Gen Z & Settling Down: Is 25 the New 30? | FriendZone

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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently held a lively discussion on the ideal age to settle down. Members explored the challenges Gen Z faces, including financial instability, high dating standards, and the desire for personal freedom. This thread highlights the diverse perspectives on modern relationships, maturity, and the pressures of adulthood in today's economy.

wildmartin-15

Yup in west, they now don't have brains lol

quickbadger-36

Some don't even know what they want :r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

Mama knows best :cuteblob:

@quickbadger-36 Some don't even know what they want
wildmartin-15

Most girls say that way- some things they absolutely want are comfortable, security, mystery and tension

@wildmartin-15 Most girls say that way- some things they absolutely want are comfortable, security, mystery and te…
quickbadger-36

Huh. Are they uncomfortable before they met me? How the hell am I security 😮‍💨. What happened to the people for those. Mystery and tension

quickbadger-36

That's some magician type shit

@quickbadger-36 Huh. Are they uncomfortable before they met me? How the hell am I security 😮‍💨. What happened to th…
wildmartin-15

Bro talking about the future- settling down.
Every girl wants a comfortable life, where they feel secure and loved.
There should be some mystery about you so she keeps wondering about you(though some girls don't like this).
There should be tension in relationship - ups and downs make the relationship stronger

@wildmartin-15 Bro talking about the future- settling down. Every girl wants a comfortable life, where they feel s…
quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

If I can get a comfortable life so can she

quickbadger-36

Then two comfortable people can live together

wildmartin-15

Yup lol.

quickbadger-36

Oh. Secure and loved

quickbadger-36

It all depends on what they think those things mean

@wildmartin-15 Bro talking about the future- settling down. Every girl wants a comfortable life, where they feel s…
quickbadger-36

Mystery :r_kermitcorner:

@quickbadger-36 It all depends on what they think those things mean
wildmartin-15

Yup true, it's all like freaking riddle of the century which is why I advised you not to get into this right now

@wildmartin-15 Yup true, it's all like freaking riddle of the century which is why I advised you not to get into t…
quickbadger-36

Yeah

quickbadger-36

Also I probably wouldn't settle down because of love or stuffs like that

quickbadger-36

:pepesad:

wildmartin-15

Hmm, your choice bro

quickbadger-36

For real

quickbadger-36

Love is overrated

wildmartin-15

Yup it is.

quickbadger-36

Don't sell me lies

@quickbadger-36 Love is overrated
wildmartin-15

It's 20% fun and 80% pain

quickbadger-36

That's how someone said once you get a car you would love them lol

quickbadger-36

Without talking about the responsibility and everything it takes to own one

wildmartin-15

They seek it because of pleasure my man, most want to go into it for ther desires

quickbadger-36

I never said it's not good

quickbadger-36

They seek it for different reasons

quickbadger-36

Some because they want to feel special to someone

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

@wildmartin-15 Can't really agree on that, the way things are changing so fast I'd say generational gap is hard to…
snowysilver-75

Yeah lwk looking at it ur right but it won't be as bad as it is now my parents think Mortal Kombat are demons 😭

quickbadger-36

You mean the type they show us in movies lol

quickbadger-36

Propaganda

quickbadger-36

Like what

wildmartin-15

You really think all the billions of people are in love??
Love is when you don't even feel the spark but still stay with each other.
It means to see the other person what they can become and encourage that.

quickbadger-36

Did me an example of an act of love

quickbadger-36

:pepetea:

quickbadger-36

My happiness makes me happy

@snowysilver-75 Yeah lwk looking at it ur right but it won't be as bad as it is now my parents think Mortal Kombat…
wildmartin-15

Lol, so true- my parents think skull is the Satan himself lol

wildmartin-15

Truth is-
Most people are not in love.
Right now in most of the relationships people come together for different reasons(for their own benifits mostly).
The love you speak about is rare but it is true love.
If love is so beautiful when why the divorce rates are so high(these people claimed they loved on another ).
People live in illusion of being in love (because of those feelings) but love is far deeper than that.

@wildmartin-15 Truth is- Most people are not in love. Right now in most of the relationships people come together…
quickbadger-36

For real :r_kermitcorner:

quickbadger-36

The only love that is valid

quickbadger-36

Is family

quickbadger-36

Would go any miles for those

quickbadger-36

Oh, my family is that type

wildmartin-15

How would you define love then my man??

@quickbadger-36 Oh, my family is that type
wildmartin-15

Good 4 u. Love your family

wildmartin-15

Yup nicely said!!
But what if it ain't mutual??

quickbadger-36

Why would I want my well-being to come second

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