Finding Connection: Homeschooling, Dreams, and Friendship
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This discussion in FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime explores the challenges of balancing personal ambitions with the need for social connection. Members share experiences regarding homeschooling, the struggle of isolation, and the importance of finding community while chasing life goals. It highlights the server as a supportive space for those seeking meaningful conversations and friendship.
im 15 male i need friends cuz all i do is sit on my chair infront of my pc working on a history video, i want to travel every country in the worldd
and i id say that im the biggest motivator for myself tho i get depressed sometimes. if ur reading this u can dm me no mater waht age or gender everybdoy is welcomed. thanks!
thats really great man i hope ur dreams come true, however u gotta study if u wanna travel and secure urself a good future. make sure to have ppl or small achievements to motivate you cause u alone wont be able to do much, trust me. i've been there, still am probably
Hey, I am getting homeschooled but I don't rlly focus on studies as much. I do get motivated when I make a perfect professional looking map or illustration (examples), and sometimes I just feel like if I'm even taking the right decisions, not abt success but abt happiness, cuz going to school even if u don't wanna study u still have social interaction, I literally lost all my friends cuz I changed cities, and it's been like that for abt 1.5 of an year, and I do find happiness in the smallest things cuz many people who get successful had that kinda mindset before that once things work out for me, I will be happy, but when they do get successful they don't know what else to do, they won't be chasing dopamine 24/7
And if I go outside at like 2:30pm, there would be nobody outside, a ghost town, cause everybody is in school or college
damn
how come u get homeschooled if u dont mind me asking?
And I've stopped pointing out mistakes on people who are just clowning around cuz sadly I realize that atleast they are happy and at the end of the day that's the only thing that matters
why not consider going to school? wouldnt u make more friends that way?
who tf even goes out at that time the sun slimes out any creature
if they r grave mistakes u can point em out once, then ig let em be, and yeah i agree
unnecessary drama aint worth it
Yk like in a mall or smthing
oh
didnt tell u to expose my life brody
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well nah for me it aint that bad
but i have been also going to schl after having moved countries and the first year was really awful
by second year i lost motivation or will to make friends
i jus go to see wht others do
this yr i had a lot of chances to make good friends but i was too depressed and used to being alone by now to the point i didnt put any efforts
Imma delete it later
i jus cant make a genuine bond w anyone anymore, specially cause nobody got my humour
That's the exact same thing happened to me
they r all fucking npcs
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The only people I bonded (kinda) was complete idiots and all they did was jestering around, no studies, no goals in life
And true most people don't have things planned
But they do it somehow with time
And yh they are happy cool for them
But my future may be uncertain
Honestly I feel like if I don't quit I can't lose
mb i got timed out
cause i said
what my classmates talk abt
half the time
shi
Yh and the kinda things I like, I get called a nerd for it
Yh ik what u meant
nah im a person who makes ppl w specific kinda peeps, im selective. i dont jus befriend any creature.. so yeah. finding normal good ppl is rare af
THIS
ONE OF MY CLASSMATES
SAID
SHE FINNA JUS MARRY HER BF AND IF WANTS TO WORK.. WORK AS THE ASSISTANT OF HIS DAD'S COMPANY..
she had 5 exes btw
Yh and idk why people don't open up fast either, tho im also like that but still dude
what makes u think he wont become one too one day
u never know
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i feel ya man im the same
I never went on a date ever
