Friendship Etiquette: Dealing with Ghosting & Expectations
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so i have ths hb and like im not online for days cus of schoola dn when im online im not there for very long so i went to school at 7:45 and he texted me at 7:50 i wanst online too the whole morning and he blocked me everywhere like people have lives too
don't listen to
slam him
u said they're a "bad friend"
how?
they have school, they can't just pick up the phone anytime
erm actually she has a she/her tag 🤓☝️
if she's saying that she's not online for days, I'm sure she told the other person already
I'm sure the other person has other friends to talk to, they don't have to block her, that's a bit harsh
or they could've just unfriended
I only friend as many people as I can talk to
and I do reply to all of them
no dude
I always check eveyday
and if nobody's left anything, I move on with my day
so do you mean you always say good morning to your friends? I don't think so
all my friends are worth it
you need to find some worthy friends then
because you haven't found them yet
and I can see why
sure, believe what you want
Bro you forgot me ahh
I'm a good frnd
Bro give me a chance plzz
You can block me
Or whatever
Or ban me
Or
Idk
Bro
I'm not like that like I mean I'm not really that active here but still
Ahh I don't know what to say
Fk you
Oh that's mean bro
forget him... talk to me bbg
why do you have such negative things to say in every single chat i see you in... grow up bro life is literally sunshine and rainbows
life is great, you just dont have the maturity or mental fortitude to see it that way. you take the easy way of trying to seem sad and make everyone feel bad for you and saying negative shit, but it just makes you look pathetic. take the time to work on yourself and actually try to make life enjoyable and it will be
its simple as that
no one will want to be your friend if you keep acting like a child
thats exactly my point, stop thinking like that and shit will get better
i post on here looking for people to play games with when my friends in real life are busy, i dont center my life around how people treat me in a discord server because the world keeps spinning and i dont think everything revolves around me. youre a pathetic negative bummer of a person and no one wants to be friends with you because of that. stop trying to put others down when they do something that you dont like, its childish
so edgy and deep bro
grow tf up and get a life
what an odd thing to say.
well i hope you dont cause one day youll realize that youve been holding yourself back for so long and flourish
thank you, thats improvement. i hope you can continue to improve your mental state and grow as a person
then clearly youre lying about your mental state and you dont even realize it. i really reccomend you go to therapy or find someone in your life that you can open up to. if you continue to live in this shadow of the real world, and never realize that if you dont connect with those around you and improve yourself, youll never get the chance to again, so live the life you dream to have. right now, youre being a negative piece of shit and its embarassing. im gonna stop responding after this message, so i hope you take what ive told you and apply it to your life. have a great day man, i really hope you get better soon.
Its not that im a bad friend i always reply when i can and sometimes when i reply fast he doesn't reply for hours too were doing the exact same thing plus everyone have lives and he also knows the reason why i cant be online 24/7
Might just do it
Just admit ur him behind that phone
Girl i think u know him too
girl💔🥹 ??
Nah u 100% know this shit
i emant i aint a girl
🥀
Wait
U aint a girl?
no
Wtf
Wait
So
Omfg
He was gay?
tf
Waitt
Huh??
Aren't u scared?
I thought
Wait i needa check ths ,ths is shocking news
read the name gng..u got dementia..its sacred
Nah
Ohh
Uhh cool name tho
Nah i mixed it up
Hes not gay
Im crin
And i feel like ligma is the gur im talking bout behind that screen
uhh dam..
Wait nahhh
It is u
Wait no ur the guy
Ohh i just realised
Fah
I actually have dementia atp
ligma why u talkin to others hb's💔
Huh?
Ikr. Sac is a she
She is a girl
Sac
Dont lie
Nah its a man
Omg
Just realised
Ths actually cray cray
Nah nah
why did u think that..💔
Its a girl
I know
She is my daughter
congratulations
In rp
Wait
O ur a girl
💔
Yeah
So that mean that girl was les?
Ofc
tuff
U go suck smth
Nahh this is crazy
Never in ma life have i thought id meet someone another person talked about
Huh?
u need sleep gng..what r u writing
💔
Agreed. U fucked her up bbg
If u know the things i know
Wht do u know 💀
What do you know
scarlet might be interested in that..
yea she is offc
Uk me so well bbg
Nah
I wont be able to sleep
Tell
We
Tell what you know
Fah ma English is not englishing
Doesn't matter
speak alien lang
We ll decipher
Just get to the point
Half of yall know him
Thats for sureee
The him tht blocked u?
Idk
Or the her we thiught was him?
Maybe
Who cares
Tf is happening
Who us him, dm me
Read the hot take
so at the end we all know now that
I aint a girl
It involves sm1 elses secret and shi so
🥹
Why u keep lying
It's just tell it
Ho ik u aint a girl
we know how to keep secrets...
Didn't matter
Sm1 told me
Fah
So the human is raven
Who sm1, who is spreading these lies
Raven mf
🫡
Ahhh
Im crin
🥀
Told u
U know him
Anyways
🥀
too much..
