Friendship Etiquette: Dealing with Ghosting & Expectations

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snowyquartz-51 OP

so i have ths hb and like im not online for days cus of schoola dn when im online im not there for very long so i went to school at 7:45 and he texted me at 7:50 i wanst online too the whole morning and he blocked me everywhere like people have lives too

@snowyquartz-51 so i have ths hb and like im not online for days cus of schoola dn when im online im not there for…
olivemaple-25

don't listen to

@snowyquartz-51 so i have ths hb and like im not online for days cus of schoola dn when im online im not there for…
swiftorchid-87

slam him

olivemaple-25

u said they're a "bad friend"

olivemaple-25

how?

olivemaple-25

they have school, they can't just pick up the phone anytime

swiftorchid-87

erm actually she has a she/her tag 🤓☝️

olivemaple-25

if she's saying that she's not online for days, I'm sure she told the other person already

olivemaple-25

I'm sure the other person has other friends to talk to, they don't have to block her, that's a bit harsh

olivemaple-25

or they could've just unfriended

olivemaple-25

I only friend as many people as I can talk to

olivemaple-25

and I do reply to all of them

olivemaple-25

no dude

olivemaple-25

I always check eveyday

olivemaple-25

and if nobody's left anything, I move on with my day

olivemaple-25

so do you mean you always say good morning to your friends? I don't think so

olivemaple-25

all my friends are worth it

olivemaple-25

you need to find some worthy friends then

olivemaple-25

because you haven't found them yet

olivemaple-25

and I can see why

olivemaple-25

sure, believe what you want

vividcipher-93

Bro you forgot me ahh

vividcipher-93

I'm a good frnd

vividcipher-93

Bro give me a chance plzz

vividcipher-93

You can block me

vividcipher-93

Or whatever

vividcipher-93

Or ban me

vividcipher-93

Or

vividcipher-93

Idk

vividcipher-93

Bro

vividcipher-93

I'm not like that like I mean I'm not really that active here but still

vividcipher-93

Ahh I don't know what to say

vividcipher-93

Fk you

vividcipher-93

Oh that's mean bro

@snowyquartz-51 so i have ths hb and like im not online for days cus of schoola dn when im online im not there for…
hazelpanda-96

forget him... talk to me bbg

happyfrost-50

why do you have such negative things to say in every single chat i see you in... grow up bro life is literally sunshine and rainbows

happyfrost-50

life is great, you just dont have the maturity or mental fortitude to see it that way. you take the easy way of trying to seem sad and make everyone feel bad for you and saying negative shit, but it just makes you look pathetic. take the time to work on yourself and actually try to make life enjoyable and it will be

happyfrost-50

its simple as that

happyfrost-50

no one will want to be your friend if you keep acting like a child

happyfrost-50

thats exactly my point, stop thinking like that and shit will get better

happyfrost-50

i post on here looking for people to play games with when my friends in real life are busy, i dont center my life around how people treat me in a discord server because the world keeps spinning and i dont think everything revolves around me. youre a pathetic negative bummer of a person and no one wants to be friends with you because of that. stop trying to put others down when they do something that you dont like, its childish

happyfrost-50

so edgy and deep bro

happyfrost-50

grow tf up and get a life

happyfrost-50

what an odd thing to say.

happyfrost-50

well i hope you dont cause one day youll realize that youve been holding yourself back for so long and flourish

happyfrost-50

thank you, thats improvement. i hope you can continue to improve your mental state and grow as a person

happyfrost-50

then clearly youre lying about your mental state and you dont even realize it. i really reccomend you go to therapy or find someone in your life that you can open up to. if you continue to live in this shadow of the real world, and never realize that if you dont connect with those around you and improve yourself, youll never get the chance to again, so live the life you dream to have. right now, youre being a negative piece of shit and its embarassing. im gonna stop responding after this message, so i hope you take what ive told you and apply it to your life. have a great day man, i really hope you get better soon.

snowyquartz-51 OP

Its not that im a bad friend i always reply when i can and sometimes when i reply fast he doesn't reply for hours too were doing the exact same thing plus everyone have lives and he also knows the reason why i cant be online 24/7

@hazelpanda-96 forget him... talk to me bbg
snowyquartz-51 OP

Might just do it

snowyquartz-51 OP

Just admit ur him behind that phone

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