How to Get Over a Crush: Advice from FriendZone Community
Summary
In this discussion on FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC, members share honest advice on how to process feelings after a romantic rejection. The conversation explores the challenges of maintaining friendships after unrequited love and offers community perspectives on healing and moving forward. It highlights the supportive, real-talk nature of the server where members can seek guidance on personal struggles in a social environment.
There was this girl who I spent a lot of time with. She was funny, pretty and very nice to me. And i fell for her. I told her that i liked her and i wanted to be more than friends, but she said that she just wasn’t interested in a relationship right now.
And I withdrew, and stopped being friends with her, because I would get upset everytime I was around her. I know, that’s stupid of me, but it is what it is.
How do I move on?
maybe spend idk, a week trying to move on and doing other shit instead of obsessing over her?
jfc, just take yo time.
my god, all these people too impatient.
nigga really trynna get us to look at his hurt feelings and diagnose how long and how it will heal.
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not sure what to say, getting mad at someone for rejecting you is the root of your problems, you are allowed to feel a certain way but the moment you let that reflect on your relationship with her you messed up. Atp js know that it isnt goint to work
he just asked how to move on not uncommon
'upset everytime I was around her' doesn't exactly mean he's angry because she rejected him, upset is an umbrella.
he's still nursing feelings so of course he'd feel sad/dejected being around her after the rejection.
letting that affect the relationship they had regardless of what he mean is still the root of the problem
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Huh??
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if you harbour feelings towards someone whether good or bad you'll have troublemoving on?
gimme a sec, I seriously disagree with that statement but I'm on some new anti-depressants that are making me fried asf so it's taking me a min to formulate my counter-statement.
ohhhh you meant it in that way??
Well, I guess I also disagree with that statement.
Should I just ask another girl out atp
bahaha seems you agreed in the end tho
FUCK NO.
but like.
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oh hol on.
bro
what do u mean by harbour feelings.
bsfr
but like, it's yo life, do whatchu want gangy.
i mean it in the way the word is used
Well, I meant as in what kind of feelings, since you said good and bad, I assume you meant any and all feelings?
I meant to generalise it so that i do not refer to it as anger like i did last time
bsfr
Ikr
Imma do that today
What’s the worst that can happen
toxic co-dependency that makes you feel like you're dying and surviving at the same time.
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and mistaking it for love because you don't know what love is.
Shiiii
Didn’t think that far