Too well..
I bet
I see
Anywyas
he told u that am a girl??
Thats not the point
Nope
He tried to do something to you ?
No
Thts wht u r worried abt lol
Wtf
Wait
Fkin gread the hottake
my identity was questioned gng🥹
so u r a girl?
Wait i realised
That mf
Nahh
I get it 
I am not able to
is this a ragebait
Es actually smart gng
Its working ig
Yeah
Skill issue
Dang so i might just share ss atp
He blocked u cuz u were busy
?
lezz goo
Do it
So he confessed to me like the 2nd night or 1st night we talked
And he said
Isnt ths sm1 elsei wont name the human
And hes like
Did u used to obsess over (scared or whatever his name is)
Didnt
And i was like
Ho who tf is (the girls name)
Mind yall
u understanding the situation..if yes then explain me after..cuz my brain is fried ngl
Mind u i rejected him the first time and then he told me he thought i was (the girl's name)
I m… i ll explain
Ho u just stupid or my typing is just really bad
dont worry am stupid..go on
Nah if he acts nonchalant as shi at first
Took one for the team 💔
Then he did a 360
Im crin
Flipped his whole personality
Liel dude
Like dude
Ah…
Then?
Let me confirm first
He thought u were someone wlse in 1 night of conversation. Thought that this some girl was obsessed over sacred or scared
?
Then he blocked me everywhere like even my cray cray ex did block me everywhere only discord and just unfriended me everything else
No
Out of nowhere?
Nooo he confessed i rejected he said he thought i was this girl lets call her rinx its not her tho , and then he tells me didn u obsessed over this guy with ss of scareds profile
Yep
Liek i got home
Started lookin at ma insta at 7 smth then found out he blocked me
Ooooo understood
💔
And then we kept talkin and i madde him in my hb list
And then
He was like
I know its u princess behind that screen go suck ur as
Ah, he was sure u were someone else
U got new hb u dont need me anymore typa shit
Nahh
Know sm1 when i see one
Ths just confirmed it ho
😝😝 tysm for bring one of the most obvious person
he aint him..if ur not talking sarcastically
Ths is so cringe
Fah
ofc u do..now shhhh
Nahh
This is cray cary
I need sleep
Wait, let me backtrack again. He was sure u was someone else and he kept talking like tht?
💔
He huet u bad huh
🫂
No he was chill at first yk like he kept saying chud and shu
Yeah thts him
I thought dang ths human is lowk nonchalant
himfs
Then boom 360 flip
Imma just type smth he said in his alst few msgs
Ok
I was shocked
Dm if u want to, ss or soemthing
If it is easier
Ur wish
U doing this right now
Aughhhhhh
Wtf bruh
U have new hb it fine i probably didn't mean anything to you i genuinely like speaking u bruhh why ignore me
o u answered but u ignoring my messages bruhh
Why u like this
Damnnnn u really ignoring 😔😞
user-profile-picture
No problem noted i won'r bother u anyway
I wasn't ignoring btw
Ig he kind of assumed u were someone else
No
And tht someone wlse replied to sacred
He knows its me
The first time we talked was like
In jude smth
Fah
June
Huh thts sad
Ma funger slipppedd typing jude bellingham outta muscle memory
Nah
so anways who's obsessed with me
Yall are actually tuff yall got aure u saved ma dignity
💔 😂
I was lowk gonna text ma ex i was 7 second to almost textin him
🥹
Yall saved me
Nooooo, text me instead ok
cant control the ladies gng
Raven is a chud
I agree ✌🏻
Anyways
Yes, sleep
Goodnight
and dont take online things seriously...
Night night
Nahh
Indont
Tvh i get over in in 2 days
Well
Except for my ex 😭😭
💔
Mind u we were together for 3 days max
Understandable…
And 2 days we ignored each other
fathaa
Butttttt
Its the time we spend frfr
Lets pick better next time bbg
i hope those 24 hours were great
Nah
I just want to confirm, was this ex irl or dc?
Dc so
My irl ex are shit
💔
Lets try not dating on dc….
Like idk even an online bf is more attentive then irl bf insee everyday
Like
Tuff luck
Ro
Vro we be texting all night the see 3ach other in school and act like we have never met
✌🏻
Im citizen? Omg dang
We need to pick better gng
Frfr tho
Bruh ma new school is shit
Still here
Anyways imma go (im not i just dont know waht to say)
Dangg citizen 32?
Bro
Its gonna be okay
❤️
U ll find better ppl
Im crin
Yall be joking then act serious
Im crin
34?
Cuz u r serious
what
Not really
Yes he is 34 yrs old
Ohhh
35
U want us to joke, we def can
Yesterday
Dont yall need sleep too
Its 1:16
I got achool is like 7 hrs
Nah, i dont sleep
Dang
Ma ex didn't sleep for 37hrs one time
I cant go a day without sleeping
Dc ex or irl ex
💔
Fahh
Y so invested
dc one didnt lasted for 24 hours
so def irl one
💔
Tf it happening man
Im crin
Wait
O actually
Ngot worst news
i got my wife pregnant yesterday yk
And my bday was yesterday too
What ir actually 35?
