Hot Takes: Do Material Things Matter in Relationships?
Summary
The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime server recently hosted a heated debate regarding the role of material possessions in relationships. Community members exchanged conflicting views on whether luxury items like mansions and cars are reasonable expectations or if love should remain independent of wealth. This engaging discussion highlights the diverse perspectives found within our active social community.
A land or a private jet and more 
Am I tripping ?
Or did I forget what buys those things you listed
It's not cash
Well, without cash those things don't exist
Exactly like we’re not asking for a lot we just want a Kelly 25 with gold hardware
It’s the little things
everyday I see reasons on why I should stay single
I agree
Just take a look at yourself and make a change
I always look at myself, there's nothing to change
But he's not giving cash but material👠💍👜
Fr just small things
a small land
Yeah just a mansion , ridiculously big wardrobe and a car collection pls 🙁
Why are material things the things that please you 💀
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The same reason they please you
Material things don't please me as much as love does
material things don't also please me. Maybe a bunch of ladies might
Who is this❓
Who is this❓
I'm saying a relationship shouldn't rely on possessions
If you want stuff so bad, you can just buy it yourself
I'm not your personal atm
Take it how you want, I wasn't even talking to you bruh ✌️😭
It's just a small thing
I'm not asking for a thousand ladies or cash. Maybe 50 would do
You pinged ME right here bruh
Oh please if I offered you a 67 Million USD mansion in exchange of you breaking up with your girl/boyfriend, I you would.
Nope. Maybe you, but I don't need money
- # 67?
Just take the loss and get out dude
In this economy? You’re so caping
Anyone with sense would
You’ll get over the break up
Capping, I think you meant
You’re literally a millionaire now
Ok mister dictionary
This is hot takes. Debating
Wow I'm smarter than you what an insult
You’re not so smart if you think so 😭
Likeeeee??? Idk why Chopper thinks the way he does
You said Mr dictionary not me
And how’s that a problem
You took it as an insult , you’re sensitive.
I never said it was, it's a compliment. If you think being able to actually be coherent is an insult I don't even know what to say 🥀
So you're 5
Now I see why you don't make any sense
Stay away from the keyboard lil bro 😭
Yeah
You
This is why I left hot takes, because everyone either actually has an opinion, a newgen, or just a dumbass
Do you even read you own texts. I’ll cite it then : Wow I'm smarter than you what an insult
And you’re none of those ? 🤔 ego huh
Have you ever heard of sarcasm
No I just think you fit into one of these categories
No teach me Mr dictionary !!!
You’re so tuff
So if we're just going to resort to dumbassery I'll just go
Bye bye
Um so
True not all want money
Guys, why beefing and skipping the hot-take.
girls want this from men?
Question for girls. What are you offering in return.
Exactly
If you’re mine I’ll give you allat
I respect you
That's even better
What do you want?
A healthy engagement of people & thoughts.
Yh,tho I prefer getting it myself
Then my man gets more for me....
Get your own man
And don't be here being all jealous
Aren't you "femboy"
Material things please everyone
Everything has proportion
Who am I to go for love without money....
Same way I won't go for only money without love
Going for both is great.....
You guys would eat love when you are hungry right....?
Use love for paying vacation trip...?
Use love to secure assets for your kids right....?
What did you mum offer....?
Not in an insult way to her.....
If you know what she did offer then that's what we would offer in return
Whatever you think I am yapping about...
Alpha "femboy"
Yh
You right...?
Alpha (Omega)
Taken a note!!!
As long as it's not cash, I don't see that as money
Good girl 
That's easy, there are a lot of events organised by women you can participate too
highkey pressed because got cooked and no counters."
Clocking, standing on business. Will handle
I'll eat with my love
Spend that time with my love
I will only have kids if my love is there with me, taking care of them too
It's depend on me how's having those stuff
I don't know about any of you but my love is the reason I stay alive. If he's not there then what's the point of continuing any of this?
Lol I didn't know what else to tell you, you said you wanted ppl so it's one of the places you can find
Lover boy that's nice
Sweet love
Thank you, I can't see it any other way
Yo, when I asked what girls even bring to the table for millions, you hit me with the 'wHat dO yOu wAnT?' nonsense. I was tryna show you that relationships ain't just a one-way street for the girls—it's gotta be mutual. It’s a two-way grind, period.
But since you clearly don't get the vibe, you’re just out here talkin' in circles and tryna gaslight me like I’m the problem. You really proved you’re just a straight-up clown
No fight, no drama you ask why we bring and I ask what you want? Am I wrong here?
She just wants to know what you want. It doesn't have to be what she brings to the table. Let's say she wants a car, you can also want one or something like that
Ik how relationship work and my hot take is about ppl who said women want just money, it's not what men oe women bring to the table
I want a cruise
a starlink sattelite
Round trip of mars
NASA's Probes.
Simple, I never said men shouldn't ask or get something, I can’t be dressing rich while my nan dress like he doesn’t have anything to wear
No beef.
we cool?
Your gf will get you that
Yep
lol
He is just worried that what the ladies may need would never be on the same equation as the guy
A lady may want a car or something like that. A guy just wants a new gaming console I guess
Maybe if both sides can do the needs of both sides, would feel like a balance
Depend on relationship and income
Dw I'll buy him one
I guess so. I most times don't ask for what I can't offer either
Another chapter to a story. we can write an entire volume of this.
Rule number 1
Yeah, Nd sometimes even if I could help, I don't do it because I don't want to put the idea of I will always be there for that person in that way
Not only in relationship even in friendship
That's why you see ppl complaining I plan a big for my friend but I just got happy birthday wish in return
Yeah. Something like that happened one time for me. So a girl we do talk on like a daily basis, Nd she asked for something. I could help her with what she needed but I didn't. And another guy, we do talk once in a while but when he complained about needing similar something,I just did it without him asking me
Oh. Expectations 
Ok
Yh
Go to the grocery store to buy stuffs with love
Go to the airport to get a ticket with love
When hungry cook and eat love
Great....
As much as love is necessary material things are also necessary for me...
I won't decide for others tho...
Lol ur on life support
Didn't you see I clarified everything? I said I would do these things not only for myself but for the person I love as well.
