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The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server recently hosted a lively community debate regarding gender dynamics and the complexities of asking for help. Members engaged in a spirited discussion about personal experiences, social expectations, and the nature of human interactions. This thread highlights the active and opinionated nature of our community, where members are encouraged to share their thoughts in a social gaming envir...

sunnyjester-27 OP

I have noticed that, these ppl can't help you without expecting anything in return. If they do something for you, they'll just make you feel as if you own them something in return

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's worrying to ask help to a man

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's worrying to ask help from a man 🙄

@sunnyjester-27 I have noticed that, these ppl can't help you without expecting anything in return. If they do some…
snowyorange-96

Depends on what man it is

@sunnyjester-27 I have noticed that, these ppl can't help you without expecting anything in return. If they do some…
pearlguitar-88

Why man ??

snowyorange-96

Both genders are awful

@pearlguitar-88 Why man ??
snowysilver-75

She thinks Women are Saints I guess

@snowysilver-75 She thinks Women are Saints I guess
pearlguitar-88

Apparently..

@snowyorange-96 Both genders are awful
pearlguitar-88

:ohno:

@pearlguitar-88 Apparently..
snowysilver-75

Oh no bro has a pipe he won't help 🥀

@snowysilver-75 Oh no bro has a pipe he won't help 🥀
pearlguitar-88

Lol

pearlguitar-88

I will

pearlguitar-88

Someday...

sharpdolphin-67

I have a question
Whats with you having to hate on men on every post you mention about men being so shit?

pearlguitar-88

Fr

pearlguitar-88

Why??

pearlguitar-88

Ma man charles asking a valid question why??

silverdragon-53

yeah now you owe me some 8 chicken nuggies now that ive responded

pearlguitar-88

Fr

grandquiver-69

This should be more common

grandquiver-69

Hate them all, no exceptions

@grandquiver-69 Hate them all, no exceptions
pearlguitar-88

Frrrr

pearlguitar-88

Yeah

pearlguitar-88

Look am srry if you had a problem with man lately but no not all man are bad or trying to manipulate you.....

pearlguitar-88

Ik but she thinks all man are bad and women are pure :pepetea:

grandquiver-69

There's no mention of women here

grandquiver-69

Anyways even being gay is a shit option, yes straight also

grandquiver-69

Yeah sure

@grandquiver-69 There's no mention of women here
pearlguitar-88

Ofc she wouldn't mention woman here...here actions clearly shows what she thinks of man and woman....

grandquiver-69

:girlstare:

pearlguitar-88

So like humanity is shit

pearlguitar-88

:pepetea:

pearlguitar-88

I see your point

@pearlguitar-88 So like humanity is shit
grandquiver-69

I agree with that statement

@grandquiver-69 I agree with that statement
pearlguitar-88

Yesh fuck em all

pearlguitar-88

Except for few

pearlguitar-88

Me included

pearlguitar-88

:tomsip:

@pearlguitar-88 Except for few
grandquiver-69

What a hypocrite

@grandquiver-69 What a hypocrite
pearlguitar-88

Ikr

pearlguitar-88

:tomsip:

pearlguitar-88

Am broke

pearlguitar-88

:pepetea:

pearlguitar-88

I don't want to

pearlguitar-88

:tomsip:

wildyellow-81

It’s the same for everyone not just men

@pearlguitar-88 Why man ??
sunnyjester-27 OP

Why not? If you want to talk about women you're free, it's something I've experienced that's why I'm talking about

@sharpdolphin-67 I have a question Whats with you having to hate on men on every post you mention about men being so…
sunnyjester-27 OP

I don't understand you ppl so if I noticed something bad that I man did and talked about it, directly I become a man hater. That's so stupid

sunnyjester-27 OP

Tell me where's the hate here or you just want to always play the victims

@pearlguitar-88 Ofc she wouldn't mention woman here...here actions clearly shows what she thinks of man and woman..…
sunnyjester-27 OP

So if an example I man slap a woman on the street and that woman decides to talk about it without mentioning that women also slap men, for you she's a man hater. She should have mentioned women. It's because of this mentally many ppl stay silent when getting bullied or abused because you guys will always blame or switch her words

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's so sad to think like that

@sunnyjester-27 I have noticed that, these ppl can't help you without expecting anything in return. If they do some…
hazelpanda-96

I have rexeived good help, non transactional, from men. I dont think generalisation makes sense here

@hazelpanda-96 I have rexeived good help, non transactional, from men. I dont think generalisation makes sense here
sunnyjester-27 OP

Good you had a good experience

@sunnyjester-27 Why not? If you want to talk about women you're free, it's something I've experienced that's why I'…
pearlguitar-88

What you experienced was wrong no one said it's worrying to ask man for help ask them there humans just like you nothing wrong with asking man for help...

