In Love With a Friend? How to Handle Unrequited Feelings

Summary

The FriendZone | Make Friends ⋅ Fun Chill Active Chat ⋅ VC Social Gaming ⋅ Memes ⋅ Nitro Emojis ⋅ Anime community recently held a deep discussion on navigating unrequited love within friendships. Members debated whether to distance themselves for emotional health or maintain the bond despite the pain. This thread highlights the importance of self-respect and setting boundaries, offering diverse perspectives on how to move forward while honoring past memories.

freshcandle-67 OP

what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
mintviolet-51

Well it depends do you think you can still be friends? If you think you can long term distance yourself a bit until your feelings for them go

If you can’t then honestly the best thing to do is move on and maybe block them so you’re not able to text them no more - if will hurt now but be best for long term

freshcandle-67 OP

But like I dont get it that why you should completely distance yourself from your friend because will not it be the disrespect of the bond you shared with him/her as a friend... What about the memories you spent with them??
Will it not be a harsh decision?

@mintviolet-51 Well it depends do you think you can still be friends? If you think you can long term distance your…
freshcandle-67 OP

But like I dont get it that why you should completely distance yourself from your friend because will it not be the disrespect of the bond you shared with him/her as a friend... What about the memories you spent with them?
Will it not be a harsh decision?

@freshcandle-67 But like I dont get it that why you should completely distance yourself from your friend because wi…
mintviolet-51

Sometimes you gotta put yourself first though depends if you tbink you can get over him romantically whilst still being friends if he don’t feel the same way

wittycandle-34

Maintain your distance until you feel you have moved on and resume communication

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
vividtiger-76

well

vividtiger-76

it really depends

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
wildmartin-15

Always put yourself first, put your self respect first.
Don't go for someone who loves you less than themselves, spend time with someone who loves you more than you- a freaking legend!!

@freshcandle-67 But like I dont get it that why you should completely distance yourself from your friend because wi…
wittycandle-34

Holding space to move on is necessary for your emotional well being and far from disrespectful

@wittycandle-34 Maintain your distance until you feel you have moved on and resume communication
happybeacon-57

Not very fair is it

happybeacon-57

You can’t just expect them to still want to be your friend after leaving with no explanation

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
wildknight-88

Just don't fall in love with a frnd
It's that easy

@wildknight-88 Just don't fall in love with a frnd It's that easy
mintviolet-51

Tbf rbis is how the best relationships start imo

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
ivorycandle-44

Accept that it's their choice too

@happybeacon-57 You can’t just expect them to still want to be your friend after leaving with no explanation
wittycandle-34

I didn't say I did. I'd personally move on too

wittycandle-34

:pepewtf:

@wittycandle-34 I didn't say I did. I'd personally move on too
happybeacon-57

You said resume communication buddy

wittycandle-34

Can't you read? It was a reply to op. It was clear that op wanted to keep in touch

wittycandle-34

Try again, fool

fleetwalrus-33

love your thinkinh

@mintviolet-51 Well it depends do you think you can still be friends? If you think you can long term distance your…
fleetwalrus-33

Funny seeing u here 🤌🤌🤌

@fleetwalrus-33 Funny seeing u here 🤌🤌🤌
mintviolet-51

Oh it’s the famous author hiii

@mintviolet-51 Oh it’s the famous author hiii
fleetwalrus-33

Giving me free shout outs wow, thank you thank you😂😂

@fleetwalrus-33 Giving me free shout outs wow, thank you thank you😂😂
mintviolet-51

No worries you won’t do the tiktoks so I’ll be your hype man instead

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
pearlguitar-88

Look for others?? Ik it's not that ez but you should try

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
lightsilver-62

well it can feel hard to let go, you also can't just unlike someone or try to view them as a friend, what I propose is that u threaten him with his life to date u, if he even hesitates stab him immediately

@lightsilver-62 well it can feel hard to let go, you also can't just unlike someone or try to view them as a friend…
freshcandle-67 OP

Bruh😭

@lightsilver-62 well it can feel hard to let go, you also can't just unlike someone or try to view them as a friend…
pearlguitar-88

That's the smartest idea I've heard since einstein was invented 👌

@pearlguitar-88 That's the smartest idea I've heard since einstein was invented 👌
lightsilver-62

thx bro🙏

@freshcandle-67 Bruh😭
lightsilver-62

the best advice there is

@lightsilver-62 the best advice there is
freshcandle-67 OP

👀👀

@freshcandle-67 👀👀
lightsilver-62

Can't be sure until u try

emberarcher-81

probably end self

azureumber-86

Try making it known that you’re exploring other options and maybe talk to him less for a bit to see how he reacts and if he realizes through missing you and talking to you that he actually has feelings for you. Sometimes you just gotta pull away a little for someone to lock in

azureumber-86

^

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
snowyorange-96

I would accept the fact they dont have feelings and move on

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
gentleunicorn-93

Double it and give it to the next person

@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
grandquiver-69

If they're a close friend with u then they might feel hurt if u decide to end the friendship just cos u feel romantic feelings for them, if ur not that close then maybe just be a bit distant without cutting it off until u feel that u've moved on

fleetwalrus-33

very true , very fair

grandquiver-53

You act like you never said anything and move on. Be their friend and dont be weird. If they dont want to talk to you anymore then thats okay too, but nobody is obligated to care or reciprocate those feelings.

vividtiger-76

i’d say move in

vividtiger-76

on

vividtiger-76

or just ignore

vividtiger-76

really just

vividtiger-76

do what’s best for u

lightsilver-62

I'll keep flirting and make them super uncomfortable then lash out at them

@lightsilver-62 I'll keep flirting and make them super uncomfortable then lash out at them
wittycandle-34

Stfu, no one wants you, torn groin

wittycandle-34

Stfu

@wittycandle-34 Stfu
lightsilver-62

bad girl no more candy for u

@lightsilver-62 bad girl no more candy for u
wittycandle-34

Stfu

@wittycandle-34 Stfu
lightsilver-62

shush shush

@lightsilver-62 shush shush
wittycandle-34

Stfu

@wittycandle-34 Stfu
lightsilver-62

someone is grumpy, and is bitching a lot

@lightsilver-62 someone is grumpy, and is bitching a lot
wittycandle-34

Stfu

@wittycandle-34 Stfu
lightsilver-62

jork me a bit

lightsilver-62

if u keep talking like this I'm shitting myself

merrycomet-77

:y_shook:

@lightsilver-62 if u keep talking like this I'm shitting myself
wittycandle-34

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@freshcandle-67 what should you do—approach them until they agree or end the friendship and move on?
sunnyhunter-71

Highly contextual ngl. Depends on how good our relationship is as friends.

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