How Do You Love Someone? Deep Conversations at FriendZone
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FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC is a vibrant community where members engage in meaningful discussions. This announcement highlights a recent deep-dive conversation regarding the nature of love, the complexities of online relationships, and the philosophy of sacrifice. It showcases the server's commitment to providing a space for members to vent, share personal perspectives, and connect on a deeper level beyond casual small talk.
Open to talk on topics like "love" and "relationships"
Hmm
I've always had a shit time with them
One of my few online friends confessed to me
Like falling for the closure, companionship, understanding between people blah blah blah
Ohh damn
It went wrong?
No
Its fine I just know
Ohh i see 😭
How to proceed
Ahan
I'll see you later 😭 I'm getting late for school
Im not sure what you think you could get online that isnt already mostly just common knowledge. If you like your friend back you accept and if you arent interested then you kindly decline, no need in making things awkward between the two.
Dude I'm not asking for advice just talking, venting
You just said. and I quote; "How to proceed", if that isnt asking for advice I don't know what is. Either way, if that truly is the case, you don't need to take my advice to heart. Just leave it be.
Where do you school
"How do you love someone" or "how do you know if you love someone"
Though I believe love is merely a concept…an ideal one.
Perhaps it doesn’t truly exist in this plane of existence, except perhaps in rare moments. Many feelings and emotions have been attributed to love, yet I wonder how many of them truly are.
To me, love is sacrifice.
It begins with the smallest things like sacrificing your pride, your self-importance, your sense of worth, even your comfort. Then it extends to greater things… your time, your desires, your ambitions, and, perhaps, even your life.
It is not merely that you feel deeply for someone. It is the certainty that, you could sacrifice all of those things for them.
That willingness to give of yourself, without measuring what remains for you…that, to me, is love.
Ohh I'm in last year of high school ( 12th standard) I'm from india 🥀
I really really agree with you deep inside that's what I believe love is and love is sacrifice
I really think we should love someone on basis of how the other person wants to be loved and for the second question this guy AK47 explained it really nicely if u can sacrifice for someone just know u love them
Love is taking efforts
Easy be like my mum
Maybe without any intentions
Yeah
Love isn't always romantic
Some of the best love that one can get isn't any bit romantic
Hmm
Well, using family as a good example
I said nothing
I understand what you meant
"Hmm" says alot
Well…
Well well well
Yeah
You wanna talk on this topic though?
“Hmm” was just me thinking about what you said
I already gave my opinion…
I don't really think there is a one true way of loving someone
This
For me I can love you and still be as nonchalant as possible
Does it always have to be sacrifice
Your actions would probably show if it’s love or not
So if I ain't sacrificing. I ain't loving?
Well, my actions and feelings can differ
For me, yeah…
If I love someone, I would be willing to sacrifice anything and everything if it got to that point
It’s “If”
Well. Too bad,I ain't Christ
Too bad, I ain’t him either
I also love myself enough to think about myself before giving into a love that I have to sacrifice something
Hmm
So, how would you love him?
Only in your mind?
Maybe
It's not a something that can easily be simplified
Things like time is quite a sacrifice, don’t you think?
Yeah, I do agree on this
Time, attention,etc
Anything you can lose
Hmm
I guess, you don’t always have to show it…
Love is love
I agree
Yeah
Yeah.., people display it in a different way. I do find it cringe to even say something like I love you
Me spending my time and attention says alot
But I guess people can't read minds and still need those words
Yeah
Words don’t matter to me…
Really?
I can't be so sure
I still do not know the reason…
Maybe for some false sense of security?
No.. because that's how we humans communicate
Yeah…
So if the person who like says they love you. I guess that wouldn't matter
I guess…
But those 3 words “I love you”
What does it give to you?
It passes a message. It's a communication of feeling
Well… their words won’t be needed to prove they love me…I guess
Hmm... Works differently for everyone then
I guess, it’s true…
Yeah, I just believe that you don’t need to do anything to prove it to me…
If I do love you, I do love you..
But if she needs those words, I guess, I would say it
Hmm... Sounds a bit one sided
People have to prove things
Soka
Again, you are right
Through their actions
And not everyone sees this actions as an act of love
Someone can be kind to me and still not be an act of love
We aren’t fighting
It's Discord
Yeah, I’ve seen this… a lot
Literally
So. The words are just as important as the actions
You think so?
Can’t someone say those words with no actual meaning behind them?
Basically, a lie… I mean
Of course lol. That's like what happens some of the times
And actions can also be a lie
So I can do some acts of love to bait someone if I want to
Wouldn't be so hard
So, you would choose to believe those lies because of love…
Thus, love being called blind
Well, I wouldn’t be surprised…
It’s you, Afterall
Not really, how would I choose something that I know is not true
Well if I don't know that's a lie. I guess that's fine
Yeah. It's me once again
Words can be lies
Actions can even be greater ones
Some people deceive themselves a lot…
They would choose to believe in a lie because they are in love…
They are scared of the truth…
Thus, the truth being said to be bitter
Yeah, always you
Anything could be lies…
Hmm. That sucks for them, I hope they get a Disney ending
Also anyone can be a lier
But we can't be that paranoid
Man's got to live a life
I don’t know…
A life free from such entanglement and burden
Yeah. We don't know
That's like a fairytale
Life isn't that gentle to everyone
Yeah, we don’t
For now
Well… life doesn’t play romance novels with some people
I don’t think I would be interested in knowing such things…
Come to think of it… it’s possible
It’s just that the human mind can be funny at times
Some of us like to live in made believe fantasy
Well. For now you might not be
I guess, they do…
It has always been funny
Hmm
Sh*t!
It’s 11am and I am meant to be in school, Beatrice!!!!!
I guess this is where I say goodbye then
Although me currently on holiday so I got all the time in the world
I guess…
Till fate aligns our path
I’ve got exams next week…till Mid October, I guess
Maybe not. I wouldn't be going by the name Beatrice the next time we meet
Oh. I hope you Ace it
Hmm
I just have to find you, then…
Or the 3 sister might decide to offer their help
I just want to get past the semester…
Lol. The 3 sisters always twist whatever they say
College?
University, I guess
I see
We shall see…
Same as me then
How old are you, Beatrice?
You know what?
I don’t think I would have to find you…
“We shall meet again at Christmas”
Your words, not mine
Hmm. That's a rather direct question
I'm an adult
Well… I knew that, but it works
It's easy to spot me . Not many people use skull bones as their effect on their profile
I guess
Oh . You want a specific answer ?
If you’re okay with it…
I'm 21 for now
“When sh*t hits the fan”
You’re older
I am quite unlucky when it comes to that particular age 😂
Sorry if I didn't get that
Yeah. I was born early
How so?
You don’t have to get it, please…
Yeah, and I, late
I would have love to acquire the knowledge of what it meant. But it's fine I guess
Well… we shall certainly meet again
You can change the name… just don’t touch the username
That’s not what I meant… I wasn’t trying to be rude or something
Oh. I don't have the energy for username change, only my display and pic
It’s just something I remembered from a song…
It actually means when something goes wrong
I get it
Good…
I shall find you, then
Oh. Right, alot happened this year and last when I turned 21
But that's life I guess
Good luck
Yeah, life
Stay safe, then.
Ciao!
Cya
B-Y-E