@sunnyjester-27 I don't understand you ppl so if I noticed something bad that I man did and talked about it, direct…
sharpdolphin-67

You people?
I mean lots of the post I’ve seen from you we’re against “men” over stuff you claim to be true
Like do you have a skill issue of men in general or you just despise men overall? Because clearly from your experiences that im gonna assume here
You didnt really find that right significant other lol so i guess you put all your frustrations talking about “men” on hot takes

@sunnyjester-27 So if an example I man slap a woman on the street and that woman decides to talk about it without m…
pearlguitar-88

Wdym by "all" your judging all man with a story from your thinking ???

pearlguitar-88

And wdym by you guys

pearlguitar-88

??

pearlguitar-88

Acting like some woman won't do the same if anything woman are more manipulative towards emotions bc they know how a man feels....

pearlguitar-88

Don't make a story and judge all man by it

@sunnyjester-27 I don't understand you ppl so if I noticed something bad that I man did and talked about it, direct…
pearlguitar-88

No we don't have a problem with your opinion we have a problem is saying asking man for help is worrying WHY?? Bc we are less to you ?? No ask help for a man he's a human too and humans have good ppl and bad ppl same with women...

@sharpdolphin-67 You people? I mean lots of the post I’ve seen from you we’re against “men” over stuff you claim to…
sunnyjester-27 OP

That's how you are always playing the victim here, I made this doesn't mean I hate men or something and tell me which post I made hating on men.

@pearlguitar-88 No we don't have a problem with your opinion we have a problem is saying asking man for help is wor…
sunnyjester-27 OP

What was the point of you bringing women here or saying I hate me bro

@pearlguitar-88 Acting like some woman won't do the same if anything woman are more manipulative towards emotions b…
sunnyjester-27 OP

I never said women won't do the same, my post wasn't about that... This is so stupid to think like this post was meant to praise women and hate men. I made this because it's something that I've experienced and it's frustrated me that's one. Bro I have a, father, brother and a boyfriend and I know how important men are in my life or in this world but doesn't, mean I shouldn't talk when they do something wrong

@sharpdolphin-67 You people? I mean lots of the post I’ve seen from you we’re against “men” over stuff you claim to…
sunnyjester-27 OP

You're the one turning this take into hate stuff

@sunnyjester-27 I never said women won't do the same, my post wasn't about that... This is so stupid to think like…
pearlguitar-88

Oh if it's something you experienced try saying some man next time not saying "it's worrying to ask man for help" why??

@pearlguitar-88 Oh if it's something you experienced try saying some man next time not saying "it's worrying to ask…
sunnyjester-27 OP

And tried to not play the victims next time and not turn every complain/ everything into hate

sunnyjester-27 OP

It's because stuff like this many women stay silent when they're getting abused because if they talk, they become men haters

sharpdolphin-67

Holy projection 🙄

sunnyjester-27 OP

You're right I'm not Israel

@sunnyjester-27 And tried to not play the victims next time and not turn every complain/ everything into hate
pearlguitar-88

I will be playing victim you said it's worrying to ask man for help...

@sunnyjester-27 It's because stuff like this many women stay silent when they're getting abused because if they tal…
pearlguitar-88

No bc you said "man" meaning all man and no not all man abuses there wife's were humans yk....

@sunnyjester-27 I have noticed that, these ppl can't help you without expecting anything in return. If they do some…
crisppixel-18

Generalisation of either side is foolish. Yours is a generalisation. What do 'these ppl' and 'they' refer to here ?
What's interesting, is that if an equivalent statement was made upon ethnic terms, it would probably not have stayed up.

crisppixel-18

I guess that doesn't matter, some people are without a doubt like that, may they be of either gender. Selfless help is uncommon today and largely reserved for close ones.
But if you refer to 'man' as in humanity, the statement is largely correct.

@sunnyjester-27 It's because stuff like this many women stay silent when they're getting abused because if they tal…
snowysilver-75

No collaration there is difference between being abused and men hate and we can see which side of the spectrum u are it's ridiculous

sharpdolphin-67

In context
Im talking about how she’s always shifting the blame towards men based on the past and current posts she has regarding of men in general
Like i said
Its just a skill issue to her atp

snowyorange-96

Yes woman can talk about stuff but if you talk about men all the time it feels like you target them which makes people feel like you are a man hater bc of it

snowyorange-96

Its always topics to talk about

snowyorange-96

And women are not as innocent either

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