Exploring Polyamory: Community Discussion on Relationships
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server recently hosted a deep community discussion regarding polyamory. Members explored the balance of romantic love, the intersection of friendship and partnership, and the emotional complexities of having multiple partners. This thread highlights our community's commitment to open, honest, and supportive dialogue on diverse relationship dynamics.
I want two boyfriends not even on some weird fetish or weird stuff even though at first, I thought about it weird. then I remembered I used to know this girl who had two boyfriends. It was highkey cute and I thought about it longer.
It would be nice to have two guys who love you and take care of you and to talk to about things. I'd be willing to do it, I take care of them and they both love me maybe even love each other too. I wanna try it out I feel weird tho.. To want that and kind of selfish. I know the complications of it too having favorites or smth and I'm most likely not gonna find anyone in real life willing to do that.
So I think I'd have to wait a very long time before actually trying to look for a relationship like that. Just to try it even if it fails I'll just know if its smth I wanna do again.
Would like one above the other??
Wdym
Like you loving one above the other
I feel that balancing the two is difficult
Yeah ofc I think it would be like having friends or a friend group you somehow you manage to still equally love them
Loving friends is different from loving two different bfs
You'd find that friendship and love go hand and hand in real love
Not really there very different things
How so?
I think they go hand in hand in ways that you stay loyal, love, companionship and you share a lot of deep stuff with each other.
If you can't be a friend to your partner as much as you are their partner then I don't think you'll last very long, after a nice hangout with your friends you might miss them a bit when you go home and wanna do it again and you can feel that same way with your partner. I have before it goes to show that love doesn't have limits are one meaning. There's multiple kinds rather it be platonic or romantic and romantic can be mixed in with platonic. Your not always gonna have romance with your partner and that's ok.
Even so a friends relationship is wayyyy different
There is a difference between a partner of a friend everyone knows that
Your not explaining so I don't understand you
Me personally I believe there isn't it's ok if you don't understand that
Excuse me, but it's impossible for me to explain something as trivial as this, given how trivial and obvious it is. Excuse me for the cursing
The matter is clear and straightforward: a person's relationship with their friends can never be the same as their relationship with their business partners.
Business partner as in yk what i mean
Those who get to business together
That's not an explanation your reatating your point tbh I don't understand you I don't want to have this conversation if your not serious
I'm serious, but the only one who should be thinking about me and what I'm saying is you. My words are clear and straightforward; it's impossible for a person's relationship with their friends to be the same as their relationship with their spouse.
There are clear differences in how they deal with things, in their thinking, and in the relationship as a whole.
Your still not making sense I'm done having this conversation with you
I don't care for what you have to say if you can't disprove the points I made
Honestly, I'm surprised that you didn't understand my clear words, which anyone on this server would understand...
Your not explaining do you not know what an explanation is?? Do I have to explain it to you like your five? Your not disproving my points or giving specific good reasons to why so I do not understand why you would think that
What point did you literally make? You said that friendships can be like marriage, which is impossible from the start. I wouldn't treat my friend the way I treat my wife. Your point was unclear from the beginning, and the answer is clearer. I've said it a million times: friendships can't be like marriage.
Omfg tbh your pissing me off your very stupid
What good reasons are you giving for what exactly? You literally said something impossible. How can I treat my friend the way I treat my wife??
The one stupid here is you not understanding that there is a clear difference between a friend and a partner
No just be quiet I explained to you but your very dumb and can't understand
How are you a grown ass man who doesn't know how to make an argument
Thr dumb here is you not understanding the answer i said for like 200 times
Your a waste space leave this post
I already did but apparently someone is too stupid to read
I will with honor
No reasons no points disproven waste of time and dumb as they come
Yeah yesh keep yapping
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Just saying
