How to Make Friends Online: Tips for Social Anxiety
Summary
This community discussion on FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime explores the challenges of building friendships as an adult. Members share personal experiences with social anxiety and offer advice on finding common ground through shared hobbies and voice chat. The thread highlights the importance of finding authentic connections over simply trying to fit in, fostering a supportive environment for new members.
Okay so I’m 20 f and I don’t really have any female friends because I moved a while ago. I can’t help but think that the older u get as a female, the more difficult it is to actually make friends and fit in.🥲
Tbh, its hard to make friends online because theres too many bots, but then you can make friends IRL too but some people have anxiety including myself so It 50/50 here
Can I DM?
well i can help
if u want
i’d say maybe vc
vc helps
Hey sup
Here for you
Hi interested in DM?
Hi interested in dm?
VC i can do that for sure but like idk i cant be asked to
just a thought, would it be easier to connect with people if you have a purpose? like if you wanna learn drawing/painting or dance.. and join some groups.. it could force a common ground and start conversations..
yes, i agree.. im new here.. but beginning to get the feel of bots around here
hot takes actually got me to make more friends than actually making friends on find friends and chatrooms lol
We can be friends
It is not about fitting in
Its about finding the right friends
Who value you for you
Aw I would love that👏☺️ I’ll send u a dm:)
Thank you so much👏☺️ I honestly didn’t realise many comments this thread got😭
You have a very good point 👏 Iv kinda been neglecting thinking about that even tho I should 🥹
True the only real friends ( no mask ) ul find is in school, but having less friends is also good
its actually very easy, so you must be the problem
the irony of you talking about who's the problem is wild
where your friends at buddy
uhh
i ment like here
ofcccc :3
all depends on the girl I think a lot of girls are really different
and so they, I know it’s kind of hard to explain, but if a girl doesn’t like another girl, she won’t show it
or she will, and you would just just have to deal with the toxicity, but most girls don’t show that they don’t like that girl they just gossip about her
yeah, cause that’s the only thing they really know how to do without hurting your feelings or like they don’t wanna say it to you, but they will let other people know
So real
yessss
I think boys are different. They genuinely don’t really care and if they do, they’re either one really insecure singers for girls or two they think you’re ugly which I’ve I’ve dealt with before or three you did something wrong to offend them but there wouldn’t just be a reason that they would hate you.
like especially for girls they would hate you cause they’re jealous of you like genuinely. That’s the only reason why girls hate they might think you’re ugly but girl if you’re gonna hate them by other girls that’s cause you’re that pretty.
It's not difficult
so to not offend another woman, women talk shit about them on their backs.
smart
I guess i gotta talk shi behind their backs
pretty much
like cause we don’t wanna say it to them obviously, who does
i do
I mean, I feel like anyone would do that but boys are just too dumb to do that. They would genuinely say it to their friend or they’d say it to you like straight up.
Do u agree that if a person cant make new friends that means theres something wrong with the person itself?
🐴
ik
yeah
Ur the goat man
Boys are boys
Let em be boys
yes
Ah yes, the classic I have no comeback so I'll make it personal move..nice
so, i was right?
Ah whatever helps you sleep at night, buddy
W me
Keep saying that cuz deep down you know no one else will
i dont need anyone else to say it
Whatever you say, champ
🐴
U can lie bro
Its okay
Just lie
Are u gey bro?
Yo I like how you say things 👍 Idk you smart cat 👍
I wasn’t talking to you, but thanks for the input nobody asked for
If that’s all you’ve got then okay I guess
wow, what a attitude, i bet it makes people want to stay away
Fr i bet he was raised by 2 trans Karens
Chill bruh chill 😂😂
That’s ironic coming from you
yeah, and hypocritical coming from you
Bros twisting balls rn ngl
You’re free to think that... I’m not going in circles.
Ah can you plz shut up no one's talking to you
im free to be right
Shut up noob
Gay ahh
You can say it however you want, it still doesn’t become true
you still replying
Some ppl are so easily rage baitable
🤮
So are u gay or not bc u dont deny it bro
I’m replying because you’re still replying too. If you stopped replying, I would stop as well and from the way you’re replying so fast, it feels like you don’t have anyone else to talk to
i have free time
idk why some people purposely reply slow, seems performative
I do reply fast, but not to everyone and not everything is performative
it is
🗣️
Okay kiddo
You’re still stuck on that? Move on
Dam a reply so big tht im too lazy to read
100% gay
Yeah, I can tell..you must be lazy at school too, which is probably why you lack basic manners
No i just tend to not read bs
Especially bs that's coming from gays mouth
You’re proving my point about basic manners
Are u a gril?
You’re really running out of things to say
What do you want me to do ? Write essays ? Mad lil boy
I hope ur not a guy because the way u give a f about what everyone says online is beyond crazy to me
Nah not essays it's just you’re repeating the same pattern insult, avoid, repeat... So yeah
Exactly and how about u give 0 fks about it?
Noice brawl
Keep up the good work gang 💪
This is a hot take. What else do you want me to do?
Plus, I only talk when necessary, not like you, who calls everyone that mid-conversation
It doesnt matter what it is
Just stop crying
And enjoy life gay
Bro don’t use sexuality as an insult. It just makes you look ignorant
You’re so right- it’s all so complicated to understand. It’s a shame it’s not more straightforward:/
Shut up gay
Did a brick fall on you?
Ur fat ass fell on me
Brose been crying whole day
Lmfaooo so u were just born like a spazz?
Yup, anxiety is definitely one of the biggest culprits unfortunately:/
Don’t think it’s jus female I’m male and struggling to make friends, it’s sadly just hard over 18
I’m sorry to hear:/ it feels like you have to stay friends with people from school or that’s it. Your very lucky if you make friends at a job or something aha
Yep
My only 2-3 friends are back from school days
But it feels like we’re growing more and more apart
Bro, talk like a human and grow up..
Who are u to tell.me how i should talk xd?
Gay
Your gf
Oh sorry you don't have one
Assumptions?
Hmm
No way peace entered the chat
make peace bro
Yeah plz shut him up
I'm afraid I can not do that.
If u cant save us then noone will
frrr
Yeah im down to be friends if u want
Looking for good vibes, great chats, and someone who knows how to keep things interesting. DM me.
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