FriendZone Community Support: Helping a Friend in Need
Summary
FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime is reaching out to its community for support. This announcement highlights a member's request for help regarding a friend struggling with mental health. The community is encouraged to provide companionship and comfort to someone in need, emphasizing the importance of empathy and connection within our social gaming and chat environment.
Okay this is weird and I shouldn't be saying it here but I need help. I need people who can help my friend. They're really smart, kind, helpful and everything which is the best- but they're extremely su1cidal. Or were. It's not comforting knowing they think this way 24/7. I tried to help but I can't really. If you want to help, it would be good If you were 13-15 for him since he's in that age bracket. And don't text him just not to ki11 himself but just to be this comforting friend he needs and I can't be. He can be a little stubborn but I'm sure you can deal with it better than me. And also he has social anxiety and trust issues, so time is key.
Thank you and good luck.
Why cant you
Be there for him
The only thing u need to do is comfort him
And be there
Its enough
And knowing u carr
Get him to a hospital
Not doing anything about it and trying to get randoms of discord to help him is not gonna work
U have to tell someone
Otherwise he might actually do it
.
I really really try but I can't manage to be there every hour of the day and I'm clesrly not enoufg. He won't open up to me. I really don't know what I can do to prevent him from doing it. I'm all the way in another country. I'm just hoping someoke else can replace my role and be a better person towards him.
As If I can lift him up and take him to a hospital. Internationally you cannot do that.
that someome is...?
js be there for him, make him feel
life
If someone is suicidal u can absolutely have them hospitalised
Well ur a minor so first off his parents
As i would assume he also is a minor
U gotta find some way to contact some sort of authority to help him out
how??
I tried
What country does he live in
Or they
Uhh
I can't really say
They didn't want me to say
Ok so let me get this straight
You know what country they live in
And this person wants to kill themselves
I have better chances having a conversation with a rock
yeah
kinda
It's complicated
And u dont want to say where they live bevause they told u not to
I just need someone to be their supporter
Even though you m8ght be able to save their life if u say it
No what u need is to get them real help
Not from strangers on the internet
They'd kill me
literally
I
They are in a differwnt country
what if they talk to you?
Yeah but like
They also wont be able to do anything if they kill themselves
Are u fucking insane
Sorry! I told you idk what to do
Talk to them
seriously
I'll send their dm
Ur trying to stop the process of getting a sucidal person from gettinf help because ur afraid they might get mad at u
oh my days
Im telling you if u know what country they live in you have to do some research and report it to someone who can then try and get this person real help
What ur doing rn is trying to make urself feel better about not getting this person real and actual help
This is someones life we are talking about
i just read ur bio and im sorry ur a minor but u need to be brave and get them real help instead of messing around on discord
I understand but you can't force someone. You just can't. Therapy, talks, and everything else they had gone through. And I don't know. I don't want to be responsible. I can't do that
So you would rsther let him die than save his life
No of course not. I just have a feeling nothing can help him because he's too stubborn. But fine I'll try to get him to contact a helpline
But he also just needs a companion
How sucidal is he
Quite a bit. He attempted 9 times from what I heard
He needs to go to hospital
What u need to do is call a helpline in your country and u need to explain the situation to them
Hopefully they will be able to connect thru to somewhere in his country
And maybe there is a chance they can find and save him
What you are doung rn is silly and he needs real help
Ur a child comforting someone over discord
How old even is he
Okay I'll do that
Thank you
I'll keep in touch
Good luck
