mate
Sadly (or not) nope
Yeah
Not bad
HUMANS ARE -
Humans
It's not abt romantic love tho
If it is then that's just a lover
Humans are Devils
Not a soulmate
Weirdos
Ducks
So what would you consider to be a soulmate
Pigeons
Exactly what's said in the word even tho u don't believe in souls
Blud ppl can abandoned their parents ,kids tf is a soul mate
I need explanation. And not the word
Ppl say a lover is above a friend, so I say a soulmate is above a lover
Idk someone close
A soulmate is one who has exactly the same experience as you
Nah
Family?
Not rly, maybe in some cases yh
Bro..... what
Well. I don't believe in souls, and don't even see a reason why my soul wouldn't even have a soulmate
Yes and it's a close person
Same
Still can be cheated on
My own opinion
Not a lover
Bro If i date i date to marry
U can't cheat on ur soulmate
Would you die for a soulmate?

U can
No, maybe live instead
Oh.
no u can't
How so
Cos it's diff from love
So what is a soul then.
And?
Idk and idk
You believe in soulmates, surely you might have an idea on what a soul is
Nah
So you believe in something you don't know?
2 diff things
Maybe
I see
Theres soul tie tho

Yh
CLOCK. IT.
thankss girll, hope nobody ever forget to give u the straws for u drinks
😅 oh. I hope so
THANKSS QUEENNN
HAHAHAH
YASSSSS l
How do u know that I'm gay...?😂
BAHHAAHAHAH how am I supposed to know
IDKKKK DO U HAVE A THIRD EYE???
I GUESS??
WOAHHH, YOU'RE GETTING LOCKED INTO A LABORATORY

HAHAHAAHAHAHHAA
Would u date a conventionally unattractive person?
Yeah. Very much possible
But only if they have an unreal personality?
What do you mean by unreal
People has good Nd bad side. It's not even about beauty 
I can
If and only if they have good character
Tbh its the ones you consider as unattractive that you have the best heart to heart conversations with
Exactly
And beauty is subjective or wtvr they call it
Yeah. Everyone knows what they want in a person. If it's beauty,you go for it,if it's personality you go for it,if it's both still your choice 
I gotta face my 1 week ban - ALONE
And if it's nothing then it's nothing and ppl can't dictate that but they'll try
Mine is both
But its rare
Yeah. Nothing is fine too
Don't be alone, be urself
Not rare. You probably want a perfect comb that's why it looks rare
yess
OPE-
PERIOD.
Bro it looks rare in this current times
Not really
It all comes down to what you expect Nd also what the other person expect
True
I had a LDR sometime. Beautiful but in the long run.... just not good character
What's LDR
My heart was saying yes but my mind said NO
Long distance relatiionship
Oh
Yh
Well, nice
Anywasys hope we all see the best
✊️
Lol. Not looking for the best
Just a regular person
Who's good,bad, crazy or anything
You could live with that?
Ofc.
I wish i could
Well, don't force yourself if you can't
Some of us have low bars Nd non chalent issue
Hm
Yeah
I'm not even perfect myself. So searching for something I can't be is just...
Hn
At least you honest
No one is perfect
But we can all be willing
Willing to try to be good
Willing to try to care
Willing to try to smile
Willing to try to be nice - Again
And what if I don't want to
Does that make me any bad?
Depends on the consequences of your aparty
I see.
If not smiling doesnt take away anything from the world then dont smile
Ive seen someone change the tone of the room with just a smile
Well, that's up to them

I only smile if I am happy or if I want to. Not because of people
When you were little someones smile made you happy lol
Parent, etc
Yeah. That was then. People grow up
Haha


The life hack is to be happy not out of innocence, but out of knowing that things can go south but i can still be joyful
I can choose peace because worry doesnt also stop the problem
I don't want to hack life
I wanna live it
By?
By living
Whats living like?
I don't know, wake up, eat some food, go to school, learn, talk to people
Walk outside
Chat
And do what you like
Listen hear me out y'all. I personally don't care about looks but I want you to at least maintain yourself.. and what I mean is just being clean hygienic and Decent clothes that are clean and as long as they're not like wrinkled and you don't look like a complete bum then it doesn't really matter..
I think it really just depend on. Cuz I don't have to care about your face look but if we're going out I want you to wear nice clothes like-
well its very situational but looks do matter
they hold a place in factors just like intelligence skills and other stuff
Looks attract while personality keeps
W hot take.
Again I say: Blind people are the real ones
Hence why love is "blind"
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"Oh nana oh nana "
If you love someone because they love you, thats empathy
If you love someone because of their looks, thats obsession
If you love someone because of what they have, thats Interest
If you love someone for their kindness, thats admiration
If you are confused why you love someone, its might be true love
If you love someone because of their looks, thats obsession
If you love someone because of what they have, thats Interest
If you love someone for their kindness, thats admiration
If you are confused why you love someone, its might be true love
If you love someone because of their looks, thats obsession
If you love someone because of what they have, thats Interest
If you love someone for their kindness, thats admiration
If you are confused why you love someone, its might be true love
If you love someone because of their looks, thats obsession
If you love someone because of what they have, thats Interest
If you love someone for their kindness, thats admiration
If you are confused why you love someone, its might be true love
Isn't it Havana onh nana?
It is
hello guys

ABAHHAAHAHAH

I will marry you
Hey
Appearance definitely matters in relationships with any person. Though phenomenons like looksmaxxing are extremely dangerous and shouldn't be practiced ever.
Paying attention to hygiene is the very least one can do
Been thinking about that alot, when i try to search beauty standards i end up feeling like im trying harder to look good for people i don't care about.. better just be healthy but still looking fat for beauty standards... and some people might like it as much as i do sometimes idk, teenager with lots of insecurities and many girls with anorexia in her school
And the sky is green
It's okay to admit it sigma boy
Lmao