How to Stop Thinking of Him: Advice from FriendZone

Summary

In this community discussion at FriendZone | Make Friends & Chat ⋅ Active Social Fun ⋅ Chill ⋅ VC, members share heartfelt advice on how to move on from unrequited feelings and mixed signals. The conversation covers various coping strategies, from the benefits of physical activity to the importance of self-reflection and emotional acceptance. It highlights the supportive nature of our server, where members help each other navigate the complexities of modern dating and personal growth.

rustyshadow-44 OP

cuz ik he's never gonna be minee HELPPP CHATT

zestystream-98

Wow 😭

zestystream-98

Uhm

zestystream-98

:tomsip:

happycopper-20

just dont

happycopper-20

i dunno have some rebound i think?

sharpdolphin-67

Bro fr obsessed

@rustyshadow-44 cuz ik he's never gonna be minee HELPPP CHATT
snowyorange-96

Well well well

snowyorange-96

Force ur self

snowyorange-96

To be unattached

snowyorange-96

Is one way

@sharpdolphin-67 Bro fr obsessed
zestystream-98

Guess his favourite word ✌️

snowyorange-96

What

wildriver-72

Do yoga

@zestystream-98 Guess his favourite word ✌️
sharpdolphin-67

wHAT IS IT

@wildriver-72 Do yoga
happyorange-74

Does yoga actually help people tho 😭

happyorange-74

Like not even in an offensive way, I personally don't see how it helps 😭

happyorange-74

It just makes my body hurt

@sharpdolphin-67 wHAT IS IT
happyorange-74

🫩

happyorange-74

Bro

@happyorange-74 It just makes my body hurt
wildriver-72

You'll get flexible and less prone to injuries soo

wildriver-72

Yess

wildriver-72

In long term + happy mood by natural dopamine

@wildriver-72 You'll get flexible and less prone to injuries soo
happyorange-74

How will that make her move on tho 😭

@wildriver-72 In long term + happy mood by natural dopamine
happyorange-74

Oh

happyorange-74

Hmmmm

wildriver-72

Yaya I mean just go on a run prolly

wildriver-72

Blast every bad feeling you have

wildriver-72

Abuse him like anything

wildriver-72

Personally helped me so yea

snowyorange-96

Yoga dosent help with losing feelings

@snowyorange-96 Yoga dosent help with losing feelings
happyorange-74

Its subjective

@snowyorange-96 Yoga dosent help with losing feelings
wildriver-72

Distraction will

snowyorange-96

👁️👄👁️

wildriver-72

You have to distract to detach

wildriver-72

Yoga was js random 😭😭

@wildriver-72 You have to distract to detach
happyorange-74

Nah lowk for me thats unhealthy because youre not rlly addressing your true feelings and idk

wildriver-72

Just keep yourself busy that's it

happyorange-74

Maybe you should learn how to accept that he isn't really for u

happyorange-74

And build from that

@happyorange-74 Nah lowk for me thats unhealthy because youre not rlly addressing your true feelings and idk
wildriver-72

But what if the other doesn't care about it? You'll end up hurting yourself

@happyorange-74 Maybe you should learn how to accept that he isn't really for u
snowyorange-96

Yesyes that too

@wildriver-72 But what if the other doesn't care about it? You'll end up hurting yourself
happyorange-74

Wdym 💔

@wildriver-72 But what if the other doesn't care about it? You'll end up hurting yourself
happyorange-74

Where r u getting this from? 😭

snowyorange-96

👁️👁️

@happyorange-74 Where r u getting this from? 😭
wildriver-72

I mean you said it's unhealthy not to address true feelings but the feelings are js building up and rotting your own brain

happyorange-74

I didnt mean address your feelings to the other person, I meant address your feelings to yourself instead of hiding it

snowyorange-96

It takes a long while

@happyorange-74 I didnt mean address your feelings to the other person, I meant address your feelings to yourself i…
wildriver-72

Yeaa we had a misunderstanding mb

@happyorange-74 Like not even in an offensive way, I personally don't see how it helps 😭
happycopper-20

for healthy lifestyle, yeah. It actually helps your muscles be toned and flexible

happycopper-20

just straight up hate him if you wanna move on. Nothing works more than hatred

wildriver-72

How Can u hate your closest one lol

@rustyshadow-44 cuz ik he's never gonna be minee HELPPP CHATT
sunnyjester-27

Find something you don't like in him and focus on that thing. If he has a gf one more reason to dislike hjm

snowyjungle-82

Tell me about him so I can help you think of him too

@snowyjungle-82 Tell me about him so I can help you think of him too
rustyshadow-44 OP

wdymmm i want to forget him but he keeps on giving mix signal like broo u r never gonna be mine why u do ts:y_shook:

@sunnyjester-27 Find something you don't like in him and focus on that thing. If he has a gf one more reason to dis…
rustyshadow-44 OP

:catcry:

@rustyshadow-44 wdymmm i want to forget him but he keeps on giving mix signal like broo u r never gonna be mine why…
snowyjungle-82

Then fking forget about him.. ,
There are two advice I can offer
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Forget about him or kidnap him then make him accept
The second is the most efficient but has higher risk
So Choose one...:kyliesip:

@snowyjungle-82 Then fking forget about him.. , There are two advice I can offer . . Forget about him or kidnap him…
wildriver-72

She js asked how to forget him bro😭

@sunnyjester-27 Find something you don't like in him and focus on that thing. If he has a gf one more reason to dis…
silvergarden-37

W

@wildriver-72 She js asked how to forget him bro😭
snowyjungle-82

If she doesn't decide to forget about him who would decide that for her
Or should she hate him because she like him and he doesn't reciprocate....?
Your reply is irrelevant....

@wildriver-72 She js asked how to forget him bro😭
snowyjungle-82

N that is my reply

@silvergarden-37 W
sunnyjester-27

Yea that's how you lose interest in someone, there's a guy I liked too much but he never knew and stopped liking him the day I saw him greeting another girl by hugging her. So two things came in my mind he's a play boy that has many girls around or she's his gf and I disliked him

warmbridge-89

Remove old photos easy

@warmbridge-89 Remove old photos easy
silvergarden-37

pictures in ur head still

@silvergarden-37 pictures in ur head still
happyorange-74

Remove ur head

@sunnyjester-27 Yea that's how you lose interest in someone, there's a guy I liked too much but he never knew and s…
silvergarden-37

I basically do the same sht,
I just don't wanna be in a relationship yet so when I find myself crushing on anyone I just find a random reason.. one behaviour or habit.

@happyorange-74 Remove ur head
happycopper-20

i'm tweaking

happycopper-20

😭

@wildriver-72 She js asked how to forget him bro😭
rustyshadow-44 OP

for real:catcry: 🙏

@rustyshadow-44 cuz ik he's never gonna be minee HELPPP CHATT
livelyivory-92

Try drugs :cuteblob: :armscrossed:

@rustyshadow-44 for real 🙏
livelyivory-92

Everything fades and your feeling shall fade with time too peace ✌️

snowyanchor-72

I'll be someone's

snowyanchor-72

If you can cook me some bacon

snowyanchor-72

Because bacon taste good

snowyanchor-72

🥓

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