Yea
yea he is
I am 35
Wht news
And your
Congrats stranger
Dang
Congratulations
Thank you
Thank you
Im the stranger and i think its a stick
If you get it u get it
Hopefully it's not a boy
🥀
a trans?
Nah
🥀
labanese?
Its cure, so its a femboy
Sure
Nahh its better to have boys first then giel cus the boy can protect the girl
tru
Like 3 brother and 1 sister gacha vid type shii
Nahhh, older brothers are bad
I'll protect my daughter
Sus
Nahh u finna teach them to be gentleman
Frf4
Like how i teach my lil brothers to be gentlemena
Fah
Don't need another guy to protect her
Where r u from btw?
U r a good person ❤️
I knwoww
Thanks
How old are you???
Confidential
India wbu
Same grl
Twinnss
Yess
I'm from China
Dang
Forget raven. I m sure he assumed shit
Nice to meet you
Shush we dont care
Dang
Sadddd
I love tha gif
I wasn't thinkin bout him until u brought him up again
Bruh
Who caresssss
Hello
Its his loss
Arghh i m sorry
Yeah fk him
Like i can find better hb anytime
Yessss def
I m sure it was a misunderstanding tho
Dont tke it srsly gng
Bro tell me why he was clingyer than all my other exs like irl or online
Tho he was fun to talk to
Not clingy but the moment u dont reply its like why u ignoring me type shi
He is fun and good, and gets attached. Which is similar to u in a way…
Oh hes be mad if i left him on seen for 5 days like i did to another guy
Yess he is like tht
Nah
I cant judge people
The bible says judge not and u wont be judge or SMTH like that fah i by heart ths
Good way to live fs
Bruh just realised i didn't finish ma hw like i thought i finished ut
Im so dead
Id say night but I'm not going to bed anytime soon
Hey
Yeahhh
Yo
Makes sense
I just had one doubt
Why did u think sacred was a grl
Cus yall said she was a girl
Ahh
So its not scared but sacred?
Damn
ppl ponounce it scared..cuz L attention span to read thigns correctly
I thought u thought she was a girl
Idk
Maybe i m also reading bad
I thought she was a man
Then ok ok
Cus raven said shes a he
And he was the one raven thought u were obsessed wth
Ok ok
Yas
I like calling sac she
If ur talkin bout me then am a male
Wait im confused
🥹
Fahh
Moment of truth
Ysll making my brain smaller than it already is
it exists??🥹
Feeling is mutual gng
Frfr gng bro
Scarlet yo which state r u from
MP
You?
Mp as in Manipur?
Nah
yea brain doesnt exist
I told u ma brain's small
✌️
U need sleep
Oh
Madya pradesh?
Yeah
Whys everything pradesh
Pradesh = state
Btw
Ohhh
Never thought bout thst
Well im from mizoram
Okay
Dude
I think u should sleep
I cant no more
Ths is better than doom scrolling tiktok
Tho
Watching jude bellingham edits is kinda tempting
💔
I thought u had hw…
I do
But im in bed laying duen like a fat pig arent i
tell ur teacher this story..he wont say anythingg and will be dead by confusion
💔
Fah im never trying thst shitty rice face mask again
Truth bomb
Dont trust everything u see on internet
Rice face mask?
Nah u don't know ma teachers
Yeh saw sm diy shit cus mine ran out got pimple 6 minutes after washing
Atp i should just stick to normal skincare
Agreed
Dont trust internet
Frfrrrr
and that inclued dc too
Like i shouldn't eve be experimenting eith ma precious skin
Yes, and not make exes here…
Yea yea..
Haa right...
U want us to check with raven?
Like im deff not talking to 5 diff men everyday
Who cares its ur choice idc if he texts or not it was his choice to block me
Tht happens on dc. Women are less anyways
Nahh cus when i talk to girl they be sweet and shi then randomly ghost u
But aint tht with everyone 🥹
Tbh it made me feel how those poor kids felt when i ghosted them
So kinda worth it
Wht kids
I meann
The guys im talking to
Fahh
👾
Dudee im frfr gonna go to bed frfr
Like for reallllll this tim
I think
Yes
Go to bed
Gn
Night night
😭😭😭
Niggaa 😭
It not buddy
U don't have to diss me to make another person feel good it shows... nvm
What does hb mean
😂
It our loss
Really 🥹 aww let do a group where we find my replacement
🥹 the cutest
Home bro
Because 😭 i genuinely felt bad for being nonchalant with u for no reason when u wasn't the person omg
Thx chud ligmq
Btw this was long time ago btw she's not telling the timelines correctly mixing stuff to make it seem now
😭 boi why we lying u did the same thing we both did that bruh i would have shown the messages but Instagram deleted
Lmao 😭